Muscle Worship

“I use my muscles as a conversation piece.”

-Arnold Schwarzenegger

Definition

Muscle worship is a type of body worship in which one person who is usually subservient in a BDSM sense of things loves to kiss, lick or massage the muscles of someone who is much stronger and more fit than they are. The person on top is usually a bodybuilder, a weight lifter or maybe a wrestler. Basically, it is someone who has big muscles who is really strong. People who enjoy muscle worship might like to wrestle or get pinned down by their tops, but the main activity is worshipping the actual muscular figure of their lover.

The Culture

It’s unfortunate that bodybuilding is a sport which requires a high level of dedication but has a low payout in the financial sense. This is why many male and female body builders offer private muscle worship sessions for those who have this fetish. They get benefits since their pockets are lined and more comfortable, and they also get good self-esteem from having their muscles complimented on the regular. It’s present in gay and straight relationships, and can be done with a female top or male top. If you’ve got a thing for muscles, you should know it’s quite regular, and doing a simple search online will probably reveal plenty of results for people you can see! You can also try online dating sites for muscular people.

Say What?

There are lots of complex terms that people may use for this fetish, so if you see them around, don’t get confused. Sthenolagnia is the technical term for muscle worship, which actually means someone who gets aroused from seeing someone display their muscles. The word Cratolagnia covers arousal from strength itself. So, whether you get off on seeing a muscular man, or are turned on by how much he can lift, is what determines which form of this fetish is your freaky attraction. If you have one of these fetishes it’s only natural, as pretty much everyone finds muscles attractive, these fetishists simply take it to the next level!

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Spandex

“Your clothes should be tight enough to show you’re a woman.”

-Marilyn Monroe

Definition

Spandex fetish is pretty clear on what it is simply from the name. It is a fetish for people who love to see someone else in spandex, or for those who like to wear spandex. Luckily for these fetishists, spandex is quite affordable and easy to attain. It is often used in fitness gear, and some people have come across this fetish from seeing hot girls at the gym or on their bikes around town. It’s also possible that seeing sexy gymnasts or circus performers in their leotards brings on the fetish too. Most agree that anyone wearing a skintight spandex outfit is hot, these fetishists just take their love of the material a bit further than most.

The Joys of Spandex

The reason why this fetish is so popular is that it is just so simple to enact. Go down to your closest big box store and you will find tons of spandex garments, probably for very cheap. Leggings, which are in style now, and tank tops for fitness are almost always made of the revolutionary stretchy material. Some spandex fetishists have an affinity for a certain garment, which may make it a bit harder to easily find the clothes that will help you get off, but it is still not impossible. Some enjoy tight spandex turtlenecks, while others enjoy full body suits.

Other Skin Tight Materials

Darlexx is a unique material that is also loved by some spandex fetishists who also love bondage. It is thicker and more durable, making it available for some more nefarious uses than simply sporting it to tease and tantalize. Others who enjoy nylon stockings and Lycra garments will find friends in the spandex fetishist community. They are basically enjoying the same skintight qualities through different materials. Some have a strong preference for one material over another, but most just like to see a body’s hot curves through barely there clothing.

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Wetlook

“Those who want to get wet need no umbrella!”

-Mehmet Murat ildan

Definition

Wetlook (or wet look) is an interesting fetish where you like to see people wearing clothes get wet, or you like to see people walking around in soaking wet clothes. It often involves washing, soap suds and other cleaning-themed activities like car washes as well. For many, cleanliness and wetness are sexual attributes of this fetish, but for others it is only about the sensations felt while wearing wet clothes themselves and not necessarily sexual. Or they might like the way it looks enough to get off just from seeing a woman washing her hair, or a bikini beauty climbing up out of her swimming pool.

Wetlook Is A Style

If you are having visions of freezing cold people shivering in their clothes while wet, you can easily change your perspective of this hot fetish. Many people enjoy wetlook because when wet, clothes cling to the body and become slightly see through. This makes those wearing the clothes more vulnerable, as anyone can see exactly what they were trying to hide underneath their layers. It’s super easy to fulfill, as people can get wet in their own homes while wearing clothes. Take a shower; hop in the bath or even dump a bucket of water over your head.

Wet T-Shirt Contests

You have probably heard of the popular spring break phenomenon known as wet t-shirt contests. This is where hot babes wear white tank tops and then get sprayed down with a hose, which turns the tank into a see through garment that is basically useless. When the chicks have nice breasts, it gives it a nice effect. If you’ve enjoyed a wet t-shirt contest, you have already enjoyed the wetlook fetish and didn’t even know it. It’s really just that easy! Knowing that, it’s easy to understand why people like to see beautiful women and hot guys in full body outfits getting soaked.

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Service Submissive

“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful.”

-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Definition

A service submissive is one who truly gets off on doing things for their Dom. This can even be a non-sexual thing like running errands for them and making sure they have their dinner when they come home from work. In this type of relationship, the sub really makes their whole life about trying to help the Dom reach their goals. It can be highly related to the nostalgia fetish in which people return to the traditional family style with a submissive wife who serves the husband. However, outside of that specific fetish, service submissives can be men too.

Good Service Is Always On

While BDSM play is great, being a service submissive is about so much more than just a play session or a fun night out at a play party. It is about doing everything you can to make your Dom’s life better. This type of relationship should not be embarked upon lightly. It’s the kind of things that requires a lot of thought, and perhaps a collaring ceremony or slave contract to make sure that everyone gets what they need and want at the end of the day. Besides being of sexual service, a sub of this nature could even help a Dom at work, or provide the simple service of being a conversational partner who is always with advice and support.

Finding the Diamond in the Rough

It is really hard to find a true service submissive, but if you look long and hard enough, they are out there. You can often find them on kink specific dating sites. However, if you’re already in a relationship, don’t despair. You can often bring this type of kinkiness into a relationship because it can range from gentle and vanilla to extreme. It’s best to bring it in as a sexual idea at first, and then see how your partner enjoys it. Once you’ve established that they like to be sub and you like to be Dom, suggest other ways they can help you. You may be surprised how many people get off on make someone else feel good while improving their own lot in life as a result.

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Smoking

“Fuck and smoke plenty of cigarettes.”

-Charles Bukowski

Definition

The smoking fetish is for anyone allured or aroused by the idea of someone smoking a cigarette or a cigar. They might enjoy the object passing the lips, a clear oral fixation symbol of a cock if you ask Dr. Freud. They may enjoy the smoke itself, and get off from the scent which clings to all of their garments. They may simply have great memories of hot people smoking in the past, or good associations with their favorite stars in movies who have been smokers. Whatever the reason why someone enjoys the smoking fetish, it is an easy fantasy to bring to life. Cigarettes and cigars are readily available to most over the age of 18 or 21 in most jurisdictions, and a growing number of regions are now making marijuana legally available as well.

Get Started

If you want to enjoy sexy smoking all you have to do is go down to the local corner store and pick up a pack of smokes. Then go home and light up! Many aspects of smoking fetish play revolve around the skill of blowing smoke rings or blowing the smoke in the other person’s mouth, which adds a little bit of breath play to the sexy affair.

Human Ashtray

Some BDSM players enjoy serving their masters and mistresses to the highest degree. These people sometimes don’t mind, or even actively enjoy, serving as a human ashtray. They will kneel next to their dominant with their mouth wide open as the Dom smokes and ashes inside of the sub’s mouth. If they are a good sub, they will swallow the burnt ash. For those who have no desire to swallow ashes, there are also special gags that one can purchase that have an ashtray attachment.

Smoking Really Isn’t Great for Your Health

The one thing to keep in mind with this fetish is that smoking really isn’t great for your health at all. It’s known to cause cancer and other illnesses. Yes, it can sexy, but it is definitely recommended to limit your exposure to smoke from cigarettes and cigars or any other source. Living a healthy lifestyle usually means living longer and that longevity gives you more time to be freaky!

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Lactation

“Breasts are a scandal because they shatter the border between motherhood and sexuality.”

-Iris Marion Young

Definition

If you’ve got a lactation fetish then you love to see women who can make milk squirt out of their breasts. It’s hard to find someone to fulfill this fetish unless you’re always around someone who is pregnant currently, or has been preggo been. Most women can make a bit of colostrum come out (the thick and creamy substance in a woman’s breasts) however only an active nursemaid can spew milk in quantities suitable for lactation freaks!

Milk Maids

While many people have a fetish for the actual milk that comes out of the breast, others have a fetish for simply suckling on the nipple, perhaps because they realize the difficulties in finding someone who is actively producing. These people might be happy to know that it is actually possible to induce breastfeeding through a combination of completely legal supplements which are made from natural herbs and through pumping the breasts for a long period of time – usually 6 months or more – with a mechanical breast pump. If the milk is important to your fetish, it might be worth it to try but always consult your doctor before starting any dietary regimen.

Milk and Humiliation

One common BDSM fantasy having a woman get her breasts milked. Many fantasy porn movies that are on the more extreme side of BDSM show a woman hooked up to a milking machine that pulls the juice out of each of her tits. A submissive may also want to drink his or her mistress’ breast milk as a reward or as a humiliating punishment. While lactation freaks doesn’t always to come with a BDSM fetish relationship, it can certainly enhance one if you’ve into it as well.

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Gangbang

“Teamwork makes the dream work.”

-John C. Maxwell

Definition

A gangbang is a form of group sex that makes one participant the center of attention. The whole plan of action for the night might be the gangbang, or it might happen spontaneously during an orgy. A whole group of guys gangs up on a girl and thoroughly uses all of her holes to their heart’s content. Gay guys can also get gangbanged by dudes, and sometimes lesbians with strap-ons will also gangbang another female or even a submissive dude who wants to be violated by their fake cocks. Gangbangs are probably one of the most popular types of porn to watch, because all the hottest pornstars film them as a testament to their own sexual veracity!

World Records

Annabel Chong is a famous pornstar who got well known because she performed about 250 sex acts with a whole bunch of guys in a porn movie that purported to be the world’s biggest gangbang at the time. Another film star simply known as Houston performed in another porn movie after that which was even bigger. It was a gangbang with over 600 guys, and might be the largest gang bangs on record! The current world record holder for largest gangbang is Lisa Sparxxx, a bit tits pornstar who eagerly allowed nearly 700 strangers to fuck her three holes until they each had spewed their goo all over her curvy body and pretty face.

Mixing Kinks

Gangbangs are often the result of many sexual desires. Some people long to get fucked by anonymous guys, while others prefer spreading their legs for a whole group of guys while they are tied up in public. Whichever you prefer, it’s important to have safety rules in place before any gangbang. Make sure that all of the fuckers are known entities that will play by the rules and abide by any boundaries set up by the person getting fucked. You should also make sure that everyone has been STI tested and is all clear for everything in that realm. Every gangbang, even if it doesn’t have BDSM in it should also have a safe word because things can get so intense so quickly.

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Infantilism

“Real men change diapers.”

-Nick Cannon

Definition

Infantilism is a fetish filled with people who long for yesteryear, when things were a bit simpler. It is sometimes also known as ABDL. Playing the role of someone who is helpless, who enjoys sucking on pacifiers, wearing diapers and messing them too, or even drinking out of bottles, this is a freaky fetish with a surprisingly large following. Infantilism lovers play with people who know how to take care of them and they seek out experts on the fetish who will truly nurture them the way they used feel to when they were safe in their mom’s arms.

Honey, We’re Shrunk!

Many fanatics of this fetish go so far as to buy giant onesies and bonnets, but the clothing isn’t all that gets put into adult sizes. There are also giant diapers that fit on adults, which come in cute designs with boats or flowers. Some companies will even make custom furniture that will make its owner feel like they have shrunk back to a size they used to be, creating the complete illusion of the fantasy.

Getting Kinky

Some people who love infantilism enjoy sexualizing it with chastity play, because good cuties don’t get naughty. Others love spankings or other punishments for being bad, and still others get a sexual thrill from having their diaper changed. Many also enjoy including bondage into the routine because it gives them that helpless feeling they crave. There are items like pacifier gags, bondage mittens and chastity devices that all help infantilism lovers to get into the proper headspace for play. There are a large portion of people into this fetish, though, who really don’t see it as a sexual thing at all and they just take comfort in wearing diapers, messing them and getting treated in a way that makes them feel completely comfortable.

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Dacrophylia

“We need never be ashamed of our tears.”

-Charles Dickens

Definition

Dacrophylia is a fancy word for someone who is aroused by crying. No one really knows exactly why some people find this a turn on, but many suspect it is because of the vulnerability shown in the emotional release. While bringing someone to tears from pain is common in a BDSM play session, this unique fetish doesn’t always have to do with a dominant and submissive relationship dynamic. Some people cry from extreme love or just from watching a sad movie, and this may turn on a dacrophyliac partner. In many instances freaks are seeking an elusive Crygasm, where their partner is so overcome by sexual bliss that they begin to weep openly at a point where sexual gratification and emotional catharsis collide in perfect harmony.

Tears For Fears

How do you make someone cry? Some ways are nice and some not so much. Which ones you choose to play with really depend on the type of relationship you have. Some strict tops believe that slapping their sub in the face repeatedly is a cruel but effective way to bring them to tears. Others enjoy bringing their sub to tears through verbal humiliation that makes them feel worthless. When BDSM is not involved, the couple may watch emotional videos together to elicit tears or even use household activities like cutting onions to cause tears to flow.

Don’t Cry For Me

In most Crygasm sessions the submissive is not crying because of the Dom or even for the Dom. Instead they are using sex to bring out deeper emotions and are attempting to leave behind their emotional baggage by replacing sense memories of their unpleasant past with far more eroticized new memories formed together with the Dom they adore. Being told your mother never loved you and bursting into tears at the height of orgasm is for many freaks the fastest way to get beyond the frailties of their early feelings of inadequacy or grief.

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Pussy Torture

“The heart is capable of sacrifice. So is the vagina.”

-Eve Ensler

Definition

If you are a sadistic partner of a submissive who happens to have a pussy, you are in luck because vaginas are a real joy to torment. There are just so many things you can do to them and they always seem to bounce back. The human vagina is quite a resilient body part, considering its biological function, and there are many ways to make your partner scream in pain and then moan with pleasure in the next breath. This sensitive form of freaky sex play is the female equivalent to a man’s CBT (cock and ball torture).

Methods

There are too many methods for pussy play and torture to list here, but here are a few tried and true methods to simply get you started. Perhaps the most popular way to torture a pussy is to put clamps or clips on her labia and clitoris. There are all sorts of different types of clamps that go on the pussy lips and some super mean Doms focus on the far more sensitive clit. Another way to torment a pussy is to put a burning cream like capsaicin or muscle pain relief cream on it, as a way to make your sub squirm in discomfort. Be careful though because once the material is applied, nothing will stop the substance from running its course.

Pussy Limits

There really aren’t many limits to what a pussy is capable of. A good pussy can be stretched wide open, given multiple orgasms, denied climax, clipped, whipped, clamped or otherwise tormented. However, one thing you should be quite careful of is any contamination from the anus or foreign objects getting near these delicate lady bits. This can cause yeast infections and urinary tract infections, which is a form of pussy torture that no one needs in their life!

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