“Pain is truth, all else is doubtful”
-J.M. Coetzee
Definition
Cock and Ball Torture is exactly what it sounds like. It is the act of torturing the cock and balls of a male submissive. There are many well-established methods to do this, which can be carefully calibrated to deliver a precise amount of pain, making it a preferred way for a Dominatrix to fine tune sex sessions for the desired result. Some people prefer tight cock and ball bondage while others favor painful clips, clamps and vices. There are some devices, inspired by medieval times, like The Humbler, which contribute to the level of torment. Though the acronym often used is CBT, it shouldn’t be confused with the psychological term Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, even though lots of those who enjoy this practice get a chuckle out of that ambiguity.
Homemade Tools
You probably have a lot of the tools you need for CBT right at home already. You can use a shoelace for cock bondage since a thin cord often works better than a thicker one. There are many great tutorials on the Internet for the specific knots and ties that work best. In addition, you can use simple tools like hair clips and notebook binder clips on the cock and balls. If you want to add a poking sensation to penis pain, use the wooden skewers that you might have used for shish kebabs at a summertime party. A rubber band is perfect for twanging a dick but beware it usually leaves long-lasting marks on the skin. Many experienced Doms prefer clothesline because it can be purchased with a wax coating that leaves less of a mark when released.
Safety First
When you are experimenting with Cock & Ball Torture it’s important to keep safety in mind. It’s very easy to get carried away as a sadist because torturing a man’s cock is super fun and gives an immediate response with each and every action. However, it’s important to have a safe word in place so anyone can stop the torturous action if it gets to be too much. You should know that dicks can take a lot of punishment but you should talk to the person you’re playing with before hand to see what type of pain they like and how much of it they can take. Some people are really tough with their dick pain while others howl after what may seem like only a benign flick of your fingers.
Why Would Anyone Want To Do This?
That’s the silly question so many squares like to ask. The answer is simple. Why would anyone want to eat an ice cream sundae? Why would a man want a pretty girl to suck his dick and gag on his cock until she is close to vomiting? What makes some people prefer sex with multiple partners while others enjoy monogamy? When we look deeper into the minds of other people, we look for reflections of our own self…. But as any experienced freak already knows, we are all unique and the expectation of finding yourself in others is nothing more than a fleeting illusion at best.