“I wouldn’t ever give myself the label ‘bisexual’, but bi-curious? Yea.”
-Adam Lambert
Definition
There is a big difference between bisexual and bicurious. If you are bisexual then you know that you like both guys and girls. Cocks and pussies don’t make a difference to you. If you are bicurious, you probably started out straight, but you are curious about what it might be like to interact with someone who is the same gender as you. Many bi-curious people are actually gay or bisexual, but they have been conditioned by society to try to be straight. While they are in their phase of experimentation, they can be considered bi-curious until they make a final decision on their sexuality.
How to Experiment
If you’re wondering whether or not you are bi, there are a lot of different things you could try. You could try watching some gay or lesbian porn, or perhaps a hot bisexual threesome to see how much it turns you on. You could also go on a dating site and try to see if there are any other bisexual people who suit your interests. If you’re already partnered, you could suggest having a threesome with someone who is the same gender as you and see how it goes, if your partner agrees. There are so many ways to find out how bisexual you really are!
In Gay Culture
In gay culture, if you say you’re bicurious, it usually means you are a straight dude who kind of wants to get with a guy, but for one reason or another, you haven’t done much yet. Bicurious guys are often considered to be gay dudes who are too scared to admit to themselves that they are gay, but there are also dudes who are truly bisexual and genuinely like both genders, so don’t write them off as simply gay. You can’t judge a book by its cover, for real!