“You can’t play games with the girl who made the rules.”
-Chicha Bans
Definition
A dominatrix is someone who dominates in a BDSM context, but professionally. You can usually hire a dominatrix in your local area simply by looking online and looking at their ads, and most major cities have houses you can visit to hire a woman to put you in your place. One thing to notice is that many pro Dommes do not offer sexual services – some don’t want to give you a handjob or a blowjob, so you should definitely ask what a provider’s situation is before you assume anything. Overall, you can expect quality BDSM services from a dominatrix!
Etiquette
Don’t be surprised when a professional asks you for references or wants to view your social media presence before allowing you to come and visit them. They have to keep their safety in mind and it’s nothing personal. Other etiquette to be aware of is that it is common to tip a dominatrix. Even though their prices can be high, it shows that you appreciate them and the effort they put into crafting a session for you. You don’t have to give much, even an extra Andrew Jackson would put a smile on her face and help them remember you!
Specialties
Keep in mind that many Dommes have specialties. Some of them are great at bondage; others are perfect for corporal punishment scenes. Some Dommes like to do sissification, while others enjoy long term scenes. You have to find the Domme who is willing to do your scene and who likes what you’re into, so you might have to try a few different ones before you land on the one who is perfect for your BDSM interests. Seeing a few different women is a great idea anyways because then you will get to know the different options that are out there.