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Face Fucking / Deepthroat

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“Even the worst blowjob is still better than sniffing the best rose or watching the greatest sunset”
-Chuck Palahniuk

Definition

Facefucking is the act of grabbing someone’s head during a blowjob and shoving your cock as far down their throat as it will go, resulting in deepthroating, gagging and plenty of messy drool. Deepthroating can be done slowly by the blowjob giver, without facefucking, but it’s just not as much fun. There is a special joy in finding a slut capable of allowing their face to be fucked as deep and hard as their pussy or ass takes it. Many people enjoy the thick drool that comes up from a facefuck session, which is the perfect cock-coating lube for slamming her other holes afterward. In many instances, serious facefucking can result in vomiting and crying, or can be the start of more intense breath play.

Safety First

Due to the fact that your dick is about to completely block her ability to speak, it is imperative that you establish safe signals prior to fucking her face. Safe words are popular, but when you are balls-deep in the back of her throat she won’t be able to say anything at all. To keep both of you safe by confirming consent throughout the messiest facefuck of her life, choose simple signals she can use to tell you when she needs to come up for air. Dive signals like thumbs up or thumbs down work well, as does a simple Mixed Martial Arts styled tap out motion.

Domination & Submission

Facefucking is often done as part of Dom/sub play because the person getting their face fucked is so clearly submitting to the will of their Master. Deepthroating, when done on its own, could be done in a submissive, Dominant or neutral manner. In some bondage porn, you will see the sub getting facefucked while she is tied up and helpless – a physical challenge, indeed! And let’s note – facefucking is not just for the guys. Ladies can fuck their male or female sub’s face with a strap-on cock when they are in the mood!

How to Improve

Many women wish they could be better at sucking dick, because they find the idea of being facefucked hot but are too shy to tell their lover about their worries. How can a willing sub improve their deepthroat skills? Practice makes perfect. Any submissive slut reading this should immediately go buy a dildo – don’t skimp on size, you want one that is at least two inches longer than your mate’s cock with similar thickness to his dick. When you are alone, practice shoving it down your throat. Sure, you’ll gag a lot at first. But begin slowly and gradually you will build up enough of a tolerance to throatfuck yourself hard enough to cause your gag reflex to fade away like a summer tan in January. Remember, when you first start out things will get messy and that’s perfectly normal. Clean up before anyone else comes home and nobody will be the wiser about your deepthroat practice sessions.

Rope Bondage

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“Man is a rope, tied between beast and overman—a rope over an abyss…”
-Friedrich Nietzsche

Definition

Rope Bondage stems from the traditional Japanese art of Kinbaku, or rope bondage. It is the act of tying someone up with ropes. There are many different knots you can study and try, and many different ways to tie someone up. Some people prefer ropes to cuffs simply because they find it more sensual and they enjoy the creative process of using their knowledge to bind their submissive in different ways. It’s a big part of the fun!

History

Rope Bondage has a rich history starting in early Japan. It was first known as HoJoJitsu, which is a style of fast bondage that can take someone down quickly, and was used to hold criminals and military prisoners before they could be brought to jail. This developed into a complex system of ties, with different ones denoting the prisoner’s military status. Over the years, different types of bondage have developed, including shibari – a more decorative style, and kinbaku – a more functional style.

Types of Ropes

Most bondage practitioners have a preference for a style of ropes. There are many types out there. There are natural fiber ropes like jute and hemp, which feel slightly scratchy against the skin, and there are also smooth unnatural fiber ropes made of nylon which are silky and sensual. Most bondage “snobs” prefer natural fibers because they hold up much better over time and look pretty sexy, however, others find the sensual feeling of nylon very hot, and they enjoy the fact that it can come in any color imaginable.

Positions

Rope bondage can be done in any position imaginable. That’s the beauty of it. However, there are many classic ties, which you will see emulated on rope bondage picture and video sites. The most common is the box tie, which originates from the original Japanese bondage. It holds the sub’s arms behind their back in a comfortable position. There is also the hogtie which sees the sub laying on their stomach and their legs folded up, rendering them helpless. The steer tie is the opposite of a hog tie, with the legs and arms getting tied together in front of them.

Mummification

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“Impotence, fetishism, bisexuality, and bondage are all facts of life, and our fiction should reflect that.”
-Rick Moody

Definition

Mummification is a type of rather extreme bondage which you can probably imagine what the results look like. The submissive person gets wrapped up in something which turns them into a living, breathing mummy, like the kind from Ancient Egyptian lore. This is complete bondage and it requires both an experienced submissive and a talented top who can manage the situation and keep things fun and safe for all. One common difference between a BDSM mummy and a traditional one is that often the genitals are left outside of the wrappings for fun play, and sometimes the nipples are as well.

Materials

The most common material for mummification is plastic wrap. It’s most useful to use an industrial sized roll, because it takes a heck of a lot of wrap to wrap a whole person! Those who want the bondage to feel very secure often use a layer of duct tape or bondage tape on the top of the wrapping to make it more firm and complete. In very extreme cases people actually get casted over their whole body, rendering them very helpless. That is something that should only be done by those with expertise.

Positions

You would think that the regular lying down position would be the most popular for a mummy but there are other positions that can be better, especially if the person is going to be in that position for a while. For long term casting, a comfortable position sees the legs slightly bent and the arms held out. Others simply like to ball up a person and turn them into a tiny package with all of the bondage that, by the time it is done is rather inescapable. No matter the position, you should maintain regular communication with your sub throughout the mummification practice to keep things safe and fun.

Safety

Mummification can be more dangerous than other bondage activities, especially if the face is covered. Some people like to use a separate hood instead of covering the face in the same materials as the mummification process because it will be easier to remove in case better communication is needed. In addition, be aware that some positions are more dangerous than others as they will not allow the stomach to expand fully for breathing, so those positions should only be used for short amounts of time.

Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“Pain is truth, all else is doubtful”
-J.M. Coetzee

Definition

Cock and Ball Torture is exactly what it sounds like. It is the act of torturing the cock and balls of a male submissive. There are many well-established methods to do this, which can be carefully calibrated to deliver a precise amount of pain, making it a preferred way for a Dominatrix to fine tune sex sessions for the desired result. Some people prefer tight cock and ball bondage while others favor painful clips, clamps and vices. There are some devices, inspired by medieval times, like The Humbler, which contribute to the level of torment. Though the acronym often used is CBT, it shouldn’t be confused with the psychological term Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, even though lots of those who enjoy this practice get a chuckle out of that ambiguity.

Homemade Tools

You probably have a lot of the tools you need for CBT right at home already. You can use a shoelace for cock bondage since a thin cord often works better than a thicker one. There are many great tutorials on the Internet for the specific knots and ties that work best. In addition, you can use simple tools like hair clips and notebook binder clips on the cock and balls. If you want to add a poking sensation to penis pain, use the wooden skewers that you might have used for shish kebabs at a summertime party. A rubber band is perfect for twanging a dick but beware it usually leaves long-lasting marks on the skin. Many experienced Doms prefer clothesline because it can be purchased with a wax coating that leaves less of a mark when released.

Safety First

When you are experimenting with Cock & Ball Torture it’s important to keep safety in mind. It’s very easy to get carried away as a sadist because torturing a man’s cock is super fun and gives an immediate response with each and every action. However, it’s important to have a safe word in place so anyone can stop the torturous action if it gets to be too much. You should know that dicks can take a lot of punishment but you should talk to the person you’re playing with before hand to see what type of pain they like and how much of it they can take. Some people are really tough with their dick pain while others howl after what may seem like only a benign flick of your fingers.

Why Would Anyone Want To Do This?

That’s the silly question so many squares like to ask. The answer is simple. Why would anyone want to eat an ice cream sundae? Why would a man want a pretty girl to suck his dick and gag on his cock until she is close to vomiting? What makes some people prefer sex with multiple partners while others enjoy monogamy? When we look deeper into the minds of other people, we look for reflections of our own self…. But as any experienced freak already knows, we are all unique and the expectation of finding yourself in others is nothing more than a fleeting illusion at best.

Chastity

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“Chastity… the most unnatural of all the sexual perversions.”
-Aldous Huxley

Definition

Chastity once served a purpose. Knights and important men would lock away their wife’s pussy so no one else could misuse their property, but now, it has become a fetish. There are probably more guys who enjoy this fetish simply because it is easier to lock up a cock and adhere to hygienic standards than it is for a pussy, though chastity belts for women still do exist. Usually the submissive has their genitals locked up with a chastity belt or similar device and someone else is their keyholder. Having someone else control your not only your orgasms but any access to your most intimate areas can be a source of intense power exchange among full time BDSM couples.

How Long Is Access Denied?

Some people get locked up in a chastity belt for a few hours during a play session while others give themselves over to someone and leave that decision up to their keyholder. Some people have their orgasms off limits for months at a time, leading to some serious sexual frustration during periods of prohibition. You should be aware that taking away complete access to sex can be very distracting and it can also affect your ability to work or do the things you normally do in life outside the bedroom. If you’re a very physically active person, the devices themselves can also become restrictive as far as how much movement you can engage in athletically; so long term chastity may not work for you.

The Devices

Modern chastity devices are much better than their medieval counterparts. The ones available for women today often come with different options, such as the ability to leave the backdoor open or closed, and interior shields that make them more comfortable, because the shield can be removed for cleaning. Men’s chastity belts – often referred to as cock cages, encase the cock inside a rectangular prison. Usually that prevents even a mild erection from being possible. They can also be made from plastic or stainless steel. Some cock cages have nasty spikes on the inside to make any arousal physically painful as a sensory cue for training purposes. The most extreme versions of chastity devices integrate body piercings into their overall design for maximum security.

Hygiene

The best way to maintain proper hygiene while wearing a chastity belt is for the keyholder to observe the submissive while they remove the chastity device and clean themselves before putting it back on, to make sure that no “mistakes” can occur during washing. Others like to allow these naughty transgressions to happen because punishment for non-approved orgasms is also a terrific way to teach the consequences of disobedience! Devices really do need to be removed about once a week at a minimum in order to avoid a nasty funk and abhorrent smell. Even the filthiest female whore also needs to clean her pussy regularly, especially during menses in order to maintain a proper PH balance. Otherwise serious health ailments can occur, and her pussy would become useless during times when it is desired in any case.

Orgasm Permission And Forced Orgasms

Chastity is the more serious overarching aspect of a more popular fetish known by many as Orgasm Permission or Forced Orgasms. In these subcategories of Chastity play, a Dominant partner controls his submissive’s ability to climax by withholding permission, or requiring an orgasm to occur within a set timeframe. For example, a Dom might tell his sub “You have three minutes to cum, and if you fail you will not be allowed to cum any time in the next three weeks” or a Dom may tell his submissive to rub her pussy and bring herself to the precipice of an intense orgasm, only to abruptly end the session and flatly explain “no orgasms for you today.”

Cosplay

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“I think if human beings had genuine courage, they’d wear their costumes every day of the year, not just on Halloween.”
-Douglas Coupland

Definition

Cosplay is what happens when wearing the costumes of their favorite characters is what turns people on the most. Cosplay doesn’t even have to be sexual; people can enjoy dressing up and getting all the details of a costume perfect without having sexual connotations. However, when it turns kinky is when you have sex while dressed up as your favorite character. Cosplay get ups can get quite detailed which only reflects the complex outfits designed by animators and costume designers.

Buy it vs. Make It

If you want to try cosplay, there are many different ways you could make your costume happen. First of all, you can usually buy costumes of popular characters from a website or costume store if it is near Halloween. Some people love that, however, others find it is more fun to make the costume either from scratch or by piecing together different pieces from thrift stores and craft stores. Still others enjoy actually crafting the costumes from scratch, which requires a lot of skill and a good, artistic eye.

Role Play

The reason why people enjoy doing cosplay during sex is that is gives you the opportunity to bring some deeper role-play into the bedroom. You can play the part of your favorite super hero who rescues the girl and then ravishes her in victory, or the part of the super villain who is the one who captured her in the first place. You can also role play epic romances between sexy people on TV, or get your fantasy fulfilled of fucking the hottest celebrities around. When it’s put in those terms, cosplay makes a lot of sense.

You Are Anyone or Any Thing

The other reason why people love role-play is that you can be anyone. You don’t have to be Joe the boring accountant or Gina the nurse, you can be the exciting person you’ve always dreamed about and that tends to make sex a lot more interesting when you really think about it, doesn’t it?

Edge Play

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“Nothing is ever as simple as it seems. At the edge of perception, weird things dance and howl.”
– M.H. Boroson

Definition

Edge play is defined as anything that has been deemed too taboo to even really talk about in mainstream society, and even fetish communities. It’s the things that only the freakiest people do that aren’t quite illegal, but you might think it is, or that it should be. The people who do edge play are ones who aren’t afraid to be themselves, despite what society might think of them. They usually keep things behind closed doors and don’t talk about their deep dark secrets in the light of day.

What Is Real Taboo?

Taboo activities go beyond a stepsister fantasy, a bondage experience or some golden shower. They are the things that even the pros don’t do, and the things you won’t find in any porn movie on the regular net, you will have to go to the dark net for these. No one is here to tell you whether or not these things are moral or not, we’re simply here to educate you that these things exist and are here for those who wish to have those types of experience. Most BDSM and fetish events don’t have anything considered edge play because it often scares other people.

Trust

If you are ever planning on doing anything related to edge play, it’s best to do it behind closed doors with someone you trust. You can’t expect to go to a fetish party and do the most taboo things and get applauded. You’ll likely get kicked out and told never to come back again. It’s best to do these things with a trusted partner who you’ve known for a long time. Use safe words so that you can let your partner know if you really want things to stop, and make sure you have other safety measures in place, which could vary depending on the activity at hand. Edge play can be great because exploring such dark nether regions can bring people closer together than ever before, but there’s a reason why most people never enter these rich waters, so be careful and always play safe!

Breath Play

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“Remember to breathe. It is after all, the secret of life.”
-Gregory McGuire

Definition

Breath play is actually something that a lot of people do behind closed doors in the bedroom. There are many forms of this type of play and some of them are kinkier and some are more regular. Breath play spans from having your lover cover your mouth and nose with their hands, having them cover your mouth and nose with their mouth and breathing with you, or having them shove their cock down your throat, cutting off the air. There is also the more dangerous act of having some type of ligature placed around the neck as part of breath play, or having your partner use their hands. This is an intimate act that should only be performed with someone you trust.

Safety first

Breath play can be done very safely, contrary to popular belief. The safest forms of breath play are using your hands or an easy to remove object over someone’s mouth or face. This is best because at the first sign of any real distress, you can just take the object away and check in with the person. You can also do the classic hands around the neck. Only press on the sides, as it will be more uncomfortable if you press in the middle and could make the person cough, ruining the sexy moments. If you want to get into bondage, this is a more dangerous territory.

Always have any neck bondage separate from the rest of the tie and easy to release should anything go awry. In addition, always have scissors handy to cut the rope. It’s really not recommended to try this type of bondage, but people are probably going to do it anyways since it’s really popular, so you might as well have all the safety facts. You should never try to do breath play by yourself! You also need to have a safe word and a safety motion like putting one finger up in the air so the person can let you know if it’s too much and they can’t talk.

Take My Breath Away

It’s quite normal to like choking during sex, even though people with these desires often think they are extreme. People like to get choked because it’s part of power play. It makes the person on the bottom feel vulnerable, and from a biological perspective, there is a big head rush that adds so much physical sensation to the already sexy time. If you want to try choking, there’s nothing wrong with you; in fact, you’d be just like the majority of people who’ve already added it to their sexual repertoire.

Cuckold

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“My wife is a sex object. Every time I ask for sex, she objects.”
– Les Dawson

Definition

If you find that your honey objects every time you want to have sex, you may be in for a hot cuckolding fantasy. This is when a guy’s female partner, often known as a hotwife or cuckoldress, denies him sex, usually because he is too weak and pathetic to please her. She goes out and finds other hot guys who know how to pleasure her with their superior dicks. The cuckold might just know that the Dominant woman is going out to find better cock, but he might also watch her get pleasured by a better dick than the one he has. Sometimes cuck play is also used in conjunction with BDSM concepts like chastity and bondage. Often times the sub guy has his dick locked up since it’s of no use anyways, or he will get tied up while watching the hot sex so he doesn’t touch his worthless cock without permission.

History

In the first usage of the term cuckolding, it wasn’t so kinky. It usually just denoted a guy who was getting cheated on in the middle ages. There is a famous mention of the word in Geoffrey Chaucer’s The Miller’s tale. However, slowly over time it came to be a fetish instead of just a word. No one knows exactly when people started to get kinky with this act, but it’s pretty popular now!

Why Would He?

Why would any guy willingly give up access to his lady’s pussy? While, some guys get off on being submissive and humiliated. Sometimes this desire just comes up naturally, and other times it stems from experiences early on in life. Still other people say that they actually do have really small and useless cocks and being a cuck helps them feel useful to their partners. One thing is for sure – the cuck needs to have a sexually submissive nature. Some people think cucks just want to escape the stresses of every day life, while others who follow a Freudian school of thought believe that is it a sexualization of the constant evolutionary struggle that men go through all the time to prove their Dominance.

Is it cheating?

When people hear of cuckolding, some of them can’t believe that such a thing would exist and that people would participate willingly. But, there are actually quite a few types of lifestyles like swinging and polyamory, which involve partners willingly and consensually having sex with others outside of the relationship. If everyone is in the know and agrees to everything, then it’s really not cheating, and it’s actually a whole lot of fun.

Pegging

Posted on May 25, 2020 | by freakz

“I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty.”
-John Waters

Definition

Pegging is what happens when you’re a guy with a Dominant girlfriend. It specifically means when your lady puts on her strap on dildo and pounds you in the ass like you’re her bitch. Pegging used to be more taboo but as of now, it’s a pretty regular thing to try. Remember, liking it in the butt doesn’t mean you’re any less of a man; in fact, it may make you an ever better one.

Opening Up

If you’ve never had anything in your backdoor hole before, you may want to stretch it open with some toys before you go for the gold. Try small butt plugs and work your way up to something bigger. Remember, never stick anything up there that doesn’t have a flared base because it can actually get sucked up inside of you and that’s one hospital trip that is hard to explain. Use lots of lube and go slow. Never force anything anally. Just relax and take your time, and things will be loose and opened up before you know it.

History of Pegging

No one really knows when pegging as a practice started, but one can assume that dudes have been sticking things up their butt since the beginning of time. It was first mentioned as a practice in a book by the famous Marquis de Sade published in 1795. It has gained more popularity in recent years, because it has become more acceptable to talk about alternative sexual desires.

Getting Dirty

Many people are quite worried about trying pegging because they don’t want to get dirty. You should know that many people get ass pounded with no mess at all. If you feel especially nervous about it you can give yourself a thorough enema before engaging in any play back there.