Balloons

“It’s hard to be brought down when you have a balloon.”

-Winnie The Pooh

Definition

Balloon fetish is an interesting thing to experience. Basically, the people who have this fetish love it when a pretty girl (or a hot guy) blows up a balloon. What happens next is up to the specific person, because there are many directions that this can go. Some “Looners,” as they are often called, love to blow up balloons and then revel in how fun they are. They get kind of sad if they think too much about the balloon popping. However, other fetishists love to hear that loud and surprising pop when the balloon loses all of it’s air quickly.

Origins

No one really knows where this fetish comes from but many think that it simply happens because balloons are always so fun, and everyone has good memories about them. Most people with this fetish remember their first balloon experience as something with a hot girl popping a balloon or playing with one. Those who like to pop the balloons are referred within the fetish community as poppers and those who don’t are non-poppers. Some people say that the popping is a metaphor for orgasm!

Variations on the Theme

If you’re not into balloons, there are other fetishes that are closely related which might give you a rush if you find yourself into balloons. First of all, there is always bubble gum, which a hot chick can blow a bubble into, and then pop, before she repeats the process all over again. Some guys even like to have their cock encased in a bubble gum bubble as a form of sexual play. There are also medical examination gloves that work well as balloons, and may come in common with people who have a balloon fetish and a medical fetish.

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Flogging

“I have to say I’m all for public flogging.”

-Ann Coulter

Definition

Flogging originated as a punishment in olden days and back then it was not so nice. Some countries still use it as a punishment but they aren’t considered very forward thinking at all. It involves taking the instrument known as a flogger and hitting someone with it. The ones that are made for consensual BDSM play are actually quite pleasant and many people liken a flogging to a spa treatment or a massage, though it can still get into the painful territory. Many find flogging to be a cathartic experience that can lead to emotional release, which they find helpful in the context of a sexual scene.

Floggers

There are all different sorts of floggers and they can be made out of many different types of materials. There are plastic ones that are pretty painful, leather ones that are soft and leave a serious thud, or fake leather ones that try to emulate the same feeling. There are floggers made of shoelaces and others made of metal chains. The main thing is that each one has a different sensation. When you have a chance to try them in the store, you should ask the person who works there what the sensation is like to give you an idea of the intensity involved. Always use a flogger on a test item before using it on a person. A melon or a piece of meat are common choices because they allows you to gauge the impact without having to use your sub as a test subject.

Learning To Flog Right

There are also many ways to learn flogging, or flagellation as it was called when it was used for traditional forms of punishment. Some people like to do Florentine flogging, which is when you use two of them at the same time, and swing them in a methodical manner. Others simply use one flogger on the back and ass of a person. You should try to avoid the lower back and anywhere that has soft organs that might get damaged by hitting them too hard. Be careful, have fun and ALWAYS STOP immediately if a safeword or signal is used.

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Shame

“Shame is a soul eating emotion.”

-Carl Jung

Sexual Shame

We are not talking about shame from a degrading humiliation sex play point of view. Here we are highlighting the strong sense of shame some freaks feel after enjoying the filthiest porn and doing the most freakish acts together. You find something outrageously hot, or try doing something to a girl that has never been done before, and the excitement of pioneering your own new kind of porn overwhelms your senses. Orgasm after orgasm as you blissfully scratch that psychic itch that has always existed in your soul… and then the sex stops, the fantasy is over and you think to yourself…what have I done?!

How Shame Amplifies Your Orgasms

Your jizz spews all over…. and suddenly you feel shame about being such a freak. Then you start to get turned on by that sense of shame itself! This can happen from watching porn, and with people who live out some of the more extreme fetishes that involve something your rational mind may consider to be gross even though your sexual libido loves every moment of it. Shame is a natural part of sex for many people, and for some freaks shame itself is the emotion that determines whether you have a meaningless orgasm, or the kind of deep and satisfying cathartic emotional release you crave.

Don’t Be Ashamed of Your Shame

If you feel shame, that’s completely normal. If you get off on that feeling, it’s freaky but definitely normal as well. It is a reaction to sexual pleasure in our puritanical society that sends us internal messages about sex in one form or another being really bad, over and over, even though sex in all its forms is the highest priority of every single species that has every existed. You don’t need to feel badly about enjoying yourself in a sexual manner and shame should never interfere with your sexual performance. If it does, seek likeminded people, share your shame with them, and learn to accept that fact that consenting adults are always intended to explore their world and their sexual proclivities together so that procreation remains an interesting process and our species is able to thrive. There is nothing more shameful than abstinence from a society and evolutionary perspective!

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Furries

“One thing most furries agree on is this: They aren’t sex freaks.”

-Melissa Meinzer

Definition

A furry is someone who has enthusiasm for dressing up in a costume that covers their body from head to toe. The costume usually turns them into a giant stuffie and can cover a wide variety of topics from woodland creatures to popular characters on TV and in movies. They often look like sports mascot outfits or things you might see at an amusement park, but they are just here for fun. Some furries like to dress up but for them it is not sexual at all, for others, dressing up in an outfit is part of some sexy roleplay.

Getting Furry

If you think you might be a furry first you should try it. There are all sorts of furry conventions that you can attend and furry dating sites to browse to find your furry match. If you want to you can always look online and find someone to hang out with. If you’ve already got a partner, you can try bringing it into your sex like by trying to wear furry scarves or hats that looking like something cute and then bringing it up from there. Get a furry blanket or something to find out if you like the texture, or play the role of a character to see if you find that fun too.

Authenticity Aint Cheap

Being a furry can get kind of pricey. A lot of the good quality costumes can run anywhere from a few hundred to thousands of dollars. In addition, there is a code of furry etiquette, since you can’t see someone’s face when you meet them! Never engage with someone who seems like they’re not into it. Plus, the temperature inside of suits can get really hot so you must take breaks and drink plenty of water to stay hydrated because you will definitely sweat a whole bunch.

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Cum Swapping

“Friendship is never anything but sharing.”

-Elie Wiesel

What is Cum Swapping

When at least two girls get together to have a hot threesome with at least one guy, if they are the best of friends they might decide to swap the results of that threesome between them, from mouth to mouths. Cum swapping, also sometimes called Snowballing, is when freaks spit jizz out of their mouths into their friend’s mouth. It’s a messy affair that some find disgusting but that’s part of what others find so appealing about it. You’ll love watching this exotic sex act after a hot threesome.

Making it Real

If you want to experiment with cum swapping first you have to find two ladies who you want to have a threesome with. It shouldn’t be too hard to find them with all of the swinger and group sex dating sites around, or if you already have a girlfriend, maybe she has a cute friend that you have been interested in for a while that you want to bring in. Either way, you should discuss your fantasy beforehand and then you should also know everyone’s status as far as STIs goes. This is because everyone is going to be ingesting your sexual fluids and that means there is an increased risk of transmission of things.

Cum Swapping Before You Cum

Cum Swapping is seriously one of the most fun fetishes to explore. It’s messy and you will have a blast watching hot girls getting your splooge all over the place. However, it should be noted that some people lose interest in anything sexual once they cum, and they may not be as interested in seeing the cum swapping after they have already reached orgasm. They might rather watch cum swapping in a porn movie when their own sexual tension is still quite high.

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Triple Penetration

“One’s too few, three too many.”

-John Ray

Definition

When you have a girl who is an insatiable slut who wants all of her holes filled at the same time, it’s likely that triple penetration will occur, if there are three guys around who will put their cocks inside of her at the same time. It is usually considered triple penetration when one goes in her mouth, her pussy and her ass, but any combination of three dicks would be OK. This includes variations on double penetration, double anal and double vaginal in which two might be in her pussy and one might be in her ass, etcetera. The girls who like this have really elastic holes and they enjoy showing what is possible for the human body to achieve.

Reality VS. Fantasy

3P or Triple Penetration is often a fantasy that some real slutty girls have. They may not have much experience with threesomes or hole stretching activities. If you set up a threesome with that many people involved where it might be possible, then you should be prepared for disappointment. First of all, it does take some practice for the holes to get stretched out to that far point, so if she hasn’t been practicing, it might not happen. Second of all, you need to be careful because there is a distinct possibility of tearing from hole stretching triple penetration misadventure!

Bringing in Additional Fuck Friends

How do you find people to join you on such an occurrence? Well there are fetish social networking sites where you can meet other kinky people, as well as swinger dating sites where you can find people who are open to group sex experiences. If you want to invite your friends, you better make sure that they can handle that type of fun experience and that things won’t get weird for them or your girl.

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Biting

“Biting is excellent – it’s like kissing, only there’s a winner.”

-Neil Gaiman

Definition

Biting is something that people do every single day when they eat. They take bites of their food and chew it up. But biting is also something that is considered to be a sexual practice. There are all different levels of biting and it simply involves taking that one act that you do all the time and performing it on someone’s skin. You can do a light bite which is more like a love bite or you can do a hard bite that will leave a mark for weeks, grinding the skin in between your teeth. Biting is quite hot whether you have a fetish for things that are a little vampirish or you simply like a little pain with your pleasure.

Biting Precautions

If you are going to bite someone first of all you need to trust them. Even if you’re not engaging in too much other rough sex play, you should have a safe word involved because you never know when things are going to need to stop if it gets too intense. Also, if you plan on drawing blood from the biting, you should know your partner well and have talked about your testing status. No one wants a surprise from a fun night of biting play! Also, before you play, check in with your partner about whether or not they are OK with having marks, and if there are certain spots they do not want to have them.

Bring it In

If you are hungering for a little flesh between your teeth, then you can just start to nibble a bit (very lightly) during sexual play. Depending on how your partner reacts, you can ask them if they like that, and if they seem to enjoy it you can talk about taking your biting further into your sexual play. You can also talk about it beforehand during some dirty talk to gauge your partner’s interest in chomping down, and talk about biting limits if it comes up.

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Cock Rings

“If you liked it then you should have put a ring on it.”

-Beyonce

Definition

Cock rings are a special ring to go about the cock which helps it fill up with blood, retaining longer and stronger erections. The ring can either go around the base of the cock or around the cock and balls together, or simply around the balls, it’s all up to you. Cock rings are made out of all different types of materials from silicone which is soft and bendy to stainless steel which is hard and unforgiving. Cock rings even come in a vibrating form which is great for pleasuring both the guy wearing it and his female partner.

Uses

People can use a cock ring for medical purposes, believe it or not. If you have been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction then it will help your condition greatly, or at least it can, especially when used in tandem with a vacuum pump. First you would put the ring on, then pump up the cock. The ring will keep all the juices you have pumped up in there. Wearing a cock ring can actually delay, but not prevent orgasm, while improving the quality of the orgasms. So guys find that it can be useful for penis problems, or just for enhancing sexual experiences.

Take Care

As a cock ring is something which essentially slows the fluid exchange between your cock and the rest of your body, it can be dangerous to leave it on for too long. Most people recommend to take it off after 45 minutes to an hour. In addition, certain materials of cock rings – especially the jelly style ones – can pinch and grab the hair down there, leading to uncomfortable burns and minor cock injuries, so always be careful when applying and removing the cock ring!

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Sixty Nine

“A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.”

-Barbara Bush

Definition

Sixty Nine is a special sex position in which two partners can both give each other oral sex. According to the author Jonathan Safran Foer in his book Everything Is Illuminated, it was invented in 1969 but that’s not true at all. It was probably invented in the beginning of time as soon as people realized what pleasure people could get from putting their mouths on each other’s genitalia. It’s basically when one person goes on top of the other to suck their genitals, and they place their own genitals over the other person’s face for easy pleasure too.

The Reality

69 is a super hot fantasy but the reality is that some people have a hard time giving pleasure and getting pleasure at the same time. Some people simply can’t come as easily when they are focused on giving a blowjob or oral to their partner, and that’s ok. They can still enjoy the 69 but if you’re expecting it to be automatically orgasmic, you may be disappointed. If you think of it more as a super hot foreplay then you may enjoy it a bit more because there will be less pressure and expectation of what is supposed to happen.

Bringing it Up

If you’ve never done 69 before but you want to try it now, bringing it up to your partner is actually pretty easy. If you can’t describe it to them there are lots of videos showing you what it is all about, and there are also plenty of descriptions of it online to give you inspiration. It’s a mutually beneficial thing which is why so many people like it. A lot of people who get off on giving pleasure and getting it too think 69 is just the tops.

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Dirty Talk

“Talk dirty to me.”

-Common Adage

Definition

Dirty talk is just what is sounds like. It is when you talk out loud all of the nasty things you have been thinking about doing to your lover all damn day long and you try to get the words out just in the way you have been thinking about them. It usually involves discussing just what you want to do with your lover, and it can also involve descriptions about what you find hot about their bodies. Dirty talk can be hard at first but it is a skill that you can learn if you want to try. The way to learn is simply by exercising your creative dirty talk muscles.

Dirty Talk Tips

If you want to try dirty talk the best tip we can give you is to just be yourself and try to relax. That is how the words are going to flow out of you the best. If you want some inspiration, pick your favorite porn movie and describe that to your girl. You can also use inspiration from past sex sessions to fuel your verbal fire. Start by saying “remember that time we…” and then go on from there. If your girl is into it, then you will know quite quickly and be able to play off of their excitement for more inspiration!

When Dirty Talk Doesn’t Work

There are some times when dirty talk just isn’t appropriate. For example, if you start doing it and your partner just doesn’t seem into it, it’s probably good to just stop and then ask them what is going on with them. Another time it’s not appropriate is if you try to do it over the phone and your partner is at work or says they are busy. It’s embarrassing if they have to get up from their desk with a big stiffie or a wet spot on their chair for everyone to see!

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