Indian

“I don’t think India is a sex-starved nation.”

-Sunny Leone

Definition

Indian women are often considered exotic and beautiful, but people really don’t know much about their culture. There are actually a lot of different cultures in India and they all have different rules about sex and sexuality, though most of them are quite conservative. However, there are some Indian women who break those stereotypes and they are quite controversial. Indian women are known for their tan skin, beautiful brown and black hair and lovely almond-shaped brown eyes. Indian porn is a pretty popular niche these days because the country is becoming more open to people making porn movies.

Popular Indians in Pop Culture

One of the most famous Indians to porn enthusiasts is Sunny Leone. She used to be a pornstar and then she moved back to India to become a hot Desi Bollywood star. She has found a great deal of success even though most of the roles she has played thus far are theatrical versions of her own self. Another girl you might know about is the popular Indian pornstar Priya Rai. She is super sexy! She started in the porn biz back in 2007, and since she was 29 already at the time she has a bit of a MILF flavoring. Nadia Nyce is another Indian pornstar who is a clear classic. She was mostly popular in the 90s but she left her mark on everyone’s memory.

Finding an Indian Partner

If you want to try dating someone who is Indian you should just do it already! There are online dating sites that are specifically for Indian people and you can find either a guy or a girl to date there. There are some stereotypes about Indian people that you should ignore because you need to remember that everyone is an individual person with their own thoughts and interests. And no, Indian people don’t all smell like curry, so just forget that idea right now!

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Jeans

“I wish I had invented jeans, they have expression, modesty, sex appeal and simplicity.”

-Yves St. Laurent

Definition

Blue jeans were invented by Levi Strauss and Jacob Davis in the 1800s. They are pants made from denim. They were actually named after the city of Genoa in Italy, where the original denim fabric was made, and it was called Jean. Levi was a dry goods merchant and Jacob was a tailor. He bought a bunch of denim from Levi to make sturdy pants that would hold up in wild west. The pants were a success and a big business partnership was born that still survives to this day. Everyone wears jeans and it’s no surprise that some people have a fetish for these durable and fashionable garments, as they look great on everyone.

Jeans Fetish

Some people actually have a jeans fetish. It may have stemmed from seeing some hot chicks wearing denim early on in life but it can also just develop randomly. When you have this fetish you would probably rather fuck someone on the outside of their pants if they are wearing jeans! It’s not selfish if that’s the way you’d like to get off. It’s an easy fetish to apply because you can always just buy your lover a nice pair of blue jeans and then fuck them! You won’t have to buy any expensive fetish equipment or anything like that.

Blue Jeans Porn

It’s actually fairly easy to find blue jeans porn. Jeans are something pornstars often wear simply because it is the way that people dress in this day and age. They might wear blue jeans as pants, denim shorts, and maybe even a jean jacket to keep them warm on a cold day. It’s really easy for just about anyone to find jeans and denim to wear, so you’re in luck if this is what you’re into.

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Japanese

“The weak are meat; the strong eat.”
弱肉強食

-Ancient Japanese Idiom

Definition

Japanese means anything that comes from the Eastern country of Japan, a series of islands far out in the Pacific Ocean. This country is known for its attention to detail and love of perfection in many different ways. They are a very sexual people but in somewhat unconventional ways. Japan is where rope bondage came from, and it is also where a lot of other sexual practices originated. Their porn is weird but strangely they are also a somewhat conservative country so all of the best parts of the porn – the cock and pussy are always blurred out. There are some authentic Japanese sites that avoid this somehow but they are few and far between.

The Girls

Japanese girls are adorable. They have beautiful brown almond-shaped eyes. They often walk knock-kneed because they think it is cute. When they get fucked they first mew like they are shy but then they moan and scream just like any other type of babe. Japanese girls are often petite with small breasts and hairy pussies, but with the spread of western culture more and more of them are coming to the scene with fake tits and shaved snatches. One of the most popular authentic Japanese pornstars in Marica Hase. She came to the US as a successful Japanese star and her fame only grew even more.

JAV

JAV stands for Japanese Adult Video. Anytime you see this you know you will be getting authentic Japanese porn. No Chinese smut, or Filipina porn mixed in. Just pure Japanese sex films! A major theme in JAV is a college schoolgirl wearing the traditional Japanese sailor schoolgirl outfit. There are also other themes that can honestly get kind of weird but that’s what everyone loves about it.

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Knife Play

“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.”

-Franklin Delano Roosevelt

Definition

Knife play is a kind of fear play in which a trusted top takes a sharp blade and uses it on the submissive. It doesn’t really involve actually cutting the submissive, rather, it involves the fear of the blade, the sensations of the cool metal on the skin and the knowledge that the sub has to stay very, very still. In some scenes, the knife can be used to cut off the clothing, lightly scratch the skin, leaving quick fading white marks, or to peel off wax after a wax scene. Knife blades can be cooled off in the freezer or heated up to a certain degree for extra sensation.

Take Care

Knife play is a pretty safe activity if you are playing with a top who knows what they are doing. Of course trust is paramount and any sub should never do knife play with someone who is not trustworthy, and that includes people that you don’t know very well. If you’re doing temperature play with a knife, make sure that it is not so cold that it will stick to the skin, and that it is not so hot that it will burn. If you’re the top, you need to be aware that reactions to knife play can be very emotionally intense and the sub might require a lot of aftercare. It’s a form of play that is very intimate and scary, but rewarding in the right situation.

The Equipment

There are some kinky companies out there that make special knives that are just for sexual play. These have shiny blades, but the actual edge is a bit dull and the knife isn’t very pointy. Often times these knives are decorated in a ceremonious manner, which can add a fun aspect to the play. You don’t need to buy a special knife for knife play, as you can simply get a somewhat dull knife and play with it yourself. Having a special blade does add a nice element to any knife play session.

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Virtual Reality

“It could always all be unreal – how could you ever tell otherwise?”

-Iain M. Banks

Definition

Virtual reality is not inherently sexual, but it is a new technology that is being used for a very hot purpose. There is now a plethora of virtual reality porn being made with the release of Oculus, Samsung Gear and Google Cardboard VR headsets. How it works with some of them is that you just plug your smartphone into the device and you can then see hot VR porn movies. Others are their own closed systems that you can plug into another device to get the videos you want to see. It covers your eyes and puts you into an immersive world where it seems like the sexy action is really happening.

The Different Headsets

If you want to try VR porn, there are three main options for headsets these days. Oculus Rift is the one that is owned by Facebook, and it was the first one to come out. It is quite pricey, so if that’s a concern for you, you may want to go with one of the other options, but some people like it because they are starting to come out with a lot of peripherals for it. The Samsung Gear VR is powered by Oculus technology, but it is much more affordable. Finally Google Cardboard is the most affordable option as they designed it so that pretty much anyone could get one, since it’s literally made out of cardboard, and you just use your smartphone with it.

Why Virtual Reality?

Many people think that VR is going to be the future of the porn industry. This is because it gives users a more immersive experience and they can really feel like they are in the same room as the pornstar who is giving them a show. It’s kind of like extreme POV, and most virtual reality movies are shot from POV perspective, giving an even more realistic feeling to the users. The hottest pornstars have decided to give VR a try so you should do it too!

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Urethral Play

“I like people who shake other people up and make them feel uncomfortable.”

-Jim Morrison

Definition

The thought of urethral play makes a lot of people feel uncomfortable, but it is something that a lot of people truly enjoy. It is basically any type of play that involves sticking something inside of a person’s urethra. This type of play is fairly easy to do for any freak but it does involve some basic training to avoid injury and infection. People enjoy it because it is super freaky and also because it feels really good to some. For others, it feels like garbage and either one is OK.

You Want to Stick What Where?!

Urethral play typically involves sticking sounds, which are basically metal probes into the urethra. Some people just like having that pee hole plugged up, while others actually like to have it stretched out. Catheterization for sexual play is also part of this category, though that adds another level to things, because that also means that your bladder will be controlled. Sounding can be enjoyed by anyone but it is often enjoyed by people in BDSM relationships.

Safety

Urethral play is one of the more dangerous activities of sexual play, but the typical ill effects that can occur are relatively minor and are usually easy to heal up. These include minor urethral tears, irritation and urinary tract infections. The most serious of these is a UTI, because if it goes unchecked for too long, then it could turn into a bladder or kidney infection. Watch for symptoms of burning when urinating, frequency of urination and urgency in urination needs to tell if you have a UTI. These are typically more common in women than men, but with urethra play men can get them just as much. If you think you have one and you start to get a fever, go to an urgent care or emergency room immediately because it could be the onset of a kidney infection. With proper sterilization, you can easily avoid these problems with urethral play.

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Upskirt

“It was a miraculous thing to be able to watch the person you love undetected,”

-Ann Patchett

Definition

An upskirt is a specific type of camera angle that is sometimes seen in porn movies but is more often used by creepers on the street. It is also an upwards glance into a woman’s skirt when she is on the stairs in front of you in a busy subway station or other spot where you might find yourself in this situation. There is a lot of porn designed to emulate the sudden nature of upskirt shots, and they usually fall under the fetish of voyeurism, so if you’ve been wanting to see something like this, look that up!

When It’s Not Nice

Doing an upskirt shot for real without someone’s knowledge is not that cool. Some creeps go as far as putting mirrors on their shoes so they can look up the skirts of any girl they come across. If you want to catch a glimpse, it’s not really illegal, but being so purposeful may make someone notice your endeavors. Never take a picture of someone’s cooter without their consent, so it’s better to find a friend who will oblige your upskirt fantasies when you are at home or even out on the town. You will have more fun when you both know that you are into the fantasy. All it takes is a short and flirty skirt and a fuck friend who is willing to oblige.

Fantasy Ideas

If you really want to explore your upskirt fantasies, get your fun friend to come and visit. Pick out the perfect outfit for them to go out with you in. Maybe it’s a flirty cheer uniform and maybe it is just a short skirt and a sexy blouse. Then you should go to a place that has a lot of stairs. There are lots of parks that might have this, and a lot of tourist attractions in major cities are all about climbing stairs. Have your sexy friend go ahead of you and just look up! You’ll get the glimpse you were hoping for.

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Dental Dams

“Safe sex is an act of self love.”

-Miya Yamanouchi

Definition

Dental dams are a safer sex object that helps people who want to lick pussy and play with them but don’t necessarily know the testing status of the girl, or have something they want to protect them from. There is also a known usage of dental dams for anal licking jobs for obvious reasons. The dental dam is quite useful and it is also a very simple idea. It is a sheet of latex or nitrile material that can be placed over something to prevent transfer of fluids. It is also used in dentistry for a variety of reasons, but people saw it’s uses for sex pretty soon after it was introduced for that.

How to Use

Using a dental dam is really easy. All you have to do is open the package the dam has come in, and then spread it over your partner’s pussy or asshole. You may want to put some lube on the side that is going on your partner because it can make it feel a little better. Then you just have to lick! You should also make sure that no tears or holes are in the dam for maximum protection. Then just follow your instincts as to how to make your partner have an orgasm. The sensation for a dental dam is a little different than straight up oral sex but nothing is sexier than safer sex!

Alternatives

If you don’t have an official dental dam lying around you can always use a few alternatives. First of all, if you have a latex or nitrile glove you can cut it open and use it as a barrier. You can also cut open a brand new condom or female condom to use as a barrier. Finally, if you have plastic wrap (the non-microwavable kind) that actually can serve as an impromptu barrier as well. Safer sex is better sex with these tools that most people have lying around their house waiting to be sexualized in a freaky way!

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G-Spot

“My God, a moment of bliss.”

-Fyodor Dostoyevsky

Definition

The G-Spot is an anatomical spot on a woman that can give her a lot of pleasure. For many women it helps them to squirt, and finding the g-spot is a sexual revolution that brings them lots of pleasure. It stands for the Graffenburg spot, named for the German gynecologist who discovered it. It is actually controversial for some, because a lot of guys don’t even believe that it exists. However, the women who know how to make themselves cum hard know that it does in fact exist, but it might be different in every woman. Most people believe that it is connected to the bundle of nerves that make the clitoris so pleasurable.

How to Find It

If you want to give your girl a big orgasm, then you will find it pretty easily. All you have to do is stick your fingers in your chick’s hole. Usually the pointer and middle finger will do. Then you curl your fingers upwards until you feel a harder spot on the top of the vagina that feels a little spongy. This is usually the g-spot and when you hear your hottie shouting “YES right there!” then you will know you have found it. Don’t be surprised if she starts squirting because stimulating the g-spot helps a lot of women do just that.

G-Spot Toys

If you are a chick flying solo, or simply a guy who wants to give a girl some extra pleasure on the g-spot, there are special toys that can do just that. They are usually curved so that they can reach the perfect spot to touch in order to get that good orgasm, and some of them vibrate at the same time to give the g-spot that extra special buzz. If you’re dating a chick, you better believe the g-spot is real, and helping your girlfriend have g spot orgasms will win you major points in the sack.

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Asexual

“Never has she been subdued in lovemaking by Aphrodite, lover of smiles, For she takes pleasure in the bow and arrows”

-Homeric Hymn #5 to Aphrodite

Definition

Someone who is asexual is a person who doesn’t really have any interest in sex at all. Instead they tend to pursue platonic relationships that have nothing to do with sex. They may not even have a sexual orientation because they might not be attracted to anyone at all. Unlike other people who abstain from sex because they have strong religious beliefs, asexual people really don’t have any desires or sexual urges. Some people who are asexual still do have sex because they want to fit into social norms, and perhaps have a family or pleasure their partners, but many just live their lives without any type of sexuality.

AVEN

There is a network called the Asexual Visibility and Education Network which is a resource center on the net for people who think the might be asexual or for people who want to learn more about this unique way of being. It is a very supportive organization that doesn’t try to put too many barriers on what constitutes as asexual. They basically say that if you feel like you want to use that term to describe yourself then go ahead and do it.

Romance

People who are asexual also have romantic identities because they might interact with the world more through the lense of romance than sex. Someone who is asexual can be biromantic – meaning interested in romance with people of male or female identities, heteroromantic, homoromantic, panromantic and even aromantic. People who are both aromantic and asexual don’t have lonely lives because they may fill their time with fun friends and people who love them in a more platonic way. Even though asexuality might seem strange to people who are involved in our sex crazed society, they’ve always been around in the form of old maids or single guys who didn’t mind the pioneer lifestyle which required them to be alone in the woods for their whole lives. Some freaky people enjoy the challenge of trying to convert asexual partners by creating elaborate sexual relationships in the hope of eventually turning them on. Whether they succeed or fail to accomplish that goal, the fun is in trying to reach the unreachable!

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