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Phone Sex

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Tomorrow, you might get a phone call about something wonderful.”
-Regina Spektor

Definition

Phone sex is the art of picking up the phone to speak with someone by voice and using nothing beyond your shared imagination and audio interactions to reach orgasms together. Verbally describing everything you wish you could do to that person, in person while mutually masturbating to the sounds and creativity of your partner. Phone sex is perfect for couples that are long distances away from each other – whether permanently or short term, and there are some people who have a special affinity for dirty talk on the phone even if they live close to their favorite freak!

Phone Sex Tips

Newbies to phone sex often worry that they won’t know what to say. It’s normal to think this way, but it’s actually quite easy once you get the ball rolling. When you first try phone sex, make the build up slow and intense. The line “what are you wearing,” while it might sound cheesy, is actually a perfect one to try. Once you’ve got things hot and heavy, be sure to be very descriptive. Tell your partner exactly what position they are in and how hard or soft you’re doing whatever activity it is that you’re doing. Be sure to make lots of hot noises when you cum or yell out “I’m coming!” so your partner knows how hot they’re making you.

Visuals

In this modern age, phone sex has become about a lot more than just talking on the phone. You can always text your lover a hot photo to get them in the mood before you dial up their number for a hot ring. If you want even more visuals, you can send pictures during the phone sex session to prove that you’re really doing what you say you’re doing. For the ultimate thrill, hop on your favorite camera chat app and do face to face live sex! The key is being prepared ahead of time enough to avoid fumbling through the conversation without becoming so over prepared that what you say feels stale or contrived. Practice makes perfect, and that phone in your pocket may soon be the sexiest item in your life!

Erotic Massage

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Every point of contact between us feels important. A rush of energy and relief.”
-Victoria Roth

Definition

A massage is a wonderful thing. Most people know what a massage is, but an erotic massage is slightly different. This is when you and your partner turn what would just be a friendly massage that could occur between just about anyone into a hot massage that turns sexual and sensual. Usually erotic massage start out just like regular ones but then the massage continues onto the most sensitive bits of the body that most professional massage therapists would skip over. You don’t have to be a professional masseur as is quite easy to massage the pussy, ass or cock and elicit a pleasurable sensation. The nipples are also a favorite erogenous area for an erotic massage.

It Can Be Therapeutic

For many who have sexual anxiety or dysfunction, an erotic massage can be a form of therapy to help the person feel more confident sexually. Many erotic dysfunctions are caused by worry or stress about the ability to perform, so pairing up a relaxing massage with sexual arousal can be very helpful. In many cases, giving an erotic massage without release before a sexual encounter can help the massage subject achieve a more steady arousal through the main part of the sexual intercourse, until release at a mutually agreeable point is achieved.

The History of Massage and the Female Orgasm

In earlier times in history, women would go hysterical, largely because no one believed that their sexual needs were important. Doctors discovered that through a very specific type of massage on the pubic mound, women could be relieved of their hysteria. However, this job took hours and so they often taught the women’s husbands how to do it, or referred them to a midwife. With the advent of electricity, electric massagers were invented and the time to do the complex medical procedure went down to minutes.

Food Play

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“You can tell a lot about a fellow’s character by his way of eating jellybeans.”
-Ronald Reagan

Definition

Food play is any kind of sexual play that involves items you would normally eat. It could be dripping sexy chocolate or whipped cream on yourself, or sticking a zucchini in your orifices. Some who like food play, also known as sitophilia, enjoy messy things like girls who sit on cakes or who pour raw batter all over themselves, but other simply enjoy the fact that playing with your food has always been seen as naughty, and anything taboo turns them on. In addition, there are some foods that are supposed to create sexual effects when a person eats them which are known as aphrodisiacs.

Food and Genitals

Whenever mixing food and vaginas, you have to be very careful because adding too much sugar down there is a sure way to lead to a yeast infection. If you do end up playing with sugary foods like chocolate sauce or whipped cream, don’t put it inside the hole because it will be hard to clean her out. Even with a douche it will be hard to get all the sugar to leave your preciously balanced pussy. In addition, when playing with produce it is best to put a conDom on it because you never know what harmful pesticides might be lingering, even if you’ve washed it. Protecting the pussy is pretty easy, so do it with vigor!

Aphrodisiacs

There are some aphrodisiacs that are simply traditional foods from ancient times, but they haven’t been proven to work or not. Then there are those elements which have been proven in studies to boost libidos, whether in the moment or over a period of time of consumption. Oysters are one common aphrodisiac with zinc and amino acids which trigger the release of sexual hormones in most people, meaning that a plate of oysters will have you climbing the walls. Hot chili peppers make you feel hot – literally – and this could increase blood flow to those sensitive bits that need to get prepared for XXX action. Porn director Mike Adriano has famously filmed dozens of scenes where he jams a stick of butter in his costar’s assholes, and in one noteworthy example of sitophilia he uses one girl’s asshole as a cereal bowl while he and another girl spoon fruit rings and milk out of her colon for a breakfast snack. Don’t knock it till you’ve tried it!

Nipple Play

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Behind every beautiful thing, there’s some kind of pain.”
-Bob Dylan

Definition

Nipple play is a sexual practice that is pretty easy to discern what it is from the name of it. It is anything and everything that has to do with playing with the nipples, which are one of the most sensitive and erogenous zones of the body. Yes, they are very enticing and alluring to play with, but you also have to be careful since they’re so delicate. You can use clips, clamps, features, fingers and tongues to tease and tantalize them, until they stand up straight and tall, full of arousal.

There are many things you can do to the nipples that will make them feel great or make them feel pain. On the more vanilla side, there is licking and caressing. For some who have sensitive nipples, that can be enough to send them over into the edge of pleasure. If you’re looking to get kinky with nipples and cause a little pain, clamps are where it is at for serious freaks. There are many different types, which range from practically harmless to quite mean. Tweezers styled clamps are adjustable so you can make the punishment nice but naughty or very painful for the submissive involved. Most people believe that putting nipple clamps right on the nipple is the way to go, however, it’s actually best to put the clamps directly behind the nipple. Be careful because taking them off is actually more painful than putting them on!

Kinky Ideas

Many nipple clamp sets come with a chain in between the two clamps. Using a toy like this you can lead your sub around, keeping them very close to you, because they won’t want to let you tug too hard on their nipple chain! You can also add weights to nipple clamps, which makes them even more tormenting. Finally, if you want to prolong the pain, after the very evil act of taking clamps off, which hurts a lot, you can rub your fingers into the nipple to make it hurt so good, or rub tiger balm into the nipples to make the burning sensation last for a long while.

Forniphilia

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Art is the objectification of feeling.”
-Herman Melville

Definition

Forniphilia is an extreme form of bondage that turns someone into a literal piece of furniture. It takes a very obedient and strong submissive who can hold the same position for a while, or complex devices that have been tested for safety. Of course, turning someone into a table is quite easy, as you can just ask them to get on their hands and knees, however, a large part of the fun for many is the tight bondage and extreme objectification that takes place.

History

No one really knows when forniphilia originated, but anyone who is a fan of it knows that it was popularized by the late bondage artist and genius Jeff Gord who created a whole world of extreme bondage and objectifying devices in his unique and distinctive style. In his eyes, forniphilia represents art, as no one has been able to capture it before. Statues try to objectify the female form, but forniphilia captures it – quite literally. While most people aren’t quite as flexible or durable as Gord’s amazing and unique models, they can still experiment with forms of forniphilia.

It’s All About Objectification

Yes, people enjoy the bondage aspect of this unique fetish, but what they really love is the objectification and power play. To be turned into an object by your top can be very hot for some. No one knows exactly why, but it is certainly related to why people enjoy being called a slut or whore in the bedroom, which is a less extreme form of objectification. Any form of objectification can be sexy to try for anyone – guys and girls alike, as long as they enjoy being submissive. Always check in with a partner after or even during anything involving objectification to make sure they are still enjoying themselves.

Swinging

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“A love triangle is a threesome delayed.”
-Mokokoma Mokhonoana

Definition

Swinging is a lifestyle in which people who are in committed relationships enjoy swapping partners or having group sex with other like minded couples. It is different than other forms of non-monogamy because the members of the couples don’t necessarily try to have other loving relationships with people, they simply fuck them, usually in the presence of their partner, who may be a girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife. Many people find that swinging can invigorate a marriage in which the sex life have gone downhill.

Know the Terms

There are special terms that people who are into swinging know about, and you should familiarize yourself with them before diving in, so you’ll know what people are talking about. The most important ones are full swap and soft swap. Full swap means that the couples are willing to go all the way up to and including fucking. Soft swap means that the couple doesn’t want to have sex, but are open to other sex acts. They will usually specify their other boundaries to verify what acts they are OK with. It’s important to ask if someone is full swap or soft swap before engaging in play at a swinger’s party!

How to Get Into the Lifestyle

Many people have fantasies about swinging, but find it hard to figure out how to break into the lifestyle, which can seem like a clique. This is just not true as swingers are some of the most friendly and open-minded people you will ever meet! It’s recommended to check out a public swinger’s party, and make some friends there. Then you will meet people in the local community, and many of these players have private parties on their own time where more fun happens. This is how you can make long lasting friendships in the swinger community. If you don’t have a partner but are interested in swinging, you should try to meet people on special online dating sites just for those who are open to the lifestyle.

Nudism

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Walk Nude, and people won’t need to undress you with their eyes.”
-Thomas Fuller

Definition

Nudism, also known as naturism, is a practice followed by people who believe that being naked is always better. For many nudists, it is not even a sexual practice, but simply one that makes them feel wild, organic and free. For others, attending nudist events and going to naturist resorts is something they do in a voyeuristic way gawking at all the beautiful naked bodies, and being among other likeminded friends who enjoy being nude or having swinging adventures at the same time. Many swingers only getaways or vacations are held at nudist resorts, and are held during weekends when only swingers are invited to the place, so no one feels awkward or underdressed.

Nudist Etiquette

Since nudism isn’t always a sexual thing, there is a certain etiquette most naturists follow. First of all, cameras are often not allowed in nude spaces. People want to be able to relax and let it all hang out in these places, and having cameras around might make some people feel tense. It’s also polite to carry a towel with you and always sit on the towel. Never sit on any piece of furniture naked, for sanitary reasons.

Be Confident Don’t Act Confident

Some people who want to experience a nudist space feel worried that they don’t have that pornstar body they’ve always wanted. Don’t worry. One major reason many people become nudists is because the practice helps them feel comfortable and confident in their own skin. They often stop seeing that cellulite as a flaw and start to be able to embrace all the natural things about their body that they used to nit pick. The one thing nudists find sexier than anything else is self-esteem. Nothing is a bigger turnoff than an insecure asshats acting like they are proud of their body, and nothing is sexier than seeing a genuine person at peace with the body they inhabit. You are already everything you need to be, and everyone else will accept that as soon as you do.

Double Penetration (and variants)

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions.”
-Oliver Wendel Holmes, Jr.

Definition

Double penetration is the act of shoving two cocks or other objects into two different holes, or even two cocks in the same hole. For the most part, what people are referring to when they say double penetration or DP is one cock in the pussy and one in the ass during a Male + Female + Male threeway. This is a hole stretching experience to remember. However, it can also refer to two cocks in the pussy, known as double vaginal (DV), or double anal (DA). There is also triple penetration, which can mean a few different things as well. It can mean a traditional DP with a cock in the mouth as an addition, or it can be a DA or DV with another cock in the empty hole. The key here is the desire of the central participant to be stuffed to capacity by the other players.

It’s Not Gay in a Threeway

There are some guys who are a little shy about getting their dick so close to another man’s cock in a DP threesome or other group sex scenario. The thing to remember is that participating in a double penetration sex session with a gorgeous girl testing her limits feels amazing. There is only a thin membrane separating one cock from the other, in the case of a classic DP, and the feeling is awesome for every freak in the position so long as everyone can put aside their phobias! In double vaginal or double anal, the guys involved get a lot of sensation from rubbing their dicks against each other through the woman between them. Don’t be shy about a little cock on cock action in the name of DP – truly masculine heterosexual men are secure enough in their own identity to be able to double-stuff their date with the help of a pal and without any of the emotional baggage that a lesser man might experience.

Work Up To It

For anyone who seeks to achieve all holes filled status, or hole stretching double fucks, it’s important to work up to this kinky act of subjugation. If you think DP is something you’d enjoy, try getting fucked in your pussy with a butt plug in your rear end, and work your way up to bigger and bigger toys before trying it with two dicks. The same goes for double anal and double vaginal. Try playing with toys first. Inflatable toys are awesome because you can stretch them bigger without having to take anything out. Being fisted or double penetrated takes a certain amount of verve and a fair degree of tolerance for pain. With practice, your holes can be made ready for everyone to be able to have a turn. It’s that extreme level of endurance that many men respect in their concubines.

Voyeurism

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Voyeurism is participation.”
-Swinger Axiom

Definition

Voyeurism is the act of getting off while watching other people doing something dirty. You might have a fantasy of peeking in through a window and seeing something you’re not supposed to, or you may want to sit in the corner of a room while a couple goes at it and jerk it while they do the nasty. Whichever type of voyeurism you prefer, you definitely enjoy watching people get their rocks off from any perspective. People like voyeurism because it is a little bit of light power exchange. The person watching gets to see someone else nude and in a vulnerable position.

Consent

When you have a voyeurism fetish it’s always important to ask permission before you watch someone, even if you are at a sex party or swinger’s event. Peeping at people, even at sex parties can be problematic. At swinger parties there is the old axiom that “voyeurism is participation”, and you would certainly ask permission to participate in a sexual act before diving in, so the same rules apply to watching.

Exhibitionism

The other side of the voyeurism fetish is exhibitionism. These are people who get off on knowing that they are being watched. Many cam models and pornstars are exhibitionists, though not everyone who watches porn is a voyeur. A lot of people who are into sex parties are also exhibitionists or voyeurs, attending such events to fulfill their favorite fetish. Some people are both voyeurs and exhibitionists, equally excited at the idea of seeing people do dirty things as they are about being seen doing them.

With Great Privilege Cums Great Responsibility

There are many porn sites out there that are dedicated to the art of voyeurism videos to suit lovers of this fetish. These specialize in fitting room videos, upskirt cams and hidden camera movies. If you think you have a voyeurism fetish, check out a site like that and see if it turns you on. As a Voyeur you should always be ready to keep the secrets of those you spy upon, never tell others what you have witnessed or you become unlikely to ever be invited back to see more next time. Also, exhibitionists thrive on your reactions, watching is a passive activity unless you engage by showing your appreciation with facial expressions, applause, verbal comments and suggestions. Find out what your muse enjoys and feed her passion with your own in the ways she finds most exciting.

Wrestling

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Wrestling is therapy.”
-Eddie Guerero

Definition

Everyone knows wrestling is a sport in which people grapple with each other using techniques from various styles including Greco-Roman wrestling and Sambo. Wrestling in pop culture has become larger than life with staged fights and MMA events that don’t really fit the traditional view of what wrestling really was originally intended to display. In a sexual format, wrestling can take a few alternative forms. The main thing that erotic wrestlers enjoy is the physical struggle, and getting pinned beneath a sexual partner. Often, at the end of an erotic wrestling match, the winner will fuck the loser, either with a cock or strap on dildo to demonstrate their Dominance in a memorable way.

Power Play

Erotic wrestling is a varied type of play done between people in a competitive environment where one person is clearly going to win and the other will inevitably lose. The top is muscular and strong, or simply large, and the bottom is often skinny and weak. Bottoms enjoy the feeling of being helplessly trapped, and losing to a stronger more Dominant opponent. Other times it is done between people who are more evenly matched. In these cases, true struggle and the mystery of not really knowing who is going to come out on top combines the natural competitive spirit and libido of each participant to create a session far more exciting than simply rolling over and asking if the other person wants to fuck.

Safety

Wrestling is a dangerous sport, and erotic wrestling is even more dangerous because people may jump into it without really knowing how to best protect themselves. It’s pretty common to get an injury if you are inexperienced, especially if grabbing genitals and other dirty tricks are allowed, so you should prepare yourself before accepting a challenge and proceed with caution. If you are going to be wrestling seriously, make sure you wear important safety gear like a mouth guard and cup, also be sure you agree on a safe word and tap out motion to signal when you give up or want the play to stop. Underground tournaments can lead to brutal engagements that leave the mat soaked in sweat, blood and cum before the champion is crowned.