Intercrural Fucking

“Let me shipwreck in your thighs.”

-Dylan Thomas

Definition

Intercrural fucking is a fancy way to say thigh fucking. It’s when a guy takes his dick and sticks it in the fleshy area near a woman’s genitals. Some women have a thigh gap that makes this more ideal for fucking, but others can just lube up their thighs and make a happy home for any phallus to pass through. Also known as a thigh job, because it happens in between the thighs, it’s important to keep in mind this practice usually foreplay rather than a replacement for sex. If you give someone a thigh job you had better also work to get them off afterwards, though in some instances couples rely on intercrural sex to supplement their libido if a woman is unable for medical reasons to have vaginal sex due to a recent surgery or some other inhibiting factor. It is also sometimes known as the “Ivy League Rub” because it is one of the first experimental activities gay guys get info when they go off to college.

Why The Thigh?

Lots of people give thigh jobs for reasons of fertility. If you don’t cum inside of a pussy, there is a much lower risk of getting pregnant. In addition, sometimes a guy uses intercrural sex as a way to stimulate the clitoris because they fuck in between the thighs and brush over the clit based on the direction that they go in. Otherwise, some people who have a leg fetish try it because they just love legs so much that they want to have sex with them!

History

Thigh fucking was very popular in homosexual relationships in Ancient Greece. This is because anal sex was considered demeaning to the person receiving it, and the guys needed to have some way to get it on together. Throughout history gays have been trying it if they weren’t really into butt sex, and it is even rumored that Oscar Wilde preferred this act to other forms of sex. Nowadays it’s just something that anyone can try and it is easy to do so. If you feel like giving it a shot, just put some lube on your thighs and make it happen!

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Kunyaza

“A woman’s orgasm is such a fragile thing.”

-Megan Hart

Definition

Kunyaza is a sexual practice from East Africa meant to help women have orgasms easier. It originated in an area that now encompasses the countries of Rwanda, Burundi, Uganda, Tanzania and the DRC. The tradition started only 100 years ago, when the rumor was that a queen wanted to fuck one of her guards. He couldn’t say no to his queen, but he was so nervous that he couldn’t get his dick in her pussy, and instead he rubbed it on the outside of her box while only semi-hard. She thought it felt so good that it developed into a popular practice among mates in the region.

How To Kunyaza

Kunyaza is a fetish centered on the idea of a guy rubbing his semi-hard dick against the clit and labia of his female lover. There is actually an order of operations. First, the guy stimulates the pussy lips for a while with his dick. Then when arousal starts to happen, he stimulates the clit as well as the entrance to the vagina. It sounds like a big tease that similar to any regular sex session, and also has some things in common with tantra. In many cases, this is done along with the local practice of labia stretching, which some say makes the labia more sensitive. Kunyaza is said to also cause a higher likelihood that the females involved will be able to squirt orgasmically during sex.

Cultural Significance

In Rwanda, a woman is not necessarily considered sexually successful unless she can squirt, and this practice tends to help with that requirement. Even though in the west we think that stimulating the g-spot is the best way to reach squirting orgasms, African cultures have discovered this other way. Perhaps it’s simply that the arousal has to grow stronger and then women are more likely to squirt because their desire is simply higher. The fact is, more foreplay is always better, and your cock is a much more sensitive appendage to use for pre-heating her vagina than any boney finger or sharp fingernail could ever be in real practice.

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Mile High Club

“Thank God men cannot fly, and lay waste the sky as well as the earth.”

-Henry David Thoreau

Definition

Joining the Mile High Club is easy. Having sex in an airplane when it is at least one mile up in the sky is the traditional definition. Considering that a mile is just a bit more than 5,000 feet up, and most airplanes fly at a height of 30,000 feet or more, you will probably be a few miles up in the sky when you fuck during a flight for the first time! Most airplanes are considered public spaces, so you have to be very discreet and careful in how you go about getting laid on an airplane unless you are one of the financial elite who can get a private jet to take them wherever they want to go.

How To Fuck Mid Flight

If you’re already sitting next to your partner, you will want to talk about doing it before hand. You can then start with a little foreplay at your the seat. Just use her hands and throw a sweater over her lap, or get a blanket from the stewardess for her and then start fingering beneath the fabric. This is necessary because if you spend too much time in the airplane toilet area you’ll end up getting caught! Once you are ready to fuck, head to the toilet and spend no more than 5 or 6 minutes pounding her holes. Make sure she is quiet and use the stopwatch on your phone to keep the time short. Most importantly of all, be sure that she swallows every drop of your cum, or pump it deep inside one of her other holes. There is no excuse for leaving jizz on the toilet seat or floor of a frequently used public bathroom. If necessary she can sit on the toilet seat while cleaning the remaining cum off your cock with her mouth.

Flight Sex Tips

It’s best to join the Mile High Club if you are flying on an overnight flight. This is because most of the people will be sleeping, or trying to sleep. Also, if you can afford the extra dough, get a business or first class seat. This is because the bathrooms in the cabin for the rich people are bigger and have more space, as well as less people who want to use them at the same time. Also be sure to ask for a water from the flight attendant before you fuck. That way you have a water to wash up with or as a chaser for the cumshot she swallowed when you are done. Finally, don’t brag about your hot exploits until you’re off the plane. Half the fun of being in the mile high club is getting away with it.

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Nanpa

“It is impossible to remain indifferent to Japanese Culture.”

-Alain Ducasse

Definition

Nanpa is a unique type of flirting and seduction that is popular in Japan right now. It mainly refers to when men pursue women, but when the opposite happens it is called gyakunan. The term basically means “girl hunting” and it refers to when guys don’t feel like talking about work or scholarly pursuits, but would rather focus on the lighter things in life like girls who giggle and look cute all the time. It comes in the form of groups of guys gathering in person and approaching live Japanese girls in the hopes of scoring a date.

Does it Work?

Well, outside of Japan, and especially in the US, approaching a woman as a group of guys might seem kind of scary to the girl involved, but it can be done, if you do it with respect and have a genuine appreciation for her. Don’t make it about how hot she is, make it about how you’re looking to meet someone new and she seems interesting, and no matter how attractive you think she is – always start with a simple and non-threatening line of introduction. If you find yourself in Japan, you will see that there are mixed feeling about Nanpa from girls who are approached often. The strange part of this freaky behavior is that prior to the Internet this was considered the normal way to meet a mate, but now that everyone is using their phone or computer to match make, just walking up to a girl with your friends is starting to be seen as abnormal by some ladies.

Nanpa Fun or Sexual Harassment?

In Japan, Nanpa is often banned from certain places because ladies want to be able to move through the world without being asked out all the time. They hope to be seen as more than just datable or sexual creatures, and they want to be taken seriously. However, other women love the attention that nanpa brings to them and they think it is a whole lot of fun. You’ll have to try it yourself to determine if you think it is all in good fun, or if it is something that crosses a line and makes people mad.

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Facesitting

“The ass is the face of the soul of sex.”

-Charles Bukowski

Definition

Facesitting is exactly what it sounds like. It’s mainly done when someone with a pussy sits her snatch down right on top of a guy or girl’s face. Depending on how dominant and aggressive she is, this may turn into a smothering session where the bottom’s intake of air is completely dependent on how generous the girl on top is feeling. She might even use her ass if it is big enough to smother the guy and make him sniff her special booty scent, depending on how sadistic she is feeling.

Face sitting Tools

If you’re into facesitting you should know that there are some tools that can help you. There are furniture items called face sitting stools, which can be a simple box with an opening for the face to poke through or much more ornate custom pieces crafted by face-sitting artisans. A proper stool makes it much more pleasurable for the Dom because then they don’t have to physically support themself while squatting down on the face of their sub for hours at a time! The stool is also sometimes known as a smotherbox because usually it makes the Domme more in control since it makes it so that the submissive can not pull their head away as they would be able to without such a cruel tool.

Smothering Safety

Since your gasping sub will probably not be able to speak when you are sitting on their face and demanding their pleasure, you should come up with a specific sound or motion that will let you know they are using the safeword signal. A knock on the floor with a hand or a specific sequence of grunts – like three in a row – would be a perfect safeword for this type of scenario. Also, even though you want to be mean you definitely need to let your bottom breathe once in awhile! If you’re playing this way, you should also be well versed in CPR in case you encounter any serious health problems like fainting that can occur.

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Tantra

“The feeling of being alive and at One with everything is available through Tantra.”

-Philip Smith

Definition

Tantra is the ancient Indian art of sexuality. It is where the infamous book the Kama Sutra originated which people still look at today to find out what sex positions are best. It was developed around the year 500 and people still turn to it today to get the most out of their sex lives if they have been looking for something new that also includes a bit of spirituality. It is mostly thought of as a practice that leads to enhanced pleasure and even emotional connection between two people in its modern form.

Trying Tantric Sex

If you are interested in learning more about tantra it is best to go to a local group, club or getting a book. There is a lot of information to take in and it is often best to learn from someone who is like a guru, who can help you connect to the energy you desire. The main focus of tantric sex is prolonging the pleasure of the experience, because that is where the energy forms that connects two people together. Some advanced tantric players do not cum for prolonged periods of time, although that is not always how people do things.

The Players

Female professional tantric practitioners are often called Tantrikas. They are people who have studied the art of tantra, probably in India, and they meet with people professionally to help them connect with their inner energy and improve their sex lives. Another term for this type of person is a Dakini. A male who is a tantric practitioner is known as a Daka. These are people who consider themselves able to even transform the different types of energy flowing through the body into sexual energy in the best possible way!

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Pearl Necklace

“Coco Chanel used to talk about wearing more than one string of pearls. Why wear one if you can wear two?”

-C. Joybell C.

Definition

A pearl necklace is a thing that some sexy people do for the cumshot after a hot sexual experience. It’s basically when a guy gets so excited that he releases his jizz onto the neck, chest or boobs of a chick, where her cute pearl necklace would normally go. Pearl Necklace is a great move because you can really do it after any type of sex act which includes blowjobs, tit fucking, and good old fashioned pussy pounding. Find out if you like it or not by giving it a try. It’s a rumor that jizz is good for the skin too!

How to Try It

If you have never done a pearl necklace with your partner before, you should ask them what they think about it. If they seem like they might be open to it, or maybe if they are curious about it, you could show them some porn videos with pearl necklace cumshots because they are so easy to find. You could also simply describe the act to them, and see if they are into it. Of all the kinky things you could try, it’s really quite tame, but some women do think that it is almost humiliating or slightly degrading, so if they are not into that, they may not like this idea, however, most chicks would be open to it. Once you have the OK, just let it fly free!

It’s Pretty Safe

The great thing about a pearl necklace cumshot is that it is pretty safe. If you are fucking without a condom, there will be a greatly reduced chance of pregnancy if you pull out and then squirt your load on her chest or neck. However, if you’re fucking without condoms then you should also know that you both have to have the STI talk because there would still be fluid contact even if you don’t cum inside of her. A pearl necklace is a stylish way to leave a chick covered in your gooey jizz, showing her what a freak you are with a thick pearlescent set of genetic jewelry for her to wear!

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Sexology

“It should not be a crime to discuss any idea, however outrageous.”

-Patrick Califia-Rice

Definition

Sexology is the study of sex. It hasn’t been one that is prominent in the scholarly fields of higher education because sex has always been something that people turn their noses up at academically or a field that is considered a sub category of other disciplines like sociology and psychology. The people who focus on sexology usually enter from other relevant fields of study such as biology, psychology, sociology and even criminology. It is a very intersectional area of study in which people can learn a lot about human behaviors. Sexologists study all sorts of things including sexual development, fetishes, gender identity and even old people sex. The opportunities are endless.

Why Do You Need Sexology?

Many sex therapists and open-minded therapists are also sexologists who study sex and have a wide knowledge of sexual dysfunctions that you might come to them for. Sexology also leads to the development of new and modern sex toys that are better than the ones that came before them! Plus, the study of sex always leads to new insights into relationships and sexual behaviors that is simply interesting to read about whenever you come across a cool article! It’s a great way to learn about any sexual problems like the inability to orgasm, cumming too quickly, or inability to get it up.

How to Become a Sexologist

If you are actually so interested in sex that you want to study it from an academic standpoint, there are many different organizations you can turn to. There are not too many actual universities that offer programs in sexology, but if you have a degree in a related topic, you may be able to get continuing education credits and receive a certificate that will enhance your degree, and there are a few places that do offer higher education degrees in the topic!

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LoveMap

“They were maps that lived, maps that one could study, frown over, and add to; maps, in short, that really meant something.”

-Gerald Durrell

Definition

A lovemap is an idea that was first thought of by a sexologist named John Money. It is basically when someone maps out what their ideal sexual encounter or lover would be like. The term can also be used to map out a whole relationship, but for our purposes we are mainly talking about when you use it for sexual purposes. The lovemap is like your own personal language about sex and love that starts developing early on in life, and it is a concept that many psychologists enjoy using when it comes to discussing someone’s sexuality.

What’s Your LoveMap?

A LoveMap isn’t an actual map that you make, although it can often be qualitatively and quantitatively put down onto paper for at least some aspects of it. It is more of a flavor or a language that belongs to you. You know the types of things you like in bed, the secret things that turn you on and the ones you tell people about, as well as the sexual experiences you’ve had that have shaped your identity today. Lovemaps can become changed over time, especially if trauma occurs.

Do You Need It?

LoveMap is a term that is useful for many who are in therapy or trying to figure out the origins of their sexuality, but it’s not one that you absolutely must use in your life. You can always think about it, but it’s not one of those sex things that you absolutely need to know. It is mainly used by those who are interested in furthering their knowledge about the psychology in sex, and how it affects their sex lives directly. If you are into the idea of a lovemap you should be aware that they change based on life situations and even hormone balances.

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Pansexual

“A gender-equal society would be one where the word ‘gender’ does not exist.”

-Gloria Steinem

Definition

Someone who is pansexual believes that their sexuality isn’t limited by genders. They don’t think that there is a gender binary, and they know that people exist on a spectrum from male to female, with lots of people in between those two points. There are people who do not fit into any gender, known as agender, and people who are transgender, and those who have some other identity that has not been defined by anyone else yet. They will have sex or date anyone and everyone, and they think that your genitals don’t define who you are or what your gender is.

Pan Vs. Bi

You may think that people who identify as pansexual are just bisexuals but in reality those are two very different terms. Bisexual people operate within the gender binary assumption that there are two genders only, male and female. They like both of them, but they probably wouldn’t want to date someone who has a gender identity besides male and female, or perhaps they would but they just don’t know that such a thing exists yet! It’s all a learning process for everyone as people become more open to other gender identities besides male and female.

Are You Pansexual?

How do you know if you are pansexual or bisexual? Well, it’s really quite easy. If you feel like you don’t care what gender the people you date or have sex with are, and if you feel open to dating trans people or agender people, then you may be able to consider yourself pansexual if that is something you identify with. However, even if you do want to date people of any gender, you can use any term you want to describe yourself.

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