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Sounding

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“The empty vessel makes the loudest sound.”
-William Shakespeare

Definition

Sounding, also known as penal insertion or cock-stuffing is the practice of inserting objects into the urethra involves male submissives. Sometimes sounding can be affiliated with medical play, such as catheter insertion into the penis as well. Women can be sounders as well, but that is more complicated and rare since access to their pee hole is not as simple or obvious. The penis is often associated with masculinity and power, making sounding a direct way for a Dom to emasculate their sub and take their sense of personal power away from them with the cathartic release of burning sensations, physical pain and the body’s own natural endorphins automatically playing a part in the ritualistic process.

What Is A Sound?

Novices are often confused by the term Sounding because they falsely believe that this fetish has much to do with audible screams or the noises made by the insertion of objects into the penis. In reality the term comes from the medical term sounds uses to describe instruments used for probing or dilating passages within the body such as urethral sounds or uterine sounds.

Sounding In Silence

An even more advanced form of this fetish combines sounding with restrictions on noise. A Dom may tell their submissive to hold to completely still without uttering any noises at all for the duration of the insertion. Gliding a medical sound, pinky or some other probing object deep inside their playmate’s penis while watching them carefully and punishing them severely for even the slightest grunt or whisper. Gagging a sub during this kind of play may also require safe motions that can be shared by ‘tapping out’ rather than speaking.

Blinded By The Light

Many submissives have detailed a similar experience during extreme sounding play. They claim to have seen a bright white light during the climax of the experience. Some believe that this momentary out of body sensation and shrouding light is related to the light described by survivors of near-death experiences and might represent an emotional breakthrough of the membrane that separates the living world from what exists beyond it.

Trampling

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“One of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you.”
-Nancy Sinatra

Definition

To be under the foot or shoe of a beautiful woman is a dream for many submissives out there and the trampling fetish takes it one step further. They actually want to be stepped on or even walked on by these mistresses. Some of them desire to be a human carpet, rolling themselves up in padding and laying on the floor at fetish events in front of areas with high traffic, allowing anyone and everyone to step on them while they order their soda for the evening or check their coats.

Technique

The best way to try trampling for the first time is barefoot for the Domme. Even if you have dreams of high heels, try it with no shoes first to see how your body handles it. Most react differently. Try stepping on their back first, and make sure that you have something to hold on to for the first time, so you can keep your balance. If that goes OK, strap on your hottest stilettos. Some actually enjoy having people step on their stomachs, but many out there think this is not a good idea because that’s where all of your vital organs are stored.

Step Up

For most people, getting stepped on sounds like a nightmare, except as a last ditch effort to fix a sore back. However, for those into it, it is a reminder of their submission to their Dominant. They truly feel they belong under their feet or shoes, and it makes them feel at home. Some have had these desires to get stepped on for as long as they can remember, and others got the idea when they started playing kinky sex games as an adult. Remember to have a safe word in place in case things get to intense for your submissive!

Blinding

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Making eye contact during rough sex is like trying to read Dostoyevsky on a rollercoaster.”
-Jenna Jameson

Definition

In some strict BDSM relationships, the Dom and the sub get fulfillment out of having a lot of rules and restrictions to keep the bottom in their place. One way to do this is to implement eye contact and speech restrictions. This means that the sub would only be able to look the Dom or other people in the eye at certain times or if given permission, and they may not be able to speak at all, or can only speak in certain situations. Perhaps they would not be able to use a certain word that people often say, which would result in frequent punishments. Sometimes Blinding includes the use of head gear designed to block a sub’s ability to see anything in the periphery similar to the blinders worn by thoroughbreds at the racetrack.

Beginning Play

If you think the idea of this is super hot, then you can start to implement it in lighter ways than having 24/7 restrictions. Have your sub kneel on the floor and tie their hands behind their back. Do all sorts of things to them, play with their nipples, use implements, etc., but don’t allow them to make eye contact. Tell them the only time they’re allowed to make eye contact with you is when they are coming. Give them a big long tease and punish them by making it even worse if they break your new rules. When they finally have that big O, they will feel grateful to look you in the eyes.

Why People Play This Way

This type of play might seem puzzling to those who are not involved in the BDSM lifestyle, or even to those who are new to it. But it really makes sense when you learn why people like it. It is all about power and removing the privilege of making eye contact or talking really puts someone in their place and makes them feel submissive. It takes away a lot of the power they feel which makes them feel like an equal person to their Dominant.

Be Responsible

It’s never a good idea to give your sub any restrictions that would affect their everyday life negatively. Make sure you build things into your eye contact and speech restriction agreements that will allow them to act normally at work, or when they are with people who don’t know what type of relationship you both share.

Stocking Fetish

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Put on a pair of fishnet stockings and find your inner sexiness!”
-Nia Vardalos

Definition

Stockings are the closest garment a woman wears next to her skin and they have an intimate relationship with her pussy, sopping up every droplet of juice when she becomes excited while fully dressed. It makes perfect sense that many would fetishize this sensual fabric as a result. Some people like these garments only when a girl is wearing them, while others like everything to do with including the feel of the material. There are different types of stockings, like thigh-highs, which are usually worn with garters, and full ones that go up to the waist, often called pantyhose. There are ones made of nylon, and others that are fishnet.

Nylon Bondage

Some people love stockings so much that they want to get tied up with them instead of ropes or cuffs. Nylons are a particularly good and safe material for bondage. It is stretchy so it is unlikely to cut off circulation, and it can make for comfortable yet inescapable bondage. It is also breathable so it is great to use as a gag or even a hood over the face. They are the ideal material because if you have to cut them, they are fairly affordable to replace and are readily available at your local drug store. Nylons feel less harsh than rope wrapped around your wrists, ankles or genitals and it can quickly become an exciting, far more sensual object to use as a restraint.

Stocking Encasement

The people who love stockings the most love to be encased in layers of nylons. Some like just one layer of nylons while others enjoy them so thick that it becomes hard for them to move like a mummy. Stockings can easily be cut and arranged to cover the whole body. It’s best to use a full pair of tights for the legs, and a full pair of tights with the crotch cut out for the torso and arms. You can use a knee high to cover the face to complete the look. With millions of stockings just sitting in bedroom drawers doing nothing, now may be the best time to take them and see what they can do for you!

Ball Busting

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“The one, who doesn’t break your heart, will break your balls.”
-MF Moonzajer

Definition

Ball busting is something that many guys love even though it makes them double over in extreme pain. It’s exactly what it sounds like. A Dominant girl will, either barefoot or wearing a sexy pair of boots or heels, kick a guy in the balls as hard as she can. It helps if the guy is tied up so he can’t protect himself much from the blows, but it’s not always necessary as some ball knocking enthusiasts willingly stand back up for more torment as soon as possible.

Technique

So, you want to try ball busting with your male sub. You should start light by holding out the balls with your hand and spanking them, with increasing severity until you get a reaction. This will be your gauge for how hard to hit, no matter the technique. Once you’ve gotten the OK, move up to kneeing. This is a more controlled motion than kicking, and you are more likely to get a direct hit on your first try. A Muay Thai inspired move, it helps if you hold the person’s shoulders with your arms. Don’t be surprised if they double over quickly! Finally, the most extreme form of ball busting is kicking. This requires some practice and aim. Always aim to catch the balls on the top of the foot where it is flat. It will hurt plenty but not leave any lasting damage to the balls or your foot.

Safety

There is always risk with ball busting as it is basically a form of contact sport! Some shoes can scratch the skin of the balls, which is quite delicate; so if your shoes have spikes or buckles on them, best to leave it off to avoid injury. If you don’t want to touch the person’s bare balls, you can always slip a condom over your foot. Safer sex is always the sexiest sex. Remember to always play with a safe word. That way, your busting subject can cry and scream all they want but you’ll know they still want to continue. As with any form of pain play, consent is required and the Dom must frequently ‘check in’ with the sub to confirm that consent is enduring, because it can be revoked at any time.

Body Modification

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“I didn’t do this because I wanted to be different. I did this because I want to be Me.“
-Rick Genest

Definition

Body modification doesn’t always have to be fetish related, but it often is. Body modification is any permanent or temporary change to the body, in this case, for sexual purposes. Sometimes the purposes have to do with marks of ownership in Dom/sub relationships. In other cases it has to do with becoming a role like a human pet. Anything that you have seen in the vanilla world from tattoos to piercings is possible. Many also view plastic surgery as a body mod fetish.

Risks

Most body modifications have minimal risks. Piercings and tattoos can get infected, but they are easy to take care of. The main risk with more permanent mods is psychological. It is imperative that couples decide together if the modification is what is right for the sub, and that no pressuring occurs. The submissive has to want it as much as the Dominant, and not just because the Dom wants it too! This is because modifications can have a significant effect on employment and other big life factors long after the BDSM relationship has dissolved (let’s face it, many relationships don’t last forever.)

Get Started

If you want to mark your sub, start with play piercings and needle play that will come out and close up after the scene. If that all goes well, then discuss what type of permanent markings you want as a couple, whether that be tattoos or piercings, and make it happen. There are plenty of kinky piercers and tattooists around who wouldn’t mind making the work ceremonial or even part of a scene, as many of those who work in the field are fetishists themselves.

Plastic Surgery as Body Mod

Many people love the idea of plastic surgery as part of their sexual fetish, whether it is because of dollification, bimbofication or a separate plastic surgery fetish. This comes with even more risks than piercing and tattooing, and should not be taken lightly. However, many pornstars, including TS woman Juliette Stray, have made this fetish a successful part of their image.

Bimbofication

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“It’s really fun to act like a bimbo.”
-Laura Hern

Definition

Bimbofication is a sexual fetish that is similar to dollification with some very notable differences. With bimbofication, the submissive in a relationship seeks to be turned into a brainless bimbo who is helpless and clueless. They may dye their hair blonde, the classic bimbo color, and get body modifications to give them that perfect slutty figure. Bimbofication has a lot to do with objectification. Bimbos enjoy being turned into sexual objects through different means, some more like role play, and others via life altering decisions not to be taken lightly.

Bimbo Modifications

Extreme lovers of the bimbofication fetish may actually go to a hypnotherapist to try to diminish the analytical parts of their personality. This is a task that should not be taken lightly, as it can have permanent side effects. Bimbos also often committed to intensive plastic surgery – ranging from less invasive changes like lip injections, to permanent body modifications like breast implants, liposuction and rhinoplasty. Before undertaking any of these modifications, bimbo fetishists should really think about the permanent nature of these mods and how it may affect your life in the long run.

Fun With Bimbos

Why do people want to become bimbos? It is often said that ignorance is bliss. Bimbos don’t let their pesky minds get in the way of voraciously devouring cock or pussy while handing over the thought process to a Dom that cares for their needs better than they could have on their own. Make a bimbo your friend and your cock will always have a devoted mouth, pussy and asshole open at your command. With this power comes great responsibility as bimbos are quite helpless, and many will do stupid things (often on purpose) to test your ability to clean up after them emotionally. Don’t let them near your financial accounts and be ready for plenty of frustration at first, as you take total control over a bimbo who has agreed to become willfully thoughtless for your amusement.

Uniforms

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Soldiers could fight in leotards, but that’s never going to happen because leotards aren’t intimidating.”
-Erin McKean

Definition

The uniform fetish, extremely present in, but not limited to, gay communities, has to do with how sexy different types of uniforms look on people. Those who enjoy uniforms like all different types of get ups. Some prefer military style looks from platoons present and past. Others enjoy firefighter outfits, police uniforms and the gear of authority figures. The uniform fetishes for women tend to be more feminine, with French maids and cheerleader uniforms being the top choices, though anyone can truly wear any uniform they feel sexy in. A lot of the uniform fetish has to do with figures of authority, and some get off on feeling like they are in charge in an official military uniform.

Authenticity

Some uniform fetishists who are into wearing the actual uniforms will go to great lengths to secure authentic pieces for their uniforms that they wear for sexual play. They scour online auction sites, hoping for the exact right piece to come along, checking the year it is from and the provenance, to make sure it goes with the other pieces of their costume. Others aren’t so anal about it, and are ok with pieces purchased at second hand stores or even cheap reproductions from costume shops.

Uniform Play Isn’t Cosplay

There are two key differences. First, Cosplay is far more about fictional costumes while uniform play is almost always rooted in reality. Second, and even more important, cosplay is individualized. With participants trying to share a fantasy about a unique character. Uniform play is much more about the organization than the individual. For example, someone wearing a flight attendant uniform is not trying to emulate a specific flight attendant the way someone wearing a wonder woman cosplay costume is trying to portray that unique individual. Instead, a uniform play flight attendant is trying to share in the fantasy of fucking a random flight attendant, or all flight attendants for that matter.

Role Play

You don’t have to get that thousand dollar authentic World War II fighter pilot uniform you saw online to participate in uniform play. You can actually start with some hot role play when you are completely naked. Part of what people like about uniforms is that it allows the players to step into different roles, so get started with a hot military commander, a naughty police officer or even a doctor who examines those down under places. If you and your partner get into the role-play, head to the local army/navy supply to get some uniform pieces and have more intense and sexy role-play action.

Dollification

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“A beloved dolls voice speaks directly to your soul in a way that cannot be explained in words.”
-Gayle Wray

Definition

Dollification is a very specific fetish in which someone has the desire to be turned into nothing more than a doll. It has a lot to do with objectification, and it somewhat related to the fetish of bimbofication. To complete this fetish, many cover themselves head to toe in rubber or other materials, including a hood or mask to hide their face and give them doll-like features. In this scenario, the submissive plays the role of the doll, and the Dominant usually cares for the doll in scenes, and may give orders or position the doll, depending on what type of doll they are playing as.

Extreme Dolls

Some people want to be as close to a living doll as possible so badly that they will go to great lengths to adjust their bodies to fit their view of what a doll should be like. They get breast implants to achieve fantasy proportions, and may even have surgery to remove their nipples or belly button. Sissy dolls (guys who want to be girl dolls) sometimes take hormones to improve their feminine figures and demeanors. Others do more common procedures like laser hair removal or microdermabrasion to give their skin a more doll-like appearance.

Dolls for Beginners

If you’re just getting interested in doll play, you don’t have to try all of those extreme body-modifying measures. Many players believe that dollification is more a mindset than anything. Trying a little role-play in the bedroom can be pretty hot. Turn your sub into your little doll for the evening. You get to dress them up and pose them, and do all the naughty things you want to them. As a couple you can decide what type of doll they would like to be whether it is a fashion doll, a robotic doll, or any other type of toy that you might have enjoyed looking at in the past. As you see, dolls can be more than just toys, but the very best dolls are the real people wiling to accept their objectification so that they can serve as fully functional manifestations of sexual ingenuity in ways that operating systems, artificial intelligence or robotics current can not – though one day this freak fetish very well may lead to an era where other people are no longer necessary for the most intimate forms of sexual expression!

Shoes And Boots

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“You want to be happy? You want to be well? Then put your boots on.”
-Norah Vincent

Definition

While some people love feet, others go gaga over shoes and boots. Many like strappy sandals, others prefer secretary pumps, and plenty prefer the full coverage of leather boots. With the latter, there is also a whole underground fetish culture of bootblacking, in which subs get off on polishing their Dominant’s shoes. It makes complete sense, since when getting your shoes polished you’re sitting high up on a throne-like seat, and the bootblack is kneeling on the floor beneath you servicing your needs in the physical and emotional sense.

Shoe Play

If you’ve been thinking of bringing shoe play into the bedroom, consider making the shoes an integral part of the play. Most think of shoes as static objects only for wearing, but they can be quite dynamic. When wearing shoes, you can stand over your submissive partner and carefully rub your shoes over the most sensitive parts of that person’s body. Activities like spit-polishing and leather licking will give your boots or heels the shine and polish they need while getting worshiped by the shoe freak of your choice. For a sexy spin on shoes, take one off and tie its strap across you sub’s mouth, making a fetish-friendly gag complete with the aroma of soft leather and your own sweet sweat. Some even like to have shoes poked into their orifices, with a stiletto heel often serving as a makeshift sex toy.

Why Shoes

Shoes such as high heels and boots look extremely sexy when a person puts them on, and can convey a sense of power or elegance depending on the fashion of their fit. You may have even tried this fetish unknowingly by asking your lady lover to leave her boots on while fucking her – or for you it might be associated with a fetish for feet as well. Almost anything can become sexualized, but shoes and boots have been primary fashion cues for sex since hundreds of years ago. Why do you think women are willing to shell out hundreds of dollars on a new pair of sandals?