Category: B

“Bring back the birch, and the cat of nine tails. Bring back corporal punishment. Bring back the stocks. And the axeman’s block”

-The Kinks

Definition

Birching is a form of corporal punishment. It typically involves using a birch rod or a bunch of birch branches. The person being punished exposes their bare bottom and it is then whipped with the birch. Sometimes the birching may be done to the back or shoulders, but the bum is the most common. 

What is Birch?

Birch, in reference to corporal punishment, is bundles of leafless twigs that have been bound together with the express intention of inflicting corporal punishment. Despite its name, the twigs used do not have to be from a birch tree. The birch can be made from any twig that is strong and smooth. The construction of the birch greatly influences the severity of it. The number of twigs used, as well as their smoothness, length and weight all greatly affect how hard it hits the body. Some people prefer birching to cat o’ nine tails because they have more control over the severity by simply adding or removing twigs. 

History

Birching was used all throughout the UK for many centuries, as well as in other countries. It was used as a form of corporal punishment in jails as well as in schools. In schools special chairs were built specifically for birching, known as birching donkeys or birching ponies. The use of the birch fell out of favor in the mid 1900’s as corporal punishment became less common. In other parts of the world, like Russia and the Baltics, birching was used as a spa therapy. People would use the birch to flagellate themselves. It was thought to be good for the body as it increased circulation. Soaking the birch in water before use and leaving the leaves on softens the birch and creates a soft stinging sensation which is quite pleasant.

“A man might forget where he parks or where he lives, but he never forgets oral sex, no matter how bad it is.”

-Barbara Bush

Definition

A blowjob is something that most people know about. It is when a guy or girl puts their lips around a dick and sucks. Some people are good at deep throating and other people are better at sucking on the tip, but sucking dick is a skill that people have different tastes for. However, one thing that is for certain is that everyone loves a good blowjob. Some BJs are messy and some are neat but most of them end with a good cumshot.

BJ Tips

If you’re new to sucking dick, never fear, because we’re the experts and we’ve got a lot of advice for you. First of all, in movies and TV shows, girls are always depicted on their knees bowing before the cock god, but you don’t have to do that. BJs are just as easily given with the guy lying down and you sucking him from above on the bed. You can also do it in some more adventurous positions with you lying down and the guy doing more of the work. Also, your mouth doesn’t have to do all of the work, if your jaw is getting tired you can try a combination of hand job and blow job.

Genuine Enjoyment

Some people really genuinely enjoy giving blowjobs and other people aren’t that fond of them. If you’re on the latter side of that, you can try some tricks to make them a little more palatable – literally. Give your guy a special treat by covering his cock in whipped cream or chocolate sauce and then lick it all off. You can also try making a deal – tit for tat – you suck him, and he licks you. It’s a deal that will make everyone happy.

“It’s hard to be brought down when you have a balloon.”

-Winnie The Pooh

Definition

Balloon fetish is an interesting thing to experience. Basically, the people who have this fetish love it when a pretty girl (or a hot guy) blows up a balloon. What happens next is up to the specific person, because there are many directions that this can go. Some “Looners,” as they are often called, love to blow up balloons and then revel in how fun they are. They get kind of sad if they think too much about the balloon popping. However, other fetishists love to hear that loud and surprising pop when the balloon loses all of it’s air quickly.

Origins

No one really knows where this fetish comes from but many think that it simply happens because balloons are always so fun, and everyone has good memories about them. Most people with this fetish remember their first balloon experience as something with a hot girl popping a balloon or playing with one. Those who like to pop the balloons are referred within the fetish community as poppers and those who don’t are non-poppers. Some people say that the popping is a metaphor for orgasm!

Variations on the Theme

If you’re not into balloons, there are other fetishes that are closely related which might give you a rush if you find yourself into balloons. First of all, there is always bubble gum, which a hot chick can blow a bubble into, and then pop, before she repeats the process all over again. Some guys even like to have their cock encased in a bubble gum bubble as a form of sexual play. There are also medical examination gloves that work well as balloons, and may come in common with people who have a balloon fetish and a medical fetish.

“Biting is excellent – it’s like kissing, only there’s a winner.”

-Neil Gaiman

Definition

Biting is something that people do every single day when they eat. They take bites of their food and chew it up. But biting is also something that is considered to be a sexual practice. There are all different levels of biting and it simply involves taking that one act that you do all the time and performing it on someone’s skin. You can do a light bite which is more like a love bite or you can do a hard bite that will leave a mark for weeks, grinding the skin in between your teeth. Biting is quite hot whether you have a fetish for things that are a little vampirish or you simply like a little pain with your pleasure.

Biting Precautions

If you are going to bite someone first of all you need to trust them. Even if you’re not engaging in too much other rough sex play, you should have a safe word involved because you never know when things are going to need to stop if it gets too intense. Also, if you plan on drawing blood from the biting, you should know your partner well and have talked about your testing status. No one wants a surprise from a fun night of biting play! Also, before you play, check in with your partner about whether or not they are OK with having marks, and if there are certain spots they do not want to have them.

Bring it In

If you are hungering for a little flesh between your teeth, then you can just start to nibble a bit (very lightly) during sexual play. Depending on how your partner reacts, you can ask them if they like that, and if they seem to enjoy it you can talk about taking your biting further into your sexual play. You can also talk about it beforehand during some dirty talk to gauge your partner’s interest in chomping down, and talk about biting limits if it comes up.

“Art can never exist without naked beauty displayed.”

-William Blake

Definition

Barebacking is a form of sex in which neither partner wears a form of protection that would form a barrier. It can be done with straight couples, but it is often used as a term more for gay and trans fuckers because it is often assumed that straight couples don’t have a need to use condoms. People love barebacking because it feels so good and there is nothing that comes in between you and your lover. People tend to shy away from it these days unless they are in a committed couple, but if you have a fetish for it then you will want to find people who are OK with doing this. It’s not something you just spring on them during a random hook up.

The Risks

Barebacking does come with risks, as most people know. This is why so many people love it, since it is a little bit taboo; it turns them on even more. If you want to get the experience of sliding a cock in and out of a hole with no barriers, then you should know that you could get someone pregnant, if it is in a straight relationship. In any relationship barebacking could result in the transmission of certain diseases and viruses that is never any fun. If you are going to do barebacking you need to trust the person and get tested for any STIs before you engage in fucking without a condom. Make sure that you don’t have a cheating partner!

Condomless Porn

Recently California tried to pass a ridiculous law called Prop 60 that would have required all pornstars filming in LA to use condoms in every video. Fortunately the public voted down the referendum and kept it legal for porn performers to get their dick wet in tight XXX holes. Keep in mind, pornstars are all tested for STIs often and are a very safe pool of people to fuck bareback. The same is NOT true for the general public so always be careful before shoving your dick in someone who may not be tested recently enough or who lies about being tested. Your health matters more than getting access to her holes for one night without a rubber.

Bringing it Up

If you want to try barebacking in your relationship, it’s best to bring it up during a non-sexual moment because when tensions are high people might do something they will regret. Bring it up over a dinner or something normal like that. Then you will see what their true reaction is. If someone is not into it, then you should leave it at that, as convincing someone to do something sexy is just not that fun. Always make sure that everyone is into the idea when it comes to anything sexual, but especially barebacking.

“Love is like a virus. It can happen to anybody at any time.”

-Maya Angelou

Definition

Bug chasing is a dangerous fetish that happens primarily in the world of gay fucking. It happens when one guy is HIV positive and another guy wants to become HIV positive. The two fuck raw with the hope that the virus will get transmitted from one to the other. No one really knows why this fetish has developed, but they do believe that some people involved in it don’t actually want to contract the HIV virus; they simply love the danger and game of roulette that is involved in the act. However, there are many reasons why people would do this, none of which make sense to a large number of people.

Relationship Savers

Some people who are in a relationship where one person is HIV positive and the other is negative may use bug chasing as a way to “save” the relationship if it looks like they are going to break up due to the fear of passing the virus on. The way to stop that fear is to simply do it. With the medical industry the way it is today, people with HIV can live as long as other people, though it is a serious illness. Either way you practice it, bug chasing is very dangerous and should not be attempted by anyone.

Mental Illness

Some people believe that those who have a serious fetish for bug chasing are related to other people who have a psychological disorder known as Munchausen’s. They love the attention that comes with being ill from what some see the ultimate disorder, and they love the medical procedures and excitement of medical emergencies. This type of bug chaser loves the sympathy and community that people with HIV have. Again, any type of bug chasing is not good for your health and it should be avoided at all costs.

“To all the girls who think you’re ugly because you’re not a size zero, you’re the beautiful one, it’s society who’s ugly.”

-Marilyn Monroe

Definition

A BBW is any woman who has some extra to give. Some porn sites make the mistake of including height-weight proportionate girls on their sites in the BBW category simply because they have big tits or a big ass, but you should know that lovers of fatties are only happy with the true BBW chicks who have tons of meat on their bones. Their rolls flop around and their breasts and booties are larger than life. It makes sense that people would have an attraction to fat girls, since being fat is a sign that the girl is healthy and could make a good partner, from an evolutionary perspective.

Fat Admirers & Chubby Chasers

A fat admirer is the technical term for any guy or gal who loves their partner to be plump as anything. They are also sometimes called chubby chasers, which are anyone who constantly dates fat people. If you are a FA (abbreviation for fat admirer), you will be happy to know that there are dating sites and porn sites just for you to help you meet the fat girl of your dreams, or simply watch them online in hot movies.

Body Positivity

In our world, for some reason fat people are often truly looked down upon. They are called names and have really not nice things happen to them. There is a new movement that is spurring more BBW women to be proud of their figures, and quit trying to lose weight, which is great news for fat admirers. It’s called body positivity and it helps a lot of round women and even guys as well, to accept their bodies and love them for what they are. It has also spurred a movement of fat fitness, because there are many fat athletes and gym lovers.

“Love is a wonderful thing, my dear, but it leaves you wide open for blackmail.”

-Jasper Fforde

Definition

A fetish for blackmail is pretty easy to understand. Blackmail is when one person demands money from someone in order to not reveal harmful information or juice they have on that person. A fetish for blackmail is usually held by a submissive who loves to have their wallet milked by a hot dominant personality, or by a controlling dom who gets off on seeing their subs squirm. Blackmail is illegal in many places, but there are still ways to enact this fantasy and make your dreams come true in the bedroom.

Consensual and Erotic Blackmail

First of all, while this is called erotic blackmail, if your sub changes their mind and decides to go to court, you might be in legal trouble. Because of this, blackmail play is quite edgy and it is only recommended to happen between partners who know and trust each other. The safest way to do consensual blackmail is to have the sub, the one getting blackmailed, is to come up with a written agreement in which the sub agrees that the sensitive information shall get released if they do not fulfill certain things. Their end of the deal often involves paying large sums of money to a Domme or servicing them in any number of ways to prevent an action.

The Thrill of Sexual Debt

For some who enjoy playing this way, it is all about the thrill. They know if they don’t fulfill their end of the deal, something bad will happen, and it is that dread which actually excites them. They love to be stuck between a rock and a hard place. Some subs of this genre will even wait until the last minute to make their payments or fulfill their tasks because they secretly almost want to show everyone the held materials. In the end, however, common sense usually wins out and they keep the game going.

“Do you like him cumming in your face?”

-Clive Owens

Definition

Bukkake ( ぶっかけ ) is a Japanese word meaning “to splash” which is appropriate because porn has popularized the term to mean extreme cum play where a woman, or groups of women are covered in facial cumshots from dozens of strangers. Often the bukkake target ends up completely glazed in semen by however many cocks she can find. Sometimes a bukkake target sucks off her jizz shooting assailants, or is gangbanged in preparation, but the act of Bukkake culminates with her catching cum or in rare cases female ejaculation and piss all over her face. Obedient sluts usually sit patiently while waiting for the biggest cumshots of her life from multiple cocks with her mouth and eyes wide open throughout the launch phase.

History

Bukkake has a Japanese origin, which is why it has such a weird sounding name. The name comes from the Eastern country, where the act was inspired because of porn censorship laws that took hold during the 1980s. They must pixelate out the genitals of the performers, so the videographers and directors started to focus on the faces of the babes involves, and less on the pussies. That’s how bukkake got started, because they decided they would just do anything hot they can to the face. It soon spread over the world and made its way into western porn, and it is now a very popular sex act.

Plan a Party

Is bukkake your fantasy or that of a partner? Well then it’s time to call up everyone you know and plan a party. As long as you have plenty of guy friends, invite them over. They don’t have to have sex if they don’t want to, as the main purpose of the event is to just jizz all over the subject’s face. The receiver of jizz doesn’t have to be a girl. Guys can enjoy getting covered in more glaze than a donut too. So, just pick up the phone or create an event online and get the circle jerk started.

“I can’t be funny if my feet don’t feel right.”

-Billy Crystal

Definition

Bastinado may sound like a complex term for something freaky, but it’s just a fancy word for anything that involves torment by caning the bottom of the feet. This is an especially insidious area of the body to torment in any BDSM scene because you can really go hard on the soles of the feet and hardly any marks will be left behind, leaving no evidence of even those nasty and particularly painful scenes. It is a sensitive spot and even light caning can make some people scream and cry, so bastinado isn’t something for the faint of heart. It’s for experienced freaks and those who know they like pain play, especially those who have a fairly high pain tolerance.

History

Bastinado is actually a real form of punishment that people have used in many cultures as a way to get information out of people or simply to punish them for being on the wrong side of an international conflict. However, it is also mentioned as far back as the Bible. Now only the most repressive regimes actually use this as a political tool, though freaks have adopted Bastinado during hard BDSM sessions.

Bastinado Lite

If you’re not ready to go all out with a foot caning, how can you bring some foot torment into your life? Well, there are many ways you can start to see if your submissive partner will enjoy this type of painful play. First of all, you can try using rubber bands on the bottom of the feet. This is good because you have some control over how hard to do it, and it gives a similar feeling to caning. You can flick them lightly at first, and then do it harder after a good warm up. You can also try using barbecue skewers, the wooden kind that you might use for shish kebabs. You can alternate between tickling, poking and hitting the feet lightly with them as a precursor to a serious bastinado session. Also keep in mind, that even The Bible limited the number of strikes during Bastinado to forty at a maximum (Deut. 25:2, 3).