“You are the evil scientist of your desires.”
-Ignacio Rivera
Definition
Bondage is the act of tying someone up or restraining them using some kind of object. There are many ways to perform bondage, and while some of them require an amount of skill, most of them can be done by just about anyone. Of course there are people out there who are more serious bondage fetishists, but there’s no requirement to start experimenting. You can just whip out some of your favorite neckties or scarves and have a fun, sensual and exploratory evening, where one of you is submissive and helpless and the other one is on top.
Different Methods
There are many different ways to tie someone up. You can use some cuffs already made by someone else, from an online or local sex shop. We’re not only talking about handcuffs here – you can also try leather cuffs or neoprene cuffs, which are the most comfortable. You can use cuffs for both wrists and ankles to restrain someone in a variety of ways. You can also try rope bondage, which does require a bit more expertise. You can tie someone up using safe methods found online or in a book, until you learn to memorize some of the most perfect ties out there!
Beginner Fear
If you are trying out bondage for the first time it is common for both the Dom and the sub to get a bit nervous. There’s no need to worry, as there are plenty of things you can do to make sure things go smoothly. First of all, keep in mind that bondage doesn’t have to do with pain, it has to do with sensuality. You can tie someone up and tease them, filling them with pleasure. You can give them multiple orgasms, watching them overload with feeling good. You can tickle them, which certainly isn’t painful, and you can also just sit there and watch them squirm in their bonds.