“Even the worst blowjob is still better than sniffing the best rose or watching the greatest sunset”
-Chuck Palahniuk
Definition
Facefucking is the act of grabbing someone’s head during a blowjob and shoving your cock as far down their throat as it will go, resulting in deepthroating, gagging and plenty of messy drool. Deepthroating can be done slowly by the blowjob giver, without facefucking, but it’s just not as much fun. There is a special joy in finding a slut capable of allowing their face to be fucked as deep and hard as their pussy or ass takes it. Many people enjoy the thick drool that comes up from a facefuck session, which is the perfect cock-coating lube for slamming her other holes afterward. In many instances, serious facefucking can result in vomiting and crying, or can be the start of more intense breath play.
Safety First
Due to the fact that your dick is about to completely block her ability to speak, it is imperative that you establish safe signals prior to fucking her face. Safe words are popular, but when you are balls-deep in the back of her throat she won’t be able to say anything at all. To keep both of you safe by confirming consent throughout the messiest facefuck of her life, choose simple signals she can use to tell you when she needs to come up for air. Dive signals like thumbs up or thumbs down work well, as does a simple Mixed Martial Arts styled tap out motion.
Domination & Submission
Facefucking is often done as part of Dom/sub play because the person getting their face fucked is so clearly submitting to the will of their Master. Deepthroating, when done on its own, could be done in a submissive, Dominant or neutral manner. In some bondage porn, you will see the sub getting facefucked while she is tied up and helpless – a physical challenge, indeed! And let’s note – facefucking is not just for the guys. Ladies can fuck their male or female sub’s face with a strap-on cock when they are in the mood!
How to Improve
Many women wish they could be better at sucking dick, because they find the idea of being facefucked hot but are too shy to tell their lover about their worries. How can a willing sub improve their deepthroat skills? Practice makes perfect. Any submissive slut reading this should immediately go buy a dildo – don’t skimp on size, you want one that is at least two inches longer than your mate’s cock with similar thickness to his dick. When you are alone, practice shoving it down your throat. Sure, you’ll gag a lot at first. But begin slowly and gradually you will build up enough of a tolerance to throatfuck yourself hard enough to cause your gag reflex to fade away like a summer tan in January. Remember, when you first start out things will get messy and that’s perfectly normal. Clean up before anyone else comes home and nobody will be the wiser about your deepthroat practice sessions.