Doll Fetish

“There are two kinds of people, those who love dolls and those who don’t yet know that they love dolls.”

-Gayle Wray

Definition

A doll fetish is when a person is attracted to dolls and other doll-like objects. This can include the desire to perform a sexual act with the doll, watch simulated interactions between dolls, or transforming someone into a doll. This is also known as agalmatophilia and object sexuality. 

Attractive Dolls Throughout History

The idea of sexy dolls is nothing new. Barbie has been the most notorious sexy doll and is a big inspiration for dollification, which is the transformation of a person into a doll. Throughout history there have also been dolls for adults or collectors, which are dolls not meant to be played with but meant to look at or collect. Dolls in ancient times were often made in the image of big breasted curvy women and used in fertility ceremonies, and were also collector items. 

Sex Doll Evolution

The first sex dolls were created in Germany in 1941 as a way to keep the military from contracting STDs. In 1980 the first sex robot was created in the UK. In 1996 the first realistic sex doll was created, known as the Real Doll. Real Dolls changed the way people thought about the doll fetish.  The Real Doll definitely appeals to doll fetishists, but because Real Dolls are so realistic they have extended their appeal way beyond the confines of this fetish. They are being used as sexual surrogates, for people with sexual disabilities, and for living out fantasies like threeways for people who want group sex without the group. Real Dolls have done a lot to bring agalmatophilia to the mainstream, and though they are still not considered common sexual tools they are now grouped into the category of sexual aids.

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Condom

“Use a condom. The world doesn’t need another you.”

-Caroll Bryant

Definition

A condom is an object that people wear to prevent transmission of STIs and pregnancy. Most of the time it is guys who wear them, but there are female condoms as well. Condoms are usually made out of latex, but since some people are allergic to that, there are also non-latex material alternatives. There are even condoms made out of sheepskin, which is the original material they were made out of way back when. Most people believe that latex condoms or the mainstream non-latex options work the best, but the sheepskin condoms are certainly an experience to be had.

Condom Excuses

Lots of guys say they don’t like condoms because they dull the sensation when fucking or they are too uncomfortable. They can come up with all sorts of excuses not to wear one. If you really want your partner to wear one, tell them that no condom = no sex. Wearing condoms is really effective in preventing STIs and pregnancy, and quite important for your sexual health, especially if you are with a new partner who hasn’t gotten tested in a while. Protect yourself by wearing condoms. It’s the smart thing to do!

Make it Sexy

If you think condoms aren’t sexy, you just haven’t made them sexy yet. They can be a sensual part of the sexual encounter. You can try putting the condom on your partner as part of the foreplay. You can also get flavored condoms which are great for lubing up a cock with some oral sex before the main event happens. If you try any of these tips, you’ll see that condoms don’t have to be a boner killer as some people would have you think – they can be a boner grower!

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College

“Some people get an education without going to college. The rest get it after they get out.”

-Mark Twain

Definition

College is a special time in anyone’s life, but even more so when you are quite sexual as a person. College people tend to have a ton of sex, and those who are basically frat mattresses are the most popular guys and gals around. There are definitely a lot of people who fantasize about bagging a college girl and pounding her until she can’t take it anymore, and many pornstars and strippers start to work in those fields during the years they are in college. It’s a great endeavor to get an education while you are still fresh and nubile like that!

Hottest College Cuties

If you want to see hot college cuties all the time, there are many outlets you can turn to. You can try to pick them up in real life, but if you want to see next-level hotties like Elsa Jean or Megan Rain naked, you should definitely turn to your favorite cam site or porn site. You won’t be able to fuck these chicks in person, but at least you know you will see something sexy with a girl who is between the ages of 18 and 21. Otherwise you can try going to the local college haunt to try your luck picking up college hotties, but that might be more hit and miss than watching porn.

College Categories

Coeds seem to get themselves into all sorts of trouble like walking in on their stepbrothers masturbating and then helping them get off, or seducing their professors to give them a good grade. Perhaps that’s why college coeds are one of the most popular porn categories in the world. People love these fresh sluts who come to the cams with an eager attitude and that special air of naivete which allows them to suck cock with reckless abandon.

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Clothed Sex

“The finest clothing made is a person’s own skin, but, of course, society demands something more than this.”

-Mark Twain

Definition

Clothed sex is just what it sounds like: sex with clothes on. There are different variations on the theme but most of the time when you have clothed sex, it’s simply because you only have a few minutes to fuck or you think your date’s outfit is really hot. If you really muse on the subject, there’s absolutely no reason to take off your clothes when you fuck, especially if your lover is wearing a skirt and you can just unzip your fly and whip it out. Clothes can make a sexual encounter surprisingly hot!

Variations

Sometimes one person remains clothed while the other person remains naked. This is known as CFNM – clothed female naked male – if the guy is nude, or the opposite, CMNF – clothed male naked female. Usually in this context the naked person is submissive and the clothed person is dominant. It can be a fun bedroom game to play if you want to experiment with something new. It’s easy to do and doesn’t cost anything to try, since it only involves removing some clothes!

Clothed Sex Ideas

So you want to try having sex with your clothes on… You can ask your date to wear something specific that you think they look super hot in, or you can think of a roleplay that would require a specific outfit. Maybe she’s the real estate agent and you’re in a potential property. You have to be quick so you can’t take the time to take all your clothes off! Perhaps it’s a sexy chef who needs to get back to work as soon as possible but can only concentrate on her craft if she gets off. All of these ideas can lead to an amazing clothed sex session, so give them a try!

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Clitoris

“I told her the clitoris is like a Bonsai tree that needs constant tending and the g-spot is an unexplored island waiting to have a flag pinned on its peak.”

-Chloe Thurlow

Definition

The clitoris is the pleasure button on a woman that sits right above her pussy hole. If you don’t know where the clitoris is, you should definitely find out as soon as possible because it will definitely win you brownie points with any girl. Different women like different types of stimulation on their clitorises, but the majority of women actually need clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm of any kind. It is estimated that there are over 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, making it very sensitive!

Stimulation Styles

Different people like different stimulation of their clits. This means you have to ask them what they like before you do it. But there are some basic things you can try. First of all, fingers are always good. They can rub back and forth over it, eliciting pleasure. You can also try licking it, which is usually a favorite activity of many people. Make sure to try it hard and light, and see which way the person likes it. Many women like to use a vibrator on their clits during penetrative fucking to make it feel even better and elicit a clitoral orgasm that way.

Everyone’s Different

Just like cocks, everyone has a different type of clitoris. There are big ones that might even look like a tiny penis, and small ones that might be harder to find. There are clits with big clitoral hoods covering them and ones that are more easy to expose. Some girls even choose to get a piercing through their clit to show how adventurous they are, while others have tattoos or different trimming styles down there. When you see a clit for the first time you shouldn’t be surprised by what you see, so know to expect anything!

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Cheating Wife

“If you’re not cheating, you’re not trying.”

-Eddie Guerrero

Definition

A cheating wife is just what it sounds like – a married lady who decides to step out on her husband and see someone else who can satisfy her better. There are many different reasons why people want to go out with a cheating wife as opposed to a single girl, and they may not all make sense to you. But when it comes to cheating it’s very important to not judge, because you never know what kind of situation you will find yourself in one day!

Why It’s Hot

Cheating wives are hot to some people because of the idea that their husbands don’t take good enough care of them. Maybe they work too much and leave the wives at home alone all day, or maybe they just don’t know how to pleasure them sexually. Other people simply like the idea of having a great secret that will just be between the two of you. Whatever the reason you like cheating wives, you should know it’s a touchy thing to get involved with. If the husband finds out, things could get pretty bad for you!

Is It Ethical?

Some people worry that having sex with cheaters is not ethical. However, it’s really up to you. If it’s something that turns you on and titillates you, then go for it, but be aware that you could get into trouble down the line if you end up falling in love or getting caught. Both of those outcomes will cause some strife in your life, so make sure you can keep your feelings in check and don’t expect any cheating wife to leave her hubby for you permanently! If you can keep those things in mind, you can expect to have a great time with a hot wife who is cheating.

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Camming

“Whosoever possesses a camera should never know boredom.”

-Wayne Gerard Trotman

Definition

Live camming is one of the hottest trends to hit the porn industry in the past few years. It’s not that it is better than a static porn movie, it’s just that it is different. You get to watch a live cam show with hot girls or guys, depending on your preference, and control some of the action. Models get to cam from home, which is convenient for both them and their viewers. It’s also a situation where you never know what to expect or what you are going to get. You can participate in a fun party chat or take your favorite sweetie to private. There are also a lot of pre-recorded live cam shows out there on the web for you to enjoy!

Camming Etiquette

Camming is a fun thing to do for the models, but if you’re new to watching them, there are some things you should know. You should read a performer’s profile to see what they are into, to see if they are compatible with what you want to do online. If you make any requests in free chat, throw them a little tip, even if it is just a few coins, since it’s a great way to show a cam performer that you’re really excited to see what they have to offer. Of course the best cam shows happen in private, where you get the performer all to yourself!

International Friends

The best part about watching a cam show is that the girls can come from all over the world. You can make a lot of connections with Asians who are really from and still living in Asia, people from Africa and even people from South America. Probably the only place people haven’t cammed from is the Arctic Circle or Antarctica, and only because it’s too cold to take off all of your clothes and dance in front of the camera!

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Reciprosexual

“I believe, Eragon, that you are full of love and that you are looking for one who will reciprocate your affection. No shame exists in that.”

-Christopher Paolini

Definition

Reciprosexual is an orientation on the asexual spectrum. A reciprosexual person does not experience sexual attraction unless they know that the other person is sexually attracted to them first. Reciprosexuality is considered part of the asexual spectrum because a reciprosexual person does not experience sexual attraction on its own. You can be reciprosexual and bi, gay, or straight, but you do not have to be. Some people who are reciprosexual do not have a gender preference, so their reciprosexuality applies to any person of any gender that shows sexual attraction to them. Some do have a specific gender preference and will only show sexual attraction to someone in alignment with their orientation, such as a gay reciprosexual. 

Reciprosexuality Judgment

There is often judgment that is lobbed on people who are only attracted to someone once that person is attracted to them first. People say it is a sign of low self-esteem. It is not. Reciprosexual is not an orientation that a lot of people are familiar with, and what they do not understand is that you are not withholding sexual attraction. A reciprosexual person is simply not even experiencing it until someone else does first. 

Am I Ace?

A reciprosexual person can definitely be asexual but that is not always the case. Reciprosexuality is on the asexual spectrum because the orientation demonstrates a specific type of sexual attraction that responds to a requirement. Without that requirement there is no sexual attraction, which is Ace. Once a reciprosexual person connects with someone they may well have a strong sexual attraction from that point forward with that specific person. 

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Queerplatonic

“People are too complicated to have simple labels.”

-Philip Pullman

Definition

A queerplatonic relationship, also known as a QPR, is a relationship that spans the divide between a romantic relationship and a friendship. It is more than friends but less than a typical alloromantic relationship. This is also called a queerplatonic partnership or QPP. 

The One with the Friendship

QPR is often a desirable type of relationship in the aromantic community. Many Aro people want a relationship that is more than friends but less than romantic. QPPs are not specifically monogamous but do not typically identify as polyamorous, as both of those relationship identifiers indicate romantic or sexual partnership. It is common for someone on the aromantic orientation spectrum to have multiple QPRs. 

QPRs challenge the monogamous cultural standards for relationships that say only romantic or sexual partners should build lives together. QPPs will build lives where they raise children, live together, and plan a life together in a similar way to what heteronormative monogamous culture prescribes, but without it being necessarily heterosexual, monogamous and romantic. A Queerplatonic relationship breaks the norm that assumes amorous love is everyone’s goal.

The Golden Girls

In media there has often been hidden representation. One question is, were the Golden Girls in a queerplatonic relationship with each other? Being in a QPR does not mean that you are Aro or Ace, it just indicates that that particular relationship is asexual or aromantic. If you look at the Golden Girls, Blanche certainly dated but the series is mostly about these women being in a “more than friendship” with each other. It seems that a QPR is often a relationship that many people can’t quite put their finger on. They know it is not romantic or sexual but it is more than friends. A QPP is the “aunt” or “friend” who was always there. It is quite a beautiful thought that you can have more than a friendship with someone regardless of your romantic or sexual orientation. 

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Lithromantic

“Definitions belong to the definers, not the defined.”

-Toni Morrison, Beloved

Definition

Lithromantic is a romantic orientation on the Aromantic scale. It is also known as akoiromantic. A lithromantic person will experience romantic attraction but they are not interested in it being reciprocated. 

Reciprocation as a Romance Killer

Lithromantic people are uncomfortable with the idea that someone is romantically attracted to them. They may have romantic feelings toward someone but not only do they not want it to be reciprocated, any reciprocation can cause them to lose the romantic feelings they were having. Because of this, lithromantics do not seek out romantic relationships. You might say this makes them Aro. Not quite. An Aromantic person typically does not have romantic feelings. A Lithromantic person has the feelings but they do not want to act on them or have anyone else act on them. Just like with all of the orientations on the aromantic spectrum, lithromatic can have any sexual orientation associated with it. 

Is there ever romance?

Yes, or at least there can be. Lithromantic oriented people have a strong aversion to people showing immediate romantic interest, or interest over time. This does not mean that they always experience that and occasionally they might find someone they want to have a reciprocal romantic relationship with. 

The Lesbian Controversy

Lithromantic has often been replaced with the term akoiromantic due to a controversy about the term appropriating lesbian culture. Lith means stone in Greek and has often been used in conjunction with stone lesbians – stone butches in particular. Because of this some people believe the term only belongs to lesbians, and to better imply that the term is meant for any gender and any orientation they will use akoiromantic instead.

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