“I feel an army in my fist”
-Friedrich Schiller
Definition
The act of fisting shouldn’t be one that is very hard to figure out what it is. It’s when you stick your entire fist into someone’s orifice, whether it is a pussy or an asshole. There is an art to this act and it requires a lot of patience and tons of lube. You will also probably want to stretch out the hole before hand with toys and dildos before attempting to stick anything as big as a fist inside!
Guys vs. Gals
Fisting is different with guys versus girls, on both sides of the equation. Women have an easier time fisting people because they typically have smaller hands that slip inside easier when properly lubed. However, when they are on the other end of fisting, their pussy, which do have quite a bit of elasticity, still can’t stretch quite as wide as an asshole can, so it can be harder for a lady to get her pussy fisted than to have her lover wrist-deep into her asshole. Assholes are very elastic and there are guys who can take outrageously large things up their ass, including fists, but man fists can sometimes be too big to get access without extreme pain or the risk of tearing the rectum. Also keep in mind; women have a pussy and an asshole, so only females are capable of being double-fisted which makes them the clear winner in any gender-competition among fist fetishists.
Technique
In order to fist someone, you first need to warm up the hole with a few fingers. It it’s an asshole; it’s recommended to use objects of increasing size first to loosen things up. Once things seem open, start by inserting your hand in a “swan” shape. This is the most comfortable position, and the one most often used to insert the hand initially. Slowly keep pushing it in and mix in hesitations, withdrawals and plenty of lube along the way. The hardest part is the knuckles, and once someone is past that point, consider clenching your hand slowly at first before power-fisting them with gusto. Also, always remember to remove any jewelry from your hand before insertion, and have a safe word prepared in advance to ensure consent all the way from first contact to elbow deep in her sex sleeve.
The Extreme
There is plenty of evidence on the web of people getting fisted in their assholes up to an elbow. This is very freaky! When the fister moves their hand inside, you can see the movement in the fistee’s abDomen. This type of extreme play should be done between people who know each other well and who have good communication skills. It would be a mistake for a novice to suddenly start cramming his entire forearm up his girlfriend’s ass during first time fisting play. Remember, you want to fist her holes now and also long into the future. The key to fisting her often is to gradually build up her sexual ability level while honing your communication skills together. Treat her asshole and pussy like a complicated video game. You wouldn’t attack a boss monster when you are level one, and you should level up your fisting skills before fisting your way into her abDomen as well.