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Figging

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“That burning is pleasurable, that which enlightens the darkened path of others”
-Alok Jagawat

Definition

Figging is a sexual act involving the practice of shoving a piece of raw ginger into someone’s pussy or asshole. Ginger produces a unique burning sensation, which can last long after the ginger is removed. It’s an effective type of play because Figging provides ample punishment for unruly subs, but can also storing ginger inside their vagina is sexually stimulating for those who enjoy the unique sensation. Rubbing ginger on a cock, clit or nipples also gives an extra burning sensation that they will remember for a long time after the cum has been spewed and everyone else has gone to bed.

History

Figging is an all-natural activity that was once used to punish people in ancient Greece until the Romans took it over from them and continued the practice. Traditionally it was used for females but at some point they got the idea that Figging works on guys too. Used for punishment as recently as the Victorian Age, a time that inspired many of our modern BDSM activities, people would get tied up so they couldn’t remove the ginger root and would suffer with it in their holes until their punishment was concluded. During this time, figging was frequently part of a larger dose of corporeal punishment that included caning so the person wouldn’t clench their ass, to make the burning more intense.

Other Sick Burns

If you really like figging and want to continue on the journey of pussy and ass sensation play, there are other intense substances you can try. First of all, Capsaicin is the active ingredient in hot peppers, and you can buy it in cream form. Placed right on the clit, pussy or asshole it is unbearably hot and causes severe burning and pain. There are also different muscle creams that are designed to relieve your aches and pains, which tingle intensely on those delicate areas. Still ginger remains the time-tested and BDSM substance of choice for this kind of freaky behavior.

Electricity Play

Posted on May 26, 2020 | by freakz

“Electricity is really just organized lightning”
-George Carlin

Definition

Electricity play is any type of sexual play that uses a device, which uses electric current or gives an electric shock. Not everyone enjoys this type of play, but those who do can be quite fanatical about it, because it really is fun once you give it a try. Many say that electricity is a hard limit but it’s only because it sounds scary and they haven’t tried it just yet. There are multiple types of devices that can give electric shocks and currents, and some of them are more painful or pleasurable. Contrary to what many think, electric play with approved devices is actually quite safe and fun.

Shocking Devices

Medical devices often inspire the devices used for shocking electricity play, and sometimes the same devices that use electricity to help patients are the ones used by freaky people like you. A TENS unit is one such device that delivers an adjustable current or shock via almost any kind of device or medical style pads. There are dildos that can go in the pussy, plugs that can go in the ass, nipple clamps and other things that can help to electrify a person. Because it is adjustable, it can run from a low and pleasurable buzz to a mean and nasty shock. There is also the violet wand, which delivers a steady sexy current through a variety of conducting devices which also looks really cool, and different pokers and prods that are definitely more of a punishment because they deliver a quick and painful shock.

Safety

Electricity Play can be quite safe. The currents used are usually pretty low compared to what is making your light bulbs work in your home. However, the human body is an electrical device itself and so there is always a risk, especially when running electricity through the chest cavity. Many safety guides state that using electricity above the waist is not a good idea. One time it is definitely not safe is when your electric sub has an electronic device inside of them like a pacemaker or an insulin pump. These people should steer clear of any kind of play with electricity. Any electricity sex play near water is also an obviously bad choice. Be smart, be safe, and live to play another day when you are shocking one orgasm after another out of your submissive playmate.

Aftercare

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important.”
-Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Definition

Aftercare is something that many deem necessary in the BDSM world. This is because both Doms and subs can experience what is known as either Domdrop or subdrop after a scene, no matter how intense, and a good amount of aftercare can be good for everyone involved. Aftercare simply means taking care of a person’s emotional and physical needs after playing, and though it is typically the Dom giving aftercare to the sub, it can go both ways.

How to Administer

The type of aftercare to give really depends on the scene in particular and what the person needs. If it was a scene with a lot of impact play or corporal punishment, then the Dominant person might put a healing oil or salve on the sub’s marks and bruises. If it was a more psychological scene then simply cuddling and offering verbal reassurance could be of great help to both people involved in a scene. It’s a good idea to simply ask the person what they need, because otherwise it can become a bit hard to tell.

The Biology of it All

The reason why some people experience drops in energy and happiness after a BDSM scene is because during play, especially pain play, the body releases hormones known as endorphins. These hormones make the body and mind feel good – almost like the person is on a high, and after a scene the body lacks endorphins, causing the person to drop into a low energy state or even a mild depression. Aftercare helps to soften the biological blow of all the hormone depletion in the body, and makes for sweet and fun memories after challenging BDSM scenes.

It’s Not for All

Some people claim to not feel any difference in happiness or energy after playing in BDSM scenes, and that’s OK. These people often don’t want any after care and it would be wrong to make them get some if they don’t want it. Listen to what your play partner is telling you and you’ll be fine. Others might have unconventional forms of aftercare like eating a special treat or watching a TV show. The most important thing for the person giving aftercare is to listen to what the person receiving the care desires. If your sub wants you to throw her some loose change as she gathers her clothes off the floor and hurries out of your apartment in search of a Taxi, that’s perfectly appropriate. However, if she wants a hug and needs to be told you care about her after hours of gagging on your cock while she had a fist in her ass, be a gentleman and give her the hug she desires.

Tickling

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“If we couldn’t laugh we would all go insane.”
-Robert Frost

Definition

Tickling is something that most people have done at least once in their lives in a non-sexual manner. It’s when you make someone giggle by lightly stroking them, especially in the armpits or on the bottoms of the feet. Some people like to get tickled more roughly, with the fingers really digging into their most sensitive spots. Many who are into tickling as a sexual fetish enjoy seeing someone laughing and helpless, and love to use implements to further their happy desires. At first people think this is a strange fetish activity, but once they try it, they understand why there are a lot of fetishists for tickling out there. It’s nice to see someone smiling and laughing, and it’s also hot to see them struggling in a vulnerable moment.

How to Tickle for Sex

If tickling is your fetish then you should know that many people like to restrain their tickling subs with cuffs or rope to keep their most sensitive spots completely exposed and unable to be hidden. That way they can rub them and caress them, making them giggle for as long as they want, without the sub squirming around too much. If you get tired of using your hands, there are implements that people love to use to tickle including feathers, which are a favorite of tickling fetishists and other sensation toys. There are things called claws which you can wear on the tips of your fingers which add a nice sensation, and there are also soft toys like furs and light floggers which can be fun for tickling fetishists.

The Extreme Tickler

Some who love sexual tickling will not be satisfied until their tickling bottom wets themselves, which is a common occurrence when someone has been tickled to the brink. Whichever way you plan on playing, with tickling it’s important to implement a safe word because the person may be begging you to stop, but they really want the fun to continue, or they may be begging to stop for real safety reasons. The safe word should be something that you wouldn’t normally blurt out in the middle of a tickling session like “pineapple” or “Alabama.” When doing more extreme tickling play, such as having a group of people tickle one person, you should also monitor the person’s respiratory functions, since it’s easy to get out of breath and avoid using any obstruction like a ball gag unless you are very experienced and ready to take such a bold step together.

Humiliation

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“How embarrassing it is to be human”
-Kurt Vonnegut

Definition

Some people believe that humiliation has no place in the bedroom – until they try it at least. Humiliation is often times a part of BDSM play in which the sub is made to do degrading things, like crawl on the floor or drink out of a pet dish, so that they can feel humiliated inside. Name-calling is also a big part of humiliation for some. The words used depend on the particular humiliation needs of the submissive subject. Humiliation isn’t for everyone, but testing the waters the right way can be a truly life altering experience for freaky people who are able to unleash their inner pervert completely.

Set the Stage

Before engaging in humiliation play you need to discuss some limits and boundaries with your submissive. Find out of referring to her as a “worthless whore” is something that will enhance the experience or detract from it, or if it will pierce their interior being and make them feel truly terrible. Ask them what they deem to be humiliating in general terms or find out if they have any hard limits. Some people find getting spit on quite erotic, but not humiliating, while to others, spitting in the face is the most humiliating thing they will ever experience. Know yourself, know your submissive, then decide the best ways to humiliate the fuck out of them.

Be Firm

Newer Dominants are often hesitant to humiliate, unless that is their personal fetish. The main thing to remember when you are starting out with a new humiliation fetish is to be firm and serious in your demeanor. It’s not going to be sexy if you can’t humiliate someone authentically and doing it poorly can quickly destroy the trust your sub has in you. You really have to commit completely to the humiliation, and push any fear you have out of your mind. Humiliation is far more about displaying the confidence of the Dom than the endurance of their submissive. This is your time to shine, and the filthy skank who serves you deserves to be able to recall the experience with great pride in your ability to own their ‘self-esteem’ at least as well as you own a muddy pair of shoes or a disposable bag of snack chips.

Ideas

Humiliation can be derived from just about anything, but a common theme revolves around owning a submissive toilet slave. They find it humiliating to drink anything out of their mistress’s body or rejoice in the opportunity to clean the bowl for their Dom. Others savor being stepped on and trampled, either by bare feet or heeled shoes, and love the humiliating feeling of being a human rug. Still others find that the simple act of licking pussy or getting jizz all over their face and performing a public cum walk down the street to hit their humiliation buttons beautifully. The key is to find ways to disgust your submissive, and then demand that they take an active part in precisely the things they would otherwise choose to avoid entirely. After all, they are doing this because they want you to be proud of them more than they want to be proud of themselves.

Spanking

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“True freeDom is impossible without a mind first made free by firm discipline.”
-Mortimer J. Adler

Definition

Spanking is best known as the act of striking the ass with a firm hand. Why is it so alluring to smack the ass of another until it glows bright red and warms to the touch? In more extreme cases, a serious spanking can leave the ass of the target purple with bruises. Spanking fetishists who are very dedicated to the cause are also known as “spankos.” Purists stick to hand-spanking only, while others extend their love of spanking to include implements. There has been heated debated for decades about whether Caning and things of that nature should be included as spanking with an object or classified separately from hand-only spanking.

Where to Strike

When spanking, it’s important to know basic anatomy first. It’s best to strike mostly on the fleshy part of the ass, where there is enough cushion to absorb the impact and deliver a sting rather than an injury. A common bit of advice passed from experienced Doms to novices is “never hit high”, meaning one should always avoid strikes near the hips where the ass meets the back. Horror stories of injury and health issues almost always stem from kidney damage caused by an inexperienced Dom wannabee with poor aim and far too more confidence than they should have had. As a Dom you should never miss your target… ever, and if you did somehow due to an earthquake or other natural disaster you would still want to go low to hit the thighs instead. Between the thighs inches away from her pussy and asshole are especially tender sweet spots capable of delivering excruciating pain that disappears as suddenly as it arrives.

Spanking Positions

When you are getting ready to spank someone, you may wonder just how to do it. Many people prefer the traditional over-the-knee (OTK) spanking position where the spankee submits by leaning over the lap of the spanker while holding their ass high in the air for a spanking. This is a great position for some, particularly because it involves the act of submission and acceptance prior to the start of the spanking. For many, witnessing a submissive quietly giving herself up to assume the position is even more erotic than the act of spanking itself. However, it’s not an easy position to remain in for an extended period of time for anyone who is out of shape, elderly or infirm. Other noteworthy positions include having someone lean forward on table, which supplies much more support, or simply lying down on a bed or massage table which provides access for the Dom without stressing the knees or flexibility of the willing but unable submissive.

Spanking Vs. Being Spanked

Novices are surprised to learn that almost every experienced Dom has been spanked in their past. This is a crucial difference between real Doms and those who pretend to be Dominant as a way to obscure their lack of self-esteem, confidence and masculinity. A real Dom is secure enough in their skin to willingness experiment with certain submissive behaviors as a way to learn what the other side of the equation experiences. Figuring out exactly the proper amount of force to exert, knowing how many smacks are sufficient and understanding the limits of your submissive becomes far easier when you have already crawled a mile in their predicament. There is a joy to spanking that only becomes unlocked once one has been spanked as well.

Foot Fetish

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet.”
-Mahatma Gandhi

Definition

Foot fetish includes anyone who is obsessed with feet. There are many different foot fetish niches people enjoy and while some have varied interests, others are only aroused by narrowly defined aspects of foot play. Some enjoy large feet, while others prefer small ones. Many are fastidiously clean while others enjoy dirty peds. Some foot fetishists prefer a specific type of shoe, and purists prefer barefoot play. Foot fetish play can extend far beyond the foot itself with licking feet, massage rituals, trampling and many other sexual acts as logical extensions of the enjoyment. There are many ways to enjoy a foot fetish, and they are all completely valid!

Why People Love Feet

Some foot fetishists claim they were created that way. Others say that seeing sexy women in high heels was their first clue that feet were something special. Many feel their sexual interest defies simple definitions; they simply can’t ignore the siren song of a beautiful set of of toes. Feet aren’t something we usually see or touch when meeting strangers, and they can be a bit taboo since some feel lower extremities are stinky and gross. Why someone loves feet is far less important than how they love feet!

Anatomy of a Foot Job

So you’re falling for a foot fetishist and you want to know how to pleasure them. If you want to give someone a footjob, add some lube to the cock in question and rub your feet in hand-like motions. Be aware of the soft skin on the soles of your feet, the rougher sensation from a firm anklebone, the grip of your toes. Understanding your own body fully first is an essential area of self-education for anyone attempting to pleasure others. It feels especially good to rub the cock in the gap that is created by the delicate arches of the feet. Feet can even be stuck into orifices like a girlfriend’s pussy or her asshole, but be careful because the bigger the foot the harder it is to shove it in all the way and get it back out without incident. Make sure that you put a condom over the foot to avoid any scratching or lacerations from toenails, and prepare yourself for the sheer joy of finally having your entire foot deep in her gaping ass.

How To Reply To Critics

The best way to handle people that find foot fetish to be abnormal is to educate them with a patient, kind but firm approach in order to help free them of their misconceptions. There will always be some people who are so closed-minded that they prefer not to understand any uncommon ways to find joy in life. When encountering someone of that sort, quietly pity them and try to be compassionate, for they know not what they are missing.

Medical Play

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“The art of medicine consists of amusing the patient while nature cures the disease.”
-Voltaire

Definition

Medical play covers a lot of ground in the fetish world. There are many things you can do sexually with medical equipment; terminology or scenarios and often the people doing it best are the ones who enjoy role-play as a doctor, nurse, or patient in need of some unconventional treatments. Many playhouses have a mock medical room, with tools and decorations that give sex sessions the look and feel of a real doctor’s office!

How to Play

If you’re new to medical play, you don’t need anything fancy. You can start with a very thorough exam. Of course, you’ll want to make sure to pay special attention to the parts of the body that aren’t usually given enough special attention by other examiners. Breast exams, prostate tests and thorough genital exams are popular activities for beginners. Once you get more advanced, there is a lot of equipment and techniques that actual medical practitioners use which can become extremely satisfying like catheterization and speculum play.

What Makes Medical Play Sexy?

For some, it’s a way to overcome the emotional baggage of past traumatic medical experiences by turning them into fun and sexy encounters. For others, the difference in power that occurs between the Dominant medical professional and the submissive patient is a turn on. Compared to other types of fetish play, the submissive experiences a level of exposure and potential embarrassment at having their holes opened up with speculums and their most intimate organs examined. However, most med play enthusiasts have a fetish for access and measurements. Just what is the capacity of your lover’s cunt or asshole? How wide can she gape exactly? Only a full medical exam with your own expertise can earn you those answers.

Advanced Med Play

There are many professional Doms who have a lot of advanced medical equipment. These include electrical stimulation units to stimulate muscles, actual heart monitors that tell you how fast your favorite Domme is causing your heart to beat, or special inescapable medical restraints, which are the type they actually use to restrain medical patients who need that level of security. Always match your level of play to your level of experience, establish safe words and signals in advance, and be sure the patient is being properly cared for during each session. The health of the patient should always be your most important goal after all.

Enema

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“It’s sweet, sexy, and cleansing.”
-Chef Mario Batali

Definition

An enema involves shooting water or sometimes other substances into your butt, letting it stew inside your colon and then flushing it out of your ass by releasing it as a geyser of liquid. It is not always done as part of sexual play. Many people use enemas solely for the health benefits, but it can also be quite alluring as a sexual practice. Many suggest giving your anal sex partner an enema in preparation for anal play, to make sure everything comes out clean and sexy – especially for fans of ass to mouth sex. Advanced freaks and kinksters also make the enema itself part of the sex session, using the water pressure and uncomfortable feeling of holding it in as a way to teach any sassy sub to regret their mistakes. Unlike other forms of obedience training, enema play leaves no mark on the body, though extreme enema sessions can absolutely leave scars on one’s soul.

What Makes Enemas So Sexy?

Some people turn up their noses at anything that has to do with things that come out of the intestines when it comes to sex. Others understand it as a unique way to see a side of your partner that you are unlikely to reveal by any other means. A large part of the joy of enema play comes from having your partner’s abdomen full of water with no permission to allow it to escape. Just imagine filling up your naughty sub with water, plugging their hole closed and explaining that even more punishment is on the way if they allow even a single drop to spill out of their ass before you allow it. The submissive’s willingness to obey can be thoroughly tested, and that gives them the ability to prove they loves you with actions that matter far more than words. Love is sexy, in all its forms.

Recommendations

Enemas can be good for your health, but they can also wreak havoc if you do them too often or have health issues prior to starting them. Doing too many enemas may strip your intestines of the healthy bacteria that live inside you. They can also throw off the balance of your electrolytes or have other negative health effects. It’s always a good idea to consult a doctor before engaging in any unusual sex acts if your health is otherwise compromised. It’s also a good idea to put a touch of salt into your water enema. If you want an enema to be soothing, brew up some chamomile tea (check the ingredients to make sure it is only chamomile), and mix the tea with water in your enema bag.

Novice Vs. Expert Enema Play

Like many other aspects of freaky sex, there is a huge difference between a first timer trying novice enema play and an experienced couple who are already several thousand gallons down the path toward watery bliss in life. Know your role, understand your experience level and play accordingly. There is plenty of time to fill her ass like an aquarium and see if she can hold it for hours – start off slow and simple, to ensure everyone is healthy enough to do it again next time.

Fisting

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“I feel an army in my fist”
-Friedrich Schiller

Definition

The act of fisting shouldn’t be one that is very hard to figure out what it is. It’s when you stick your entire fist into someone’s orifice, whether it is a pussy or an asshole. There is an art to this act and it requires a lot of patience and tons of lube. You will also probably want to stretch out the hole before hand with toys and dildos before attempting to stick anything as big as a fist inside!

Guys vs. Gals

Fisting is different with guys versus girls, on both sides of the equation. Women have an easier time fisting people because they typically have smaller hands that slip inside easier when properly lubed. However, when they are on the other end of fisting, their pussy, which do have quite a bit of elasticity, still can’t stretch quite as wide as an asshole can, so it can be harder for a lady to get her pussy fisted than to have her lover wrist-deep into her asshole. Assholes are very elastic and there are guys who can take outrageously large things up their ass, including fists, but man fists can sometimes be too big to get access without extreme pain or the risk of tearing the rectum. Also keep in mind; women have a pussy and an asshole, so only females are capable of being double-fisted which makes them the clear winner in any gender-competition among fist fetishists.

Technique

In order to fist someone, you first need to warm up the hole with a few fingers. It it’s an asshole; it’s recommended to use objects of increasing size first to loosen things up. Once things seem open, start by inserting your hand in a “swan” shape. This is the most comfortable position, and the one most often used to insert the hand initially. Slowly keep pushing it in and mix in hesitations, withdrawals and plenty of lube along the way. The hardest part is the knuckles, and once someone is past that point, consider clenching your hand slowly at first before power-fisting them with gusto. Also, always remember to remove any jewelry from your hand before insertion, and have a safe word prepared in advance to ensure consent all the way from first contact to elbow deep in her sex sleeve.

The Extreme

There is plenty of evidence on the web of people getting fisted in their assholes up to an elbow. This is very freaky! When the fister moves their hand inside, you can see the movement in the fistee’s abDomen. This type of extreme play should be done between people who know each other well and who have good communication skills. It would be a mistake for a novice to suddenly start cramming his entire forearm up his girlfriend’s ass during first time fisting play. Remember, you want to fist her holes now and also long into the future. The key to fisting her often is to gradually build up her sexual ability level while honing your communication skills together. Treat her asshole and pussy like a complicated video game. You wouldn’t attack a boss monster when you are level one, and you should level up your fisting skills before fisting your way into her abDomen as well.