Dreadlocks

“Ya can’t go to Zion and wear Jheri Curl.”

-Damien Marley

Definition

Dreadlocks are a hairstyle that is traditionally worn by people of African descent, but others have worn the style in modern culture. It is a hairstyle that is formed by matting, twisting or backcombing the hair so that it forms thick pieces of hair. In some cultures this hairstyle is ceremonial, with Hindu holy men often wearing their hair in this style, and those who follow the Rastafarian way of thinking also wear them for religious reasons. They are often called locs or dreads, and when it comes to pornstars, often worn by hippy chicks or black girls. It’s actually a wrong rumor that dreadlocks are dirty. They actually take a lot to keep up!

Controversy

Dreads are actually kind of controversial, at least when they are worn by white people. Some people feel that this is a form of cultural appropriation, as it is a style traditionally worn by black people and other people of color. Still others feel that people should be able to wear their hair however they want and it’s just a hairstyle. Whatever you believe, if you’re planning on changing your hair into dreads, you should make yourself aware of the controversy that might follow you wherever you go.

Sexy Dreads

If you like hot girls in dreadlocks then you might have a hard time finding them. They are few and far between for the most part. However, if you try specific dating sites for black girls or hippy chicks, you might have better luck in finding them. You can also watch dreadlock specific porn that stars babes who have this hairstyle. Of course you can also ask your sweetie if they’d be willing to indulge your fantasies and change their hair too! Get your freak on with hippie babes and other types of cuties who have this unique hairstyle.

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Double Blowjob

“I used to be an atheist until I realized I had nothing to shout during blowjobs.”

-Robert Anton Wilson

Definition

A double blowjob is something that can only happen in a threesome. It’s a blowjob that takes place between two girls who focus all of their attention on a guy’s dick with their mouths. Why limit things to just two girls, though? Why not have a three-girl session or even four girls? Anyways, there are many techniques for this. Usually one girl licks the balls while the other goes to work on the cock itself. Sometimes both babes lick the shaft of the cock and other times one sucks on the head while the other goes to work on all of the other parts. It can also be when two guys stick their dicks in a chick’s mouth.

Make it Happen

If you want to have a threesome with a double blowjob, all you have to do is find two chicks that are willing to have one! Good places to look include dating sites for open-minded people, like swinger sites or hook up sites. Other places include swinger communities and local sex parties where you can get hooked into the local community. Just put yourself out there and the magic will come to you eventually, but hanging out with the right people will put you closer to your goals.

Group Sex Safety

Group sex can totally be done safely, if all the parties involved have discussed their sexual histories and made sure they each know their testing status. If you want to have a good time, then you will feel even more relaxed with that in place. Plus, it’s always good to touch base about what each person wants out of the experience so that no feelings get hurt if there are higher expectations than what you are willing to give. Happy group fucking!

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Dominatrix

“You can’t play games with the girl who made the rules.”

-Chicha Bans

Definition

A dominatrix is someone who dominates in a BDSM context, but professionally. You can usually hire a dominatrix in your local area simply by looking online and looking at their ads, and most major cities have houses you can visit to hire a woman to put you in your place. One thing to notice is that many pro Dommes do not offer sexual services – some don’t want to give you a handjob or a blowjob, so you should definitely ask what a provider’s situation is before you assume anything. Overall, you can expect quality BDSM services from a dominatrix!

Etiquette

Don’t be surprised when a professional asks you for references or wants to view your social media presence before allowing you to come and visit them. They have to keep their safety in mind and it’s nothing personal. Other etiquette to be aware of is that it is common to tip a dominatrix. Even though their prices can be high, it shows that you appreciate them and the effort they put into crafting a session for you. You don’t have to give much, even an extra Andrew Jackson would put a smile on her face and help them remember you!

Specialties

Keep in mind that many Dommes have specialties. Some of them are great at bondage; others are perfect for corporal punishment scenes. Some Dommes like to do sissification, while others enjoy long term scenes. You have to find the Domme who is willing to do your scene and who likes what you’re into, so you might have to try a few different ones before you land on the one who is perfect for your BDSM interests. Seeing a few different women is a great idea anyways because then you will get to know the different options that are out there.

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Domination

“The question isn’t who is going to let me. It’s who is going to stop me.”

-Ayn Rand

Definition

Domination is the general term for what the dominant person does in a BDSM relationship. The dominant can be a person of any gender identity and they can use many different techniques in order to prove their dominance over their submissive or slave. There are many different levels of domination that are perfect for any level of player, so if you’re new to the game, don’t be shy about the who thing.

Starting Out as A Dom

If you want to start playing with domination you will first need to bring it up to your partner. If you guys trust each other and have a communicative relationship, it shouldn’t be a problem, but it’s understandable that you would be nervous. You may want to start by outlining a hot fantasy that you have during sexy time, or maybe by showing them some hot BDSM porn. For most people starting out with the sensual is easier, so things like light bondage and teasing actions might be a good place to start. Once you do have the green light, gather your tools and plan a fun night. You may want to use scarves or ties for some light bondage. Just let your imagination run wild!

Other Domination Practices

Beyond that, the world of domination is vast and wide. There are many ways to dominate someone, and some of them use humiliation and degradation to make someone feel lesser. Others use pain and corporal punishment to keep their subs feeling subjugated. There are plenty of ways to hurt someone in a sexy way. Cock and ball torture or CBT is another way that fem Dommes can torment their male subs. There are just so many options for domination it might be hard to choose just one!

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Doggystyle

“You don’t love me. You just love my doggystyle.”

-Snoop Dogg

Definition

Doggystyle is the type of sex position that people dream about. It’s when a guy fucks the girl from behind, usually while she is on all fours. She can get her pussy pounded or her asshole slammed in this position. Guys like it because they can look at a girl’s ass, and some people also like it because it is slightly more anonymous than face-to-face sex, so if you don’t really like the person you’re fucking, it’s perfect! However, just having doggystyle sex doesn’t mean it has to be disconnected, because it can be a favorite position of women who find it hits their g-spot even better than some others!

Preferences

This sex position has a long and celebrated history. There is evidence of it in Ancient Roman artifacts, and even in the sacred Indian sexual text the Kama Sutra. But why do so many people like it? Well, it’s actually an easier position than some to enact. If you have back issues, you may find it easier than missionary. Plus, those with sensitive g-spots love it, especially in combination with some manual clitoris stimulation. If you haven’t tried it, it’s easy because all you have to do is get on your hands and knees and let your partner fuck you from behind!

Front to Back

One danger with the doggystyle position is bringing bacteria from the asshole to the pussy. When you are fucking, be very careful that your cock doesn’t brush the butt on the way to the vagina because that is how you give a woman a UTI or a yeast infection, which might make her kind of crabby. Keep things clean by making sure you don’t mix and match the holes back there, and everyone will be even happier making love using doggystyle.

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Discipline

“A punishment to some, to some a gift, and to many a favor.”

-Seneca

Definition

Discipline is something that is typically used in BDSM type of relationships. It can be a punishment to correct an undesirable behavior in a submissive, but to be honest, a dominant can choose to inflict discipline on their sub whenever they feel like it, simply to show that they are in charge. Discipline looks like a whole lot of different things depending on the specific BDSM relationship and dynamic, and it can be done by a female dominant or a male dominant to a sub of any gender.

Types of Discipline

Some discipline looks traditional, like punishing your sub by having them press their nose to the wall, or having them wear a dunce cap when they have been acting particularly stupid. Other discipline takes the corporal route, with paddles, canes and leather straps that can teach your bottom a lesson by inflicting pain. There are also nipple clamps, clothespins and other tools that can achieve this goal. Of course, forming rules or behavioral stipulations can also be a form of discipline, like not allowing your sub to say certain words.

Safe Words

With this type of play it is always important to have a safe word in order to keep the play totally on the up and up. Always give your bottom an out in any play scenario – even if your relationship looks more like a 24/7 situation. Having safe play always makes things more fun and sexy because it makes less to worry about and creates more space for you to just relax and get turned on by fun BDSM play. In addition, before you engage in any type of discipline, especially ones that involve physical pain, make sure you research proper methods on the internet before doing it for the first time!

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Dime

“That girl, like somethin off a poster that girl, is a dime they say.”

-Iyaz

Definition

A dime is more than just a piece of American change that happens to be worth 10 cents. If you consult any dictionary of slang, including this one, you will find that a dime is a girl who is a perfect 10. She scores 10 out of 10 on the hotness scale and she often walks about town like she knows it. A dime might be slutty, or she might not be, but more usually than not they are more than happy to spread their legs for whatever guy might be wondering about their pussy. They are hot and they know it, and so they like to give everyone a taste.

How to Get a Dime

There are many people and books that offer advice on how to get hot ladies like a dime chick, who is a perfect 10. Some say you have to give them negative compliments to make them feel bad about themselves, but most people agree that the real way to get a girl like a dime into your bed is to be yourself and to use your smooth moves to woo her. Just be chill and woo her with your winning personality if your body isn’t quite as dimey as she is right now!

Where to Find Dimes

If you can’t score a dime on your own, there are many porn movies that will help you live out your fantasy of seeing a super hot girl. If you simply look up “Dime porn” on your favorite search engine you will become presented with tons of videos showing the hottest women in the most compromising scenarios. If you want the true dime experience then you could choose a POV video so you can see what it is like to fuck them.

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Dacrophylia

“We need never be ashamed of our tears.”

-Charles Dickens

Definition

Dacrophylia is a fancy word for someone who is aroused by crying. No one really knows exactly why some people find this a turn on, but many suspect it is because of the vulnerability shown in the emotional release. While bringing someone to tears from pain is common in a BDSM play session, this unique fetish doesn’t always have to do with a dominant and submissive relationship dynamic. Some people cry from extreme love or just from watching a sad movie, and this may turn on a dacrophyliac partner. In many instances freaks are seeking an elusive Crygasm, where their partner is so overcome by sexual bliss that they begin to weep openly at a point where sexual gratification and emotional catharsis collide in perfect harmony.

Tears For Fears

How do you make someone cry? Some ways are nice and some not so much. Which ones you choose to play with really depend on the type of relationship you have. Some strict tops believe that slapping their sub in the face repeatedly is a cruel but effective way to bring them to tears. Others enjoy bringing their sub to tears through verbal humiliation that makes them feel worthless. When BDSM is not involved, the couple may watch emotional videos together to elicit tears or even use household activities like cutting onions to cause tears to flow.

Don’t Cry For Me

In most Crygasm sessions the submissive is not crying because of the Dom or even for the Dom. Instead they are using sex to bring out deeper emotions and are attempting to leave behind their emotional baggage by replacing sense memories of their unpleasant past with far more eroticized new memories formed together with the Dom they adore. Being told your mother never loved you and bursting into tears at the height of orgasm is for many freaks the fastest way to get beyond the frailties of their early feelings of inadequacy or grief.

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Dollification

“A beloved dolls voice speaks directly to your soul in a way that cannot be explained in words.”

-Gayle Wray

Definition

Dollification is a very specific fetish in which someone has the desire to be turned into nothing more than a doll. It has a lot to do with objectification, and it somewhat related to the fetish of bimbofication. To complete this fetish, many cover themselves head to toe in rubber or other materials, including a hood or mask to hide their face and give them doll-like features. In this scenario, the submissive plays the role of the doll, and the Dominant usually cares for the doll in scenes, and may give orders or position the doll, depending on what type of doll they are playing as.

Extreme Dolls

Some people want to be as close to a living doll as possible so badly that they will go to great lengths to adjust their bodies to fit their view of what a doll should be like. They get breast implants to achieve fantasy proportions, and may even have surgery to remove their nipples or belly button. Sissy dolls (guys who want to be girl dolls) sometimes take hormones to improve their feminine figures and demeanors. Others do more common procedures like laser hair removal or microdermabrasion to give their skin a more doll-like appearance.

Dolls for Beginners

If you’re just getting interested in doll play, you don’t have to try all of those extreme body-modifying measures. Many players believe that dollification is more a mindset than anything. Trying a little role-play in the bedroom can be pretty hot. Turn your sub into your little doll for the evening. You get to dress them up and pose them, and do all the naughty things you want to them. As a couple you can decide what type of doll they would like to be whether it is a fashion doll, a robotic doll, or any other type of toy that you might have enjoyed looking at in the past. As you see, dolls can be more than just toys, but the very best dolls are the real people wiling to accept their objectification so that they can serve as fully functional manifestations of sexual ingenuity in ways that operating systems, artificial intelligence or robotics current can not – though one day this freak fetish very well may lead to an era where other people are no longer necessary for the most intimate forms of sexual expression!

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Double Penetration (and variants)

“A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to its old dimensions.”

-Oliver Wendel Holmes, Jr.

Definition

Double penetration is the act of shoving two cocks or other objects into two different holes, or even two cocks in the same hole. For the most part, what people are referring to when they say double penetration or DP is one cock in the pussy and one in the ass during a Male + Female + Male threeway. This is a hole stretching experience to remember. However, it can also refer to two cocks in the pussy, known as double vaginal (DV), or double anal (DA). There is also triple penetration, which can mean a few different things as well. It can mean a traditional DP with a cock in the mouth as an addition, or it can be a DA or DV with another cock in the empty hole. The key here is the desire of the central participant to be stuffed to capacity by the other players.

It’s Not Gay in a Threeway

There are some guys who are a little shy about getting their dick so close to another man’s cock in a DP threesome or other group sex scenario. The thing to remember is that participating in a double penetration sex session with a gorgeous girl testing her limits feels amazing. There is only a thin membrane separating one cock from the other, in the case of a classic DP, and the feeling is awesome for every freak in the position so long as everyone can put aside their phobias! In double vaginal or double anal, the guys involved get a lot of sensation from rubbing their dicks against each other through the woman between them. Don’t be shy about a little cock on cock action in the name of DP – truly masculine heterosexual men are secure enough in their own identity to be able to double-stuff their date with the help of a pal and without any of the emotional baggage that a lesser man might experience.

Work Up To It

For anyone who seeks to achieve all holes filled status, or hole stretching double fucks, it’s important to work up to this kinky act of subjugation. If you think DP is something you’d enjoy, try getting fucked in your pussy with a butt plug in your rear end, and work your way up to bigger and bigger toys before trying it with two dicks. The same goes for double anal and double vaginal. Try playing with toys first. Inflatable toys are awesome because you can stretch them bigger without having to take anything out. Being fisted or double penetrated takes a certain amount of verve and a fair degree of tolerance for pain. With practice, your holes can be made ready for everyone to be able to have a turn. It’s that extreme level of endurance that many men respect in their concubines.

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