Category: H

“A bad boy can be very good for a girl.”

-Melissa De La Crux

Definition

Hybristophilia sounds like something kind of kooky and complex but it is really what happens when anyone has a thing for the people who are seen as “bad.” Yes, it’s when anyone has a fetish for criminals and get turned on by someone they love committing a crime. In some cases, the partner even gets so turned on that they turn to a life of crime too, as they find the criminality of it so hot. This is often called the “Bonnie and Clyde” syndrome, named for the famous couple that went down in lieu of turning themselves in after a string of high profile crimes.

Naughty Is Freakier Than Nice!

Ok, obviously, if you have this fetish, it’s not really a good one to act out for real. While we could debate why things have been labeled crimes and Robin Hooding, that’s not what’s up for discussion. We live in this society that says that many things are completely against the law. And you shouldn’t do those things unless you want to end up in jail, which isn’t very fun. When your tingling sexual desires interfere with your ability to live a usual life, then some might say that is a problem! However, you can always role-play!

Going All The Way

Instead of robbing a jewelry store or something like that, you can always have a blast setting up an elaborate role-play scenario, or even a simple one to start. All role play requires is an outfit and perhaps opening your mouth to tell the story, so you can dirty talk about committing crimes all that you want to get yourself and your partner all hot and bothered. Stay out of jail and do role-playing instead, that way you can enjoy being a bad boy for your girl instead of getting fucked by real bad boys in a cell.

“I think that the most important thing a woman can have, next to talent of course, is her hairdresser.”

-Joan Crawford

Definition

Those who have a fetish for hair cutting or head shaving love to see a guy or gal who is perhaps at the salon, getting their hair cut, or maybe they like to see a beautiful girl getting surprised with a head shave when all that she had originally wanted was a few inches off of the top. Some people enjoy seeing girls getting terrible hairstyles that make them look like freaks. Others simply love a nice, healthy head of hair so much that anything having to do with the locks can turn them on beyond all hope.

Hair Cut Safety

You wouldn’t think that hair cutting requires a safety talk, but it actually does, but only in consensual terms. While you might fantasize about surprising your girlfriend with a head shave, you should only do hair cutting activities you have decided upon before hand, and always give her the option to change her mind. Safe words are key, as are discussions about what everyone desires beforehand.

How to bring it Into the Bedroom

If you absolutely must have hair cutting as part of your sexual practices, but you’re not sure how to bring it into the bedroom, perhaps ask to cut a few inches off of your sexual partner’s head, and promise to get it fixed with a professional haircut the next day. You can also make it a part of your BDSM practices, and give a haircut as part of a special ceremony confirming your boo’s submission. Hair cutting is a very intimate practice that requires a lot of trust which may be why it is fetishized by some and adored by many. The hair makes the man or woman, and gives them the look they present to the world!

“I’m not afraid of heights. I just really respect them.”

-James Hausenstein

Definition

Acrophilia sounds like something that might mean that you have a fetish for acrobats or something, but it actually means someone who has a fetish for fucking while standing up high on a building or cliff. Well, really it could be just about any high object. This is a fetish that is hard to achieve safely and there is also not that much smut out there, so people who like this fetish may resort to writing erotic stories or keeping hot fantasies in their imaginations. Heights are usually something that people are afraid of, but acrophiliacs just love them!

Getting High

Well, achieving an acrophilia fantasy is actually pretty hard. You could climb to the top of a building that has a public deck on top, but then there would be too many people around. You could hike or rock climb to the top of a cliff, but you’d have to be into that sort of thing and then be very careful not to fall off during the copulation. One thing that people have tried is renting a hotel room in a city where the hotel is definitely high up with a lot of floors in it. They request a room high up and get their kicks that way.

Sex In The Sky

Well there was one pornstar who got famous because she made a porn video while skydiving! She got fucked while high in the air and plummeting to the earth. Now that must have been quite the adrenaline rush. There are also quite a few skydiving sex videos so it is something that people who like that sport do quite often, it seems! This is something that definitely requires quite a bit of expertise so don’t try it unless you know what you are doing.

“You use hypnosis not as a cure, but as a means of establishing a favorable climate in which to learn.”

-Milton H. Erickson

Definition

Hypnosis is a mental practice used for many purposes. In terms of fetish and sexuality, it is often used for mind control. People who are into hypnosis as a fetish dream of being turned into brainless slaves or sex crazed maniacs through the use of mind control techniques. They also dream of having their brains wired differently so they can enjoy outlandish sexual feelings, perhaps like feeling as if their feet were as sensitive as their vagina. Whether or not hypnosis is real and can really achieve these goals for any person remains to be seen,

Unlocking the Unconscious

Many people into hypnosis try dream techniques to unlock their deepest sexual fantasies that even their own conscious mind was unaware about. If you look at hypnosis fetish videos, that is a common theme. The idea that people have dirty sexual desires hidden behind the facade of their every day appearance is quite alluring to these hypnotism enthusiasts. They also love to use hypnosis to take away any inhibitions that a girl might feel, which turns them into a nude masturbating mess. Of course, you must have a person’s consent to perform hypnosis on them and you should agree beforehand what the hypnosis will entail.

How to Learn

There are many services out there that claim they will help you learn about erotic hypnosis and how to do it, however, many think it is best to go to an official hypnosis school and then put your own erotic twist on the craft. Dozens of books have also been published on the subject. While many doubt the reality of hypnotism, some believe it can be harmful if you put the wrong things into someone’s delicate mind. You’ll have to try and be careful with this mysterious and sexual practice. Being in control of someone’s mind it a big responsibility, especially when they trust you with that control willingly.

“How embarrassing it is to be human”

-Kurt Vonnegut

Definition

Some people believe that humiliation has no place in the bedroom – until they try it at least. Humiliation is often times a part of BDSM play in which the sub is made to do degrading things, like crawl on the floor or drink out of a pet dish, so that they can feel humiliated inside. Name-calling is also a big part of humiliation for some. The words used depend on the particular humiliation needs of the submissive subject. Humiliation isn’t for everyone, but testing the waters the right way can be a truly life altering experience for freaky people who are able to unleash their inner pervert completely.

Set the Stage

Before engaging in humiliation play you need to discuss some limits and boundaries with your submissive. Find out of referring to her as a “worthless whore” is something that will enhance the experience or detract from it, or if it will pierce their interior being and make them feel truly terrible. Ask them what they deem to be humiliating in general terms or find out if they have any hard limits. Some people find getting spit on quite erotic, but not humiliating, while to others, spitting in the face is the most humiliating thing they will ever experience. Know yourself, know your submissive, then decide the best ways to humiliate the fuck out of them.

Be Firm

Newer Dominants are often hesitant to humiliate, unless that is their personal fetish. The main thing to remember when you are starting out with a new humiliation fetish is to be firm and serious in your demeanor. It’s not going to be sexy if you can’t humiliate someone authentically and doing it poorly can quickly destroy the trust your sub has in you. You really have to commit completely to the humiliation, and push any fear you have out of your mind. Humiliation is far more about displaying the confidence of the Dom than the endurance of their submissive. This is your time to shine, and the filthy skank who serves you deserves to be able to recall the experience with great pride in your ability to own their ‘self-esteem’ at least as well as you own a muddy pair of shoes or a disposable bag of snack chips.

Ideas

Humiliation can be derived from just about anything, but a common theme revolves around owning a submissive toilet slave. They find it humiliating to drink anything out of their mistress’s body or rejoice in the opportunity to clean the bowl for their Dom. Others savor being stepped on and trampled, either by bare feet or heeled shoes, and love the humiliating feeling of being a human rug. Still others find that the simple act of licking pussy or getting jizz all over their face and performing a public cum walk down the street to hit their humiliation buttons beautifully. The key is to find ways to disgust your submissive, and then demand that they take an active part in precisely the things they would otherwise choose to avoid entirely. After all, they are doing this because they want you to be proud of them more than they want to be proud of themselves.