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Abduction as Seduction

Posted on August 7, 2020 | by freakz

“Are you lost babygirl?”
-Massimo, 365 Days

Definition

Abduction as seduction is also known as forced seduction. It is a theme that is found in a lot of western literature, especially soap operas, where a woman is kidnapped or held against her will, forced into non-consensual romance or interactions, and then truly falls in love with her captor. It is basically the romance novel version of Stockholm Syndrome.

Abduction in romantic history

There are a lot of ancient cultures around that world that encouraged the abduction of women to become brides. This was more common among conquered people, where women would be married to the conquerors. This idea led to many a romance novel cover with the bare-chested man with his hair blowing in the wind holding the woman who is both pulling away and holding on to him as he captures her and steals her away. The handsome swarthy man wants to kidnap his reluctant and beautiful victim. Overtaken by her beauty, he succumbs to his physical desires and ultimately his emotions get the best of him and he falls in love. Meanwhile, though she is resisting him, she sees the vulnerability in her captor and the tenderness he shows her and she falls in love with him too.

Roleplay

Abduction as seduction is a very common roleplay fantasy. Most often it includes the abductee getting snatched from their room or when walking around and then taken somewhere unfamiliar and then they play at non-consensual sex, acting like the sex is unwanted and the abductor is forcing themselves on the abductee while they struggle and resist. Because of the potential for legitimate non-consent issues many people institute safe words. This is a word that when said causes all activity to stop, no matter what is going on. Using a safe word helps prevent any issues of real non-consent and lets the roleplay participants abduct and be abducted as much as they enjoy.

Babysitter

Posted on August 7, 2020 | by freakz

“Bribes and boy bands. That’s all you need to be a babysitter.”
-Mindy Kaling

Definition

Babysitters are usually college coeds that parents hire so they can go out on the town and have a good time. In terms of sexual fantasy they are often cute and completely clueless to their sex appeal. They usually seduce unwitting dads, and sometimes moms too, and once in a while an adult stepson or stepdaughter will get in on the action as well. Fucking the babysitter is one of the top fantasies reported by married guys because they don’t ever get to have much fun, so they live out their fantasies through hot porn movies that do it for them.

Why Babysitters?

Well, babysitters are in a unique position of intimacy with a family, especially if they are more like a nanny position who comes to the house every single day. They really get to know the parents, and since most babysitters are in the 18-22 age range, they are usually smoking hot. Sometimes they purposely wear hot outfits and try to tease and tantalize the dads, and in your fantasies they can end up getting more than they bargained for in the form of a good hard fucking.

Make it Your Own

Want to live out your own babysitter fantasy? Well, all it takes is a bit of roleplay. Even if your partner isn’t a college coed, she can still wear some cute pigtails and short shorts to play the part of a clueless nanny. Then you just play the part of a horny dad who wants to fuck her and then the role play can begin! It’s really easy and the hardest part might be finding someone to fuck if you don’t already have one. Keep in mind, some people don’t like to do babysitter roleplay so you should always talk about it first before jumping into it.

Dirty Sanchez

Posted on August 5, 2020 | by freakz

“If it is the dirty element that gives pleasure to the act of lust, then the dirtier it is, the more pleasurable it is bound to be.”
-Marquis de Sade

Definition

The Dirty Sanchez is a nasty act that can occur when ass to mouth action happens. It’s basically when a guy fucks someone in the ass good and hard. So hard in fact, that something dirty gets on his cock. Then he turns his babe around and sticks his dick in her mouth, and some of the nastiness gets on her pretty visage. Then she leaves it on there because she is so into the dirty sex act that she doesn’t even care that her face is dirty with a gross, smelly substance. This term particularly refers to when it appears that the girl has a mustache on her face from the act.

Yuck or Yum?

The Dirty Sanchez is a big no-no to many people, but for others, they can’t help but love it. It all depends on how comfortable you are with the other person and that type of activity. Some people find that the more gross, taboo or physically dirty something is, the more they love it, but if it’s not something that you are interested in, there is no need to go there. On the other side of that, never surprise someone with a Dirty Sanchez. That’s just not nice.

Safety

As with anything involving fluid exchanges, it’s always best to know the status of your partner before you engage in anything. It’s an easy conversation to have and these days testing takes only a few days to get the results. If you’re craving some nasty sexy times, it is really the best practice. It might not be a fun conversation but you’ll feel a lot safer and happier when you know each other’s status.

Cameltoe

Posted on August 5, 2020 | by freakz

“I was surprised at how little cameltoe problem there was.”
-Jennifer Lawrence

Definition

Cameltoe is a unique situation that some people think is a nuisance and other people think is something super hot that they fetishize. It’s basically what can happen when a girl wears a tight pair of pants or a pair of skintight leggings. Sometimes the fabric is just too tight and it grips the pussy in just the right way that you can see a perfect outline of her pussy lips, and maybe even some other details too, depending on what her anatomy is like. Some girls find this uncomfortable but others love it, because it feels kind of good and stimulates them down there too!

The Fetish

People who have a fetish for cameltoes love them for a few different reasons. First of all, it’s simple to see that catching a glimpse of the outline of a chick’s pussy would be stimulating to some people. In addition, for others it’s more about the vulnerability displayed. Sometimes a beautiful woman doesn’t know when she has cameltoe, and she is unwittingly displaying her most private organ for all to see, at least the outline anyways. They love this aspect of it because they feel like a voyeur, peeping on something they are not supposed to see.

What to Do

If you meet someone who has a cameltoe fetish and you’re a chick who wants to please them, there are a few things you can do to drive them absolutely wild. First of all, there are certain types of panties that are more prone to a hot cameltoe, such as cotton panties and boyshort style underwear. In addition, yoga pants are a classic way to get guys to look at your pussy, as are certain types of leggings. If you want to really drive him wild, get your leggings a size too small and then walk around the house!

Demisexual

Posted on August 5, 2020 | by freakz

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”
-Dr. Seuss

Definition

Someone who is demisexual doesn’t usually feel sexual attraction, however, if they form a close emotional bond with someone then they might start to feel some sexiness getting started in their loins. Most people who are demisexual say that they have only ever felt attracted to a few people in their whole life, and some of them have only felt attracted to just one person. Some of them are also even demiromantic, meaning that they don’t even form a romantic connection with someone until meaningful friendship happens.

How Do You Know?

How will you know if you are demisexual? Well, if you aren’t really sexually active or interested in sex then you may already know you are on the asexual spectrum, which is what this identity is a part of. If you are demisexual, you may think you are asexual for a while, until you develop an important relationship with someone who will awaken the sexual desires that do live within you. Don’t be afraid of these sudden urges, as they are really fun to explore with someone who you trust.

Meeting Like-minded People

If you are demisexual, then you may want to hang out with other people who are on the asexual spectrum because they can relate to your specific issues and thoughts in life. You can always look online to find asexual meetups and clubs in your area in which you can talk to other people. If you’re new to realizing that this is how you are in life you can get tips and advice from people who have been living in this identity for much longer. There is always strength in community, and as this is a newer field of research and study in sexuality, finding people with real life experience can be a great thing.

Acrotomophilia

Posted on August 5, 2020 | by freakz

“The only disability in life is a bad attitude.”
-Scott Hamilton

Definition

Acrotomophilia, otherwise known as handicapped fetish, is when someone has a sexual desire to be with people who are differently abled. They may love people who use wheelchairs, or perhaps they like people who are in casts or on crutches. Those who might have a more extreme version of this fetish may like people who are missing limbs or who have a prosthetic limb. Others might fantasize about having one of their own limbs removed.

Devotees, Pretenders and Wannabes

The above three categories are the different types of player you can be in this unique but not unusual fetish. A devotee is someone who is not disabled but is sexually attracted to people who are. Many of them have a specific disability that they enjoy, while others simply like to take care of someone who is disabled in general, and they get sexual satisfaction from that. Pretenders pretend that they are disabled for sexual pleasure. They might use a wheelchair or crutches during a play scene. Wannabes are those who actually want to be disabled.

Why People Like It

Many people speculate that those that are into wheelchair, amputee and other disability fetishes are attracted to them for similar reasons to BDSM or bondage. The disabled person in their minds is helpless. Devotees are like doms, caring for and to some extent controlling the bottom. Wannabes and pretenders are like subs, putting themselves at the mercy of a devotee.

Amputee Fetish

This fetish is often enjoyed by many who don’t consider themselves to be fans of disability. It might be because it is simply so wrong and taboo to fixate on someone’s maiming or difference, that it is easy to fetishize it. Amputees also have a whole new level of helplessness that some devotees truly get off on. However, those who are wannabes of the amputee fetish can find themselves in a dangerous situation if they go to any lengths to actually enact their fantasies.

Stuck Fetish / Confinement

Posted on August 5, 2020 | by freakz

“What if I’m stuck here, forever?”
-Kathryn Stockett

Definition

A confinement or stuck fetish is a fetish for people getting stuck in any kind of situation. Some people have specific fetishes like a glue fetish or a getting stuck in furniture fetish, but others just enjoy the idea of anyone trapped in place for any period of time. This fetish is definitely related to bondage, but it is a little different, because it refers to moments when the person is not only physically vulnerable, but also emotionally vulnerable because the fantasy situations are often a surprise or a chaotic moment.

How To

It’s not the best idea to actually superglue someone to the floor, or to get them hopelessly stuck forever in a piece of furniture, however you can turn to fetish videos in order to get some inspiration. From there you can learn about different concoctions that make a person feel and appear stuck, but are easy to clean off or dissolve when the play is over. There are some safer options for beginning play, such as using small chairs that you know you’d be able to help your sub out of when it’s time for the roleplay to end. Other options are to have them get stuck in tight clothing that is hard to remove without the use of scissors if you like to watch someone struggle. Confinement play can involve locations or emotional restraints as well. The fetish is focused on the general concept of confinement and that can include anything from FinDom financial constraints to physical ropes and locked boxes.

Be Safe

Safety is always paramount in many fetishes, but especially in the stuck fetish there are many things you need to consider. If you’re in public enacting something, you will want to make sure that you will be able to help the person get out, so you don’t have to use public resources like police or ambulance services unless you really need to. As a sub, you should make sure to play with someone you know and trust, so you can be sure they will help you get out when it is the time!

Transformation Fetish

Posted on July 31, 2020 | by freakz

“Teach him to mess with a man and his mannequin.”
-Mannequin, The Movie

Definition

Someone has a transformation fetish when they are sexually aroused by the description or actual transformation of a person into something else. The community of transformation fetishists are known as the TF community or TF fans. This term can also reference non-sexual interest in transformation. Though there are BDSM related TF fans, the transformation fetish is not necessarily centered around BDSM.

The Transformations

The transformation fetish is varied when it comes to what people transform into. Dollification is a popular transformation fetish, but transformations can include transforming into animals, into supernatural beings, or a more elaborate roleplay where someone is cursed with a spell. The transformation can even be a Jekyll and Hyde type of transformation, where it is more of a character or personality shift rather than a physical transformation. The transformations can be to get older or younger, age regression or age progression, or a way to engage with gender fluidity.

In the Movies

We see transformations in the movies all the time – look at the wave of vampire, zombie, and supernatural movies that have come out en masse since the early 2000’s. The most obvious transformation fetish movie was the move Mannequin. In 1987, the movie Mannequin came out, where a mannequin would come to life at night but only to one person. He fell in love with her and everyone thought he was crazy until she turned into a real person. It is like the romantic sexual version of Pinnochio or the Velveteen Rabbit. And what is the most popular transformation fetish holiday? Halloween, of course.

Scene

Posted on July 31, 2020 | by freakz

“Real art is basic emotion. If a scene is handled with simplicity- and I don’t mean simple- it’ll be good.”
-John Wayne

Definition

A scene refers to a pre-planned and agreed upon BDSM activity. It is called a scene because there is a beginning, middle, and end. During the scene the Dom and sub are playing their roles as a Dom and a sub. Often many of the overall plans of the scene are discussed beforehand so both Dom and sub know what to expect. Details may be discussed, especially in terms of what people may be asked to do and what their limits are. A scene may have people watching or it could be private. Alternatively, “the scene” may also refer to the BDSM community.

Planning a Scene

What makes a scene a scene is the pre-planning. But how do you go about doing that? How do you plan a scene? Everyone is different and has their own preferences but here are some things to keep in mind when planning:

What are your goals for the scene?
How do you want to feel?
What roles does each person want to take?
What activities do you want to participate in?
What are your limits?
What is the safe word?
Do we have a non-verbal safe sign?
How do you act if you are distressed?
Do you have any triggers?
What kind of aftercare do you like?
What is the best way to comfort you?
When was your last STD panel?
Do you have any health issues?

Communication Matters

The more experienced you are with your partner, the less you will have to discuss. Communication is key no matter what, but you may be able to skip things like questions on health issues and safe words as those will be already known and established. It is always a good idea to discuss any changes from one scene to the next. For instance, if any person noticed a potential new sign for distress or a new trigger, it is important to let everyone know. Even established partners should revisit all the questions from time to time to make sure that they are on the same page.

Sub-Drop

Posted on July 31, 2020 | by freakz

“A man must learn to give a little space
A peaceful state, a submissive trait
A man must learn to gently dominate”
-Rush

Definition

A sub-drop is the physical and emotional drop a submissive feels after an intense BDSM scene. It is called a drop because the sensation can literally feel like you were dropped. Physically it is the coming down from the endorphins released during the scene. Emotionally it is coming down from the emotional highs, or lows, and starting the emotional processing post BDSM scene.

Feelings

When a Dom and a sub do a scene or any BDSM play together, it can be an intensely emotional experience. Often a sub will experience a variety of emotions that can swing from elation to deep sadness. Many people use BDSM scenes as a way to release emotion or work through emotional issues. After the scene is completed the sub can often experience a sub-drop where they are particularly emotionally vulnerable. The intensity of the individual emotions has passed but the sub-drop is the onset of the culmination of the emotional experience. This can be emotionally overwhelming.

Aftercare

Aftercare is one of the most important parts of a BDSM scene. This is the time when the Dom brings out their compassion and emotionally and physically takes care of the sub. Aftercare can be as simple as wrapping the person in a blanket and holding them, talking about the experience and what feels came out, tending to any physical needs if any wounds or bruising occurred, to going through a full detailed recount of what happened. Every sub will need different forms of aftercare and every scene will lead to different experiences which will require different kinds of after care. What you don’t want to happen is the sub to experience sub-drop alone and uncared for. This can lead to emotional trauma instead of emotional healing. Remember that a BDSM scene is ultimately about the connection between the Dom and the sub. The stronger the connection, the better the scene. Supporting the sub through the sub-drop is an extremely important part of the scene.