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Public Sex

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“If modesty disappeared, so would exhibitionism.”
-Mason Cooley

Definition

Public sex is any sex act that takes place in a public place where witnesses or spectators may discover the action. Sometimes these are places that sanction public sex like a sex party where everyone is watching, and other times it is a place like a park where the couple involved has sex under a blanket, or the hot action takes place in the secrecy of a restroom. Either way, public sex is usually about exhibitionism, and for some, the risk of getting caught is a big part of the thrill.

First Time Public Sex

When you are just starting out with public sex, it might seem daunting to let it all hang out right away. If you are into purposeful public sex at parties, it might be good to start by simply walking around naked or in your underwear, and watching other couples fucking before you put yourself out of your comfort zone. For public sex it is usually best to start in a secretive location like a closed restroom. This also ensures that no one actually walks in on you accidentally, which can get you into big trouble!

Be Careful

You can actually get arrested if you have sex in a place where it is not supposed to happen, especially if people who aren’t supposed to see what you are doing can see it, so being careful is imperative. You should definitely be as discreet as possible and try to make as little noise as you can. It might sound fun to join the mile high club or to get a blowjob on a hike, but you may shock some unsuspecting passersby and they might not be happy about it. Discretion is key!

Bukkake

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Do you like him cumming in your face?”
-Clive Owens

Definition

Bukkake ( ぶっかけ ) is a Japanese word meaning “to splash” which is appropriate because porn has popularized the term to mean extreme cum play where a woman, or groups of women are covered in facial cumshots from dozens of strangers. Often the bukkake target ends up completely glazed in semen by however many cocks she can find. Sometimes a bukkake target sucks off her jizz shooting assailants, or is gangbanged in preparation, but the act of Bukkake culminates with her catching cum or in rare cases female ejaculation and piss all over her face. Obedient sluts usually sit patiently while waiting for the biggest cumshots of her life from multiple cocks with her mouth and eyes wide open throughout the launch phase.

History

Bukkake has a Japanese origin, which is why it has such a weird sounding name. The name comes from the Eastern country, where the act was inspired because of porn censorship laws that took hold during the 1980s. They must pixelate out the genitals of the performers, so the videographers and directors started to focus on the faces of the babes involves, and less on the pussies. That’s how bukkake got started, because they decided they would just do anything hot they can to the face. It soon spread over the world and made its way into western porn, and it is now a very popular sex act.

Plan a Party

Is bukkake your fantasy or that of a partner? Well then it’s time to call up everyone you know and plan a party. As long as you have plenty of guy friends, invite them over. They don’t have to have sex if they don’t want to, as the main purpose of the event is to just jizz all over the subject’s face. The receiver of jizz doesn’t have to be a girl. Guys can enjoy getting covered in more glaze than a donut too. So, just pick up the phone or create an event online and get the circle jerk started.

Toilet Training

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Always go to the bathroom when you have a chance.”
-King George V

Definition

Toilet training is an extreme form of BDSM play that involves a deep level of submission, which can make this fetish arousing, though even some freak people think it is gross. During toilet training a submissive must ask whenever they want to go to the bathroom. They are not allowed to go except for when the Dominant offers permission. This is a form of high submission because the sub is surrendering their most basic human functions to their Dom. Subs who can’t control themselves may wear chastity devices which keep them from going until the Dom allows, or diapers to make accidents less disgusting to witnesses. There is also a great safety responsibility on the part of the Dom because bathroom use is something that everyone needs to stay healthy.

Making it Harder

Some people love to torment their subs even further, watching them eat heavy foods, take laxatives, or drink large volumes of liquid and then denying them the ability to go to the bathroom until the very last moment possible. These sadistic Doms enjoy hearing their bottoms beg for what most of us appreciate as a basic right. Sometimes couples use bathroom control as a form of punishment when the sub hasn’t done a good job in other areas of the relationship. Others enjoy seeing their subs wet themselves and that is part of the fetish for them. Failure by a sub to hold their water can be a reason for additional punishment, often in the form of spanking or similar physical and verbal reprimands. At times a Dom might rub their sub’s nose in the wet mess to train them better.

Social Responsibility

If you decide to have bathroom use control as part of your relationship, keep in mind that a sub will face serious repercussions if they end up wetting themselves at work or having accidents elsewhere in public. You should build in some kind of fail safe into your relationship so that your sub can use the bathroom if they are at their place of employment, if they are at the store, or visiting family. Another forgiveness many Doms like to give is if the sub is legitimately sick, they may use the bathroom as much as they want.

Graduation from Toilet Training

Ideally toilet training is a temporary form of play designed to demonstrate the severity of a Dom’s control over his sub until the sub accepts their place in the power structure of their relationship successfully. Extended periods of extreme toilet training are too often associated with unhealthy hygiene to be continued for too long. In some relationships a Dom will also host an elaborate ceremony, often attended by close friends, to honor their sub upon graduation from toilet training successfully.

Bastinado

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“I can’t be funny if my feet don’t feel right.”
-Billy Crystal

Definition

Bastinado may sound like a complex term for something freaky, but it’s just a fancy word for anything that involves torment by caning the bottom of the feet. This is an especially insidious area of the body to torment in any BDSM scene because you can really go hard on the soles of the feet and hardly any marks will be left behind, leaving no evidence of even those nasty and particularly painful scenes. It is a sensitive spot and even light caning can make some people scream and cry, so bastinado isn’t something for the faint of heart. It’s for experienced freaks and those who know they like pain play, especially those who have a fairly high pain tolerance.

History

Bastinado is actually a real form of punishment that people have used in many cultures as a way to get information out of people or simply to punish them for being on the wrong side of an international conflict. However, it is also mentioned as far back as the Bible. Now only the most repressive regimes actually use this as a political tool, though freaks have adopted Bastinado during hard BDSM sessions.

Bastinado Lite

If you’re not ready to go all out with a foot caning, how can you bring some foot torment into your life? Well, there are many ways you can start to see if your submissive partner will enjoy this type of painful play. First of all, you can try using rubber bands on the bottom of the feet. This is good because you have some control over how hard to do it, and it gives a similar feeling to caning. You can flick them lightly at first, and then do it harder after a good warm up. You can also try using barbecue skewers, the wooden kind that you might use for shish kebabs. You can alternate between tickling, poking and hitting the feet lightly with them as a precursor to a serious bastinado session. Also keep in mind, that even The Bible limited the number of strikes during Bastinado to forty at a maximum (Deut. 25:2, 3).

Choking

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“You’ve got a nice neck for choking.”
-Gene Lebell

Definition

There are some fetish purists who say that choking can never be safe, but there are also freaky lovers who turn up their nose and do it anyway in the privacy of their own bedroom. Even relatively vanilla people enjoy choking as a way to spice up their bedroom activities. Choking sex involves placing your hands around the neck of your submissive, or using some type of ligature like a rope, to choke someone as safely as possible. Choking is hot because it is all about control. The person getting choked feels powerless, and the one on top becomes supremely powerful. Obviously experienced lovers who trust each other completely and consent in advance are the only ones who should ever attempt this sort of play. Always play safe.

How To

Choking is something that many approach with trepidation. Always have a safe word and safe motion, since the person might not be able to talk. Many use the wrestling move in which the person taps out when they are done. When choking someone, you may wrap your hands around their neck. Start lightly, and then press harder. Most people like it better when you press on the sides, which actually restrict the blood flow, as opposed to pressing in the middle, which restricts the windpipe. This is because what many actually respond to sexually is the euphoric feeling when blood is slowed down to the brain and while still very dangerous, these kinds of chokes are less dangerous than air restrictions. If you are going to use a rope or belt, make sure you tie it in such a way that the tie itself does not become tighter at all. You want to be in full control of the tension with your hand, and you want the tie to loosen as soon as you let go or stop putting tension on it. Safety is of the utmost importance.

Safety Comes First

Choking is not the safest sexual play, but it feels so good that lots of people do it anyways. When you do engage in choking, not only is there a risk of the person passing out, but there is also a risk of heart attack after a choking session, especially if the person has high blood pressure or is at risk for cardiovascular disease in the first place. Never do choking by yourself because if you pass out, it may be lights out for you permanently. As you can see, this is a controversial way to play, and you have to make your own decisions about it with your partner carefully. Keep in mind repeated chokes can also have a cumulative effect similar to concussions, so you may want to consult your doctor for more information before grabbing a bitch by the throat and choking her into a complete sense of euphoric submission.

Latex

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Life’s too short to wear mediocre underwear.”
-Jessica Biel

Definition

Latex is a beautiful material that is shiny and sleek. When you see it, it’s easy to understand why many develop a fetish for it. It can be thin and nearly see through, morphing the body into sexy almost transparent fabric pressings. Often used as sexy panties, or as a full latex body suit that makes it hard to move without creaking. It is also often used for bondage equipment because it is stretchy and pliable, but becomes hard to break and unforgiving when thick. Many also like to use it for hoods, which can create scary and sexy breath control combinations.

How to Wear

Wearing and owning latex may seem like a mystery, but with some simple care, it’s actually quite easy. In order to put on your tight latex garments you will want to lube yourself up wherever the garment goes. If you want to get it all shiny and looking perfect, then you will want to put lube on the outside too, or use a special latex conditioner that will make it look amazing. To clean latex, just soak each garment in a bit of soapy water for a few minutes, then hang up to air dry. Once it is completely dry, store it in a sealed bag, like a freezer bag or something similar. As you can see, latex is a hot material that is easy to care for.

Allergies

Some people develop an allergy to latex. Similar to poison oak, it is what is sometimes called a cumulative allergy. This means that while you may start out completely fine with the object, after a while of prolonged exposure, you may become increasingly intolerant. Sometimes a latex allergy can turn into something serious, so always be on the lookout for symptoms, which include itchiness, tingling feelings and shortness of breath. Allergies are pretty rare but should always be tested for before any sort of sex play begins with latex materials. Play safe and latex becomes so fucking sexy!

Zentai

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“The woman is the most perfect doll I have dressed with delight and admiration”
-Karl Lagerfeld

Definition

A zentai suit is usually made of Lycra or spandex and it covers the whole entire body from head to toe. This is a hard fetish for some to understand because it is not about bondage, since you can usually see through the thin Lycra material even if it is covering your face, and the suits usually have gloves for your hands and booties for your feet. For many the zentai suit fetish is all about objectification, because when you are covered fully with a brightly covered garment, which has openings in key locations to provide easy access to the holes of your new generic playmate, they become nothing more than the holes you care about the most. Done properly, zentai gives a submissive the opportunity to emotionally vacate the room so that their mind is elsewhere and all that is left is their physical self at the complete discretion of their Dom.

Complete Anonymity

In Japan, where the zentai suit originated, people enjoy wearing them out and doing silly acts in public with complete anonymity. In other places, they have taken on a more sexual tone and many people enjoy like the anonymity that they provide. For others the anonymity is sexy more because it shows every single curve of the body, while showing none of the skin. In Victorian times a glimpse of ankle was something shocking, and Zentai suits might have this same appeal. It shows off everything that we hardly ever see these days, while still keeping it under wraps.

Spandex Fetish

Some who enjoy zentai suits simply have a spandex fetish and get off from being encased in the material. This is similar to those who have a nylon or stocking fetish who try to cover themselves up in the materials as much as possible. Even if you don’t have a specific fetish for anonymity or spandex, introducing this unique garment into your sex life can be really fun if you’ve been looking for an easy way to spice things up, since the suits are easy to find online in any shape and color.

Group Sex

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“I once had a problem so I tried group sex. Now I have a new problem… who to thank!”
-Rodney Dangerfield

Definition

Group sex is any type of sex that is between groups of more than 2 people. It’s a whole lot of fun to have threesomes, which is one of the most common fantasies for both guys and gals. Swingers have a lot of foursomes that involve partner swapping, which requires only two couples, but the lucky ones like to have all out orgies with five or more people. People like group sex for obvious reasons. First of all, there are so many different combinations you can have, and it’s great for guys and gals who are bisexual. Why have only one dick or pussy when you could have two, or three… or twenty to play with at the same time?!

Oh the Combinations

With threesomes the combinations are MMF (male, male, female) or FFM (Female, female male). In fact, a single bisexual woman who is open to threesomes is often called a unicorn because of how rare they are. With foursomes you could have one guy and three girls, one girl and three guys (also known as an all holes filled affair) or two of each. After that, the combinations are endless, with tons of possibilities for open-minded hotties to come together for swinging, poly orgies or other forms of group sex.

Voyeurism is Participation

Even if you are at a sex party or group sex event, you may be new to the idea of group sex and may not feel like participating by having sex, but some people think that just watching is a good way of participating. This is true because it gives you a good idea of what to expect when you are ready to jump into the action, and it can also give you ideas for play if you decide to take your group sex exploits to a private location.

Gloryholes

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“The problem with losing your anonymity is that you can never go back.”
-Marla Maples

Definition

A glory hole is usually a hole cut into a wall, traditionally a bathroom stall but it could really be anywhere, for the express purpose of someone getting their cock serviced completely anonymously. The opposite could also be true because a girl could press her own holes up toward the wall and have any stranger stick their cock in her. Those who have extreme desires to be objectified or who get off on not knowing anything about the people who have fucked them love gloryholes.

Anonymous Sex

There are other ways to have anonymous sex. Some people like to have gangbangs where everyone is someone from the Internet with the maiden of honor getting gangbanged while wearing a blindfold as all the people pound them. Some who enjoy one night stands actually like them because they are more anonymous and you don’t really know too much about the person before you pound them. Picking people up on a midnight prowl can be a thrill of power and an exercise in confidence, as can throwing them to the wayside the next day!

Protect Yourself

If you do find yourself using glory holes, make sure you always use protection. There is danger in anonymity because of STDs and the risk of pregnancy. Guys should always use a condom and glory hole use is safer at sex parties where people enjoy using good communication rather than truly random holes in bathroom walls at bus stops where homeless people can get off in your mouth without any form of protection at all. If you find yourself being gratified by anonymous sex frequently, then you should always make sure to get tested on a regular basis to know your own status. When the sex is truly anonymous, the responsibility of keeping everyone safe becomes a key part of the equation and requires responsible effort by all of the participants before play begins.

Shibari

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on.”
-Franklin D. Roosevelt

Definition

In Japanese the word Shibari ( シバリ) simply means “to tie” but among the contemporary BDSM community the word has come to take on additional meaning. Shibari style rigging is used to generate geometric rope patterns and shapes that contrast beautifully with the natural curves of the human in formally preset positions of bondage. In Shibari, the submissive is thought of as the artistic canvas, the rope is conceptualized to be the paint and brush, while the rigger is part Dom and part artist.

History

Shibari dates back to the origins of Hojo-jutsu, a martial art specifically created to explore the best methods of restraining captives in feudal Japan from 1400 to 1700. Samurai used Hojo-jutsu as a form of imprisonment, but the honor of these ancient Samurai warriors and the code of Bushido required Samurai to treat their prisoners well. In this way, the artistic elements of Shibari are intended to honor the person being tied and to care for their dignity while simultaneously restricting their movement or using painful positions to draw out information from them. In the late 1800′s and early 1900′s Kinbaku (a new form of erotic Hojo-jutsu) evolved, and spawned much of what practitioners now experiment with when engaging in modern artistic rope bondage.

The Right Rope

The most common mistake made by novice Doms is the selection of the wrong rope. Just as a chef’s dishes deserve only the best ingredients, any serious Dom is aware that the tools and materials they choose are vital to the success of their rigging. Wax coated clothes line is a favorite of many qualified Doms for its smooth ability to glide against itself. Rope thickness is also an essential element of Shibari bondage as a rope that is too thin can cause skin damage while a rope that is too thick becomes far too cumbersome for complicated rigging.