Category: T

“Always go to the bathroom when you have a chance.”

-King George V

Definition

Toilet training is an extreme form of BDSM play that involves a deep level of submission, which can make this fetish arousing, though even some freak people think it is gross. During toilet training a submissive must ask whenever they want to go to the bathroom. They are not allowed to go except for when the Dominant offers permission. This is a form of high submission because the sub is surrendering their most basic human functions to their Dom. Subs who can’t control themselves may wear chastity devices which keep them from going until the Dom allows, or diapers to make accidents less disgusting to witnesses. There is also a great safety responsibility on the part of the Dom because bathroom use is something that everyone needs to stay healthy.

Making it Harder

Some people love to torment their subs even further, watching them eat heavy foods, take laxatives, or drink large volumes of liquid and then denying them the ability to go to the bathroom until the very last moment possible. These sadistic Doms enjoy hearing their bottoms beg for what most of us appreciate as a basic right. Sometimes couples use bathroom control as a form of punishment when the sub hasn’t done a good job in other areas of the relationship. Others enjoy seeing their subs wet themselves and that is part of the fetish for them. Failure by a sub to hold their water can be a reason for additional punishment, often in the form of spanking or similar physical and verbal reprimands. At times a Dom might rub their sub’s nose in the wet mess to train them better.

Social Responsibility

If you decide to have bathroom use control as part of your relationship, keep in mind that a sub will face serious repercussions if they end up wetting themselves at work or having accidents elsewhere in public. You should build in some kind of fail safe into your relationship so that your sub can use the bathroom if they are at their place of employment, if they are at the store, or visiting family. Another forgiveness many Doms like to give is if the sub is legitimately sick, they may use the bathroom as much as they want.

Graduation from Toilet Training

Ideally toilet training is a temporary form of play designed to demonstrate the severity of a Dom’s control over his sub until the sub accepts their place in the power structure of their relationship successfully. Extended periods of extreme toilet training are too often associated with unhealthy hygiene to be continued for too long. In some relationships a Dom will also host an elaborate ceremony, often attended by close friends, to honor their sub upon graduation from toilet training successfully.

“One of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you.”

-Nancy Sinatra

Definition

To be under the foot or shoe of a beautiful woman is a dream for many submissives out there and the trampling fetish takes it one step further. They actually want to be stepped on or even walked on by these mistresses. Some of them desire to be a human carpet, rolling themselves up in padding and laying on the floor at fetish events in front of areas with high traffic, allowing anyone and everyone to step on them while they order their soda for the evening or check their coats.

Technique

The best way to try trampling for the first time is barefoot for the Domme. Even if you have dreams of high heels, try it with no shoes first to see how your body handles it. Most react differently. Try stepping on their back first, and make sure that you have something to hold on to for the first time, so you can keep your balance. If that goes OK, strap on your hottest stilettos. Some actually enjoy having people step on their stomachs, but many out there think this is not a good idea because that’s where all of your vital organs are stored.

Step Up

For most people, getting stepped on sounds like a nightmare, except as a last ditch effort to fix a sore back. However, for those into it, it is a reminder of their submission to their Dominant. They truly feel they belong under their feet or shoes, and it makes them feel at home. Some have had these desires to get stepped on for as long as they can remember, and others got the idea when they started playing kinky sex games as an adult. Remember to have a safe word in place in case things get to intense for your submissive!

“If we couldn’t laugh we would all go insane.”

-Robert Frost

Definition

Tickling is something that most people have done at least once in their lives in a non-sexual manner. It’s when you make someone giggle by lightly stroking them, especially in the armpits or on the bottoms of the feet. Some people like to get tickled more roughly, with the fingers really digging into their most sensitive spots. Many who are into tickling as a sexual fetish enjoy seeing someone laughing and helpless, and love to use implements to further their happy desires. At first people think this is a strange fetish activity, but once they try it, they understand why there are a lot of fetishists for tickling out there. It’s nice to see someone smiling and laughing, and it’s also hot to see them struggling in a vulnerable moment.

How to Tickle for Sex

If tickling is your fetish then you should know that many people like to restrain their tickling subs with cuffs or rope to keep their most sensitive spots completely exposed and unable to be hidden. That way they can rub them and caress them, making them giggle for as long as they want, without the sub squirming around too much. If you get tired of using your hands, there are implements that people love to use to tickle including feathers, which are a favorite of tickling fetishists and other sensation toys. There are things called claws which you can wear on the tips of your fingers which add a nice sensation, and there are also soft toys like furs and light floggers which can be fun for tickling fetishists.

The Extreme Tickler

Some who love sexual tickling will not be satisfied until their tickling bottom wets themselves, which is a common occurrence when someone has been tickled to the brink. Whichever way you plan on playing, with tickling it’s important to implement a safe word because the person may be begging you to stop, but they really want the fun to continue, or they may be begging to stop for real safety reasons. The safe word should be something that you wouldn’t normally blurt out in the middle of a tickling session like “pineapple” or “Alabama.” When doing more extreme tickling play, such as having a group of people tickle one person, you should also monitor the person’s respiratory functions, since it’s easy to get out of breath and avoid using any obstruction like a ball gag unless you are very experienced and ready to take such a bold step together.